Personally, the first thing to clarify is that most people are passive in making friends. Only a few people consciously like to make more friends and maintain their feelings can they gain wide popularity and contacts. I think there are several steps to make friends: 1, and I want to know clearly whether to make friends or socialize, that is, it seems that there are many friends and I have a good relationship with most friends; If you want to make sincere friends in the first situation, you should learn to take the initiative, especially when others encounter something, you should take the initiative to participate in the discussion, give advice or comfort others. Remember, under the premise that you are not particularly attractive, you must take the initiative to care about others, so as to gain the trust and goodwill of others; If you are a second kind of friend, you should learn to identify who can be your real friend on the basis of the first kind, and then actively communicate, exchange views on some things, see if you are like-minded, do something together, and see if your values can become friends. The most important point, initiative and communication, is very important; Personally, I don't think I'm good at it, especially sometimes I really don't take the initiative.