? "Bangkok Gay Friends", this name does not attract me at all. The first and second seasons only have 12 episodes each, and the Douban score is as high as 9 points. I browsed through the list several times and found nothing with a higher score. When I opened it and watched the first episode, I felt it was very realistic and completely different from the brainless and sweet plot. You can't fast forward this kind of drama. The realistic style is not my cup of tea. This kind of drama is slow to watch, but after watching it, I feel that there may be a reason for the high ratings.
? Arm (29 years old, creative staff) asked Aof, you are so lucky to have been with the same person for 5 years. Aof said this is not a matter of luck, it is a matter between two people. Do you know how much I changed to fit in. There's always a lot to think about along the way, but they're right, when you two stay together for a long time, you become like friends. Arm asked what is going on like a friend? Don't you have sex? Aof: You know that orgasm only takes up 5 minutes in 24 hours.
? Aof broke up with her boyfriend because her boyfriend had just graduated and he was already 35. What he pursued was daily companionship, while what his boyfriend pursued was passion and sex. Later, the boyfriend talked with his one-night stand partner: "You don't need to judge people by their sex. Some people like open relationships, and some people like to identify a person as a person. Even if there is no sex, any kind of relationship is fine, as long as you find the person who thinks the same as you." . "Yes, this way no one will get hurt because of this."
? Pom (28 years old, marketing director) is a reserved and passive type, so he should take his time when facing someone he likes. Aut doesn’t like him, but his friend is very proactive, so the two of them are together. , so he quarreled with his friend Arm and stopped talking. The active type is indeed more dazzling and attractive. When there is a proactive person in his life who treats him kindly and says flirtatious words, he mistakenly thinks that the person likes him. Maybe this is just someone else's style and way of doing things. I also bought a Rolex watch as a gift for the other party’s birthday. When the other party said he didn’t like him, he told him that he didn’t like him and asked him to accept the gift for the sake of face. Then the watch became the other party’s capital to show off. I feel like the passive and shy type really loses face. (Crazy)
? Each of the three pairs of lovers has their own problems. Among them, the conversation between Aof and the brother who likes him "Do you like to take care of others? Aof said that I like to do things for others. Brother, you Is that the same?" Brother said, "I think it's just more about being self-centered and making myself happy." Aof said, "I haven't thought about it like this before. I just want to be good to others." Brother said, "It depends on the other person and the person." Do we have the same idea?
This is what I said before, don’t ask others to treat you well, you can draw a road map for those who love you to love you. Don't love others in your own way, or they may suffocate in your love. Communication and feedback are important. Learn to love the other person the way they like.
? Watching the second season, the various conflicts between lovers become more apparent. Most of the time it’s because you find that the other person does something that makes you feel that there is a misunderstanding, such as signs of cheating. Some lovers will feel that the other person is afraid of rekindling if they contact their ex-boyfriend. In fact, it may be because they have no self-confidence and a sense of security. Some lovers will think that the ex-boyfriend is also your friend, so they are not jealous. Of course it may be that he has richer experiences and is more mature, or it may be that he doesn't love you enough.
? As for Aof not being interested in sex, it was discussed in it. No matter what the views are, the part involving two people must communicate. It is best if they can be consistent. If not, someone needs to compromise. Tolerance must be enough.
? Aof’s boyfriend is a few years younger than him. He just graduated from college and majored in aviation. They have different experiences and different ideas. One pursues stable and dull feelings, while the other pursues excitement. After the boyfriend and he had conflicts and quarrels, they separated for a while. The boyfriend enjoyed the nightlife and hooked up. When he finally met a sex partner who wanted to be a lover, the other person just wanted to hook up with him, and then he found out that the other person had lied to him. The other person has a boyfriend. At this time he was injured. Maybe this is the hurtful part of feelings. Two people have different emotional needs, different needs in a relationship, and different views on the relationship.
? In the end, Aof's boyfriend returned, but the rift between them was irreparable. Aof was a serious person, and he was mentally concerned. Later, in order to improve the relationship, they had a threesome. Unexpectedly, Aof couldn't let go at first. , but in the end, Aof had a good relationship with the new person, and her boyfriend became an outsider, and finally quit. Although they had been in a relationship for five years and were reluctant to let go, the relationship was exclusive, and few people could handle a threesome well, so they had to break up in the end.