A friend is another self: when you are with sunny people, your heart will not be gloomy; when you are with happy people, you will always have a smile on your lips; when you are with enterprising people, your actions will not fall behind; When you are with generous people, you will not be stingy in dealing with things; when you are with wise people, you will not be confused when things happen; when you are with smart people, you will be smart in doing things. Borrow the wisdom of others to improve yourself. Learn from the best of others and be the best of yourself.
Smile reflects your character and cultivation, better than all the wonderful clothes and makeup; self-confidence, stretches your personality and shows your style; learning, a weapon for tackling difficulties, a magic weapon for winning; listening, you Only by walking into other people's hearts can you see clearly what they need; tenacity, whether it is hell or heaven, depends on the last step you take; kindness, don't think it is weak, it can take you through many obstacles.
In the Three Kingdoms, Mr. Shui Jing (Mr. Shui Jing, Sima Hui) was a famous bachelor in the late Eastern Han Dynasty. He had a close relationship with celebrities such as Pang Degong, Xu Shu, Han Song, Shi Tao and others, and was known as Pang De. It is called "Water Mirror". Sima Hui is a highly respected figure in the Romance of the Three Kingdoms. What he said is very reasonable. For example, he said that although Zhuge Liang got his master, he did not get it at the right time, which was praised as very accurate. ) once said: "Wolong and Fengchu, one of them can settle the world!" In order to "pacify the world", Liu Bei once visited the thatched cottage three times to invite Zhuge Liang to come out. After occupying Jingzhou, he got Pang Tong to help. Logically speaking, there are two With well-known advisers assisting him, it makes sense that Liu Bei should dominate the world, but why did he end up with the fate of "collapse in the middle before starting a business"?
People in the past dynasties have different opinions on this issue, but the mainstream view is that one is: Liu Bei is emotional. Take the three brothers Liu, Guan, and Zhang as an example. In order to let Zhang Fei grow up, Liu Bei gave him Xuzhou to garrison regardless of the actual situation. However, the final result was a big disappointment. It is not known whether Zhang Fei has grown up, but Xuzhou fell It's true. When Guan Yu died in a foreign country, Liu Bei was eager for revenge. Regardless of the opposition of Zhuge Liang and others, he resolutely led troops to attack Soochow. As a result, the battle was a disastrous defeat. Not only did he lose many loyal ministers and good generals, but it also directly affected Zhuge Liang Longzhong's blueprint for unifying the world. , and eventually Liu Bei himself died in depression in Baidi City.
Second: Cannot distinguish primary and secondary contradictions. In fact, Liu Bei was able to occupy Jingzhou precisely because of Zhuge Liang, and Pang Tong decided on three strategies to capture Xichuan. However, it can be said that Pang Tong's death at Luofengpo was destiny. If he had not died, perhaps Xi Shu would be in a different situation. Here we have to talk about Zhuge Liang. Although it is said that he can settle the world, Zhuge Liang's strategic policy for Liu Bei is to reject Cao Cao in the north and tie up with Sun Quan in the south. Waiting for the opportunity. However, due to Guan Yu's willfulness, he defeated Maicheng. But Liu Bei insisted on going his own way and his company was burned down. Liu Bei's group lost a large number of generals. This directly led to Cao Pi not having enough power to call for nationwide resistance against Cao Pi when he proclaimed himself emperor. It can be said that the prospect of winning the world ended when Guan Yu lost Jingzhou.
On the other hand, the factions on Liu Bei's side are relatively complex, including the early veteran faction, the Jingzhou faction, and the later Xichuan faction. It might have been possible to integrate it when Liu Bei was alive, but Li Yan, the representative of the Yizhou faction in Tuogu, was suppressed by Zhuge Liang of the Jingzhou faction. As a result, the people in Yizhou were not reused, and the talents of Jingzhou elders withered. These are also one of the reasons why you cannot conquer the world.
After the deaths of Liu Bei and Cao Cao, Zhuge Liang encountered Sima Yi from Wei State. This man was Zhuge Liang’s rival, and his intelligence was not inferior to Zhuge Liang’s. In addition, Adou, whom Zhuge Liang supported, was far from Liu Bei’s talent and strategy. In contrast, he is a weak king who cannot be supported. Relying on Zhuge Liang's efforts to achieve the great cause of unifying the world can only be a "fantasy." There is a saying among the people: "The three cobblers defeated Zhuge Liang." What's more, Sima Yi's group in the later period was full of talents. Sima Shi, Sima Zhao, Zhong Xiang, Deng Ai, etc. were all elites among the people. Zhuge Liang "dedicated himself to death and died." "After that, Jiang Wei, who was far inferior to Zhuge Liang, could not support himself alone. Not to mention the great cause of unifying the world, I am afraid that the only thing left was the fate of lingering and subjugating the country.
Therefore, it is no idle talk that the two of them, Crouching Dragon and Phoenix, can settle down the world together. Many things are really beyond human power. Although both Crouching Dragon and Phoenix have returned to Liu Bei, Liu Bei still failed to unify the world. There is Liu Bei's stupidity in not wanting to die in his crusade against Jiangdong, and there is also his helplessness in not listening to others and making his own decisions. As the saying goes, it is up to people to make things happen, but it is up to God to make things happen. Maybe this is all God's will!
The Three Kingdoms are like a drop in the ocean in the long history. There are many heroes and heroes who have been remembered in history books for a long time, but they cannot be remembered in history without their ability. There are also many geniuses in the Three Kingdoms who were crushed by the wheels of history and disappeared in the rolling dust. They either died early in the cracks of history, or died tragically in the struggle for power. Today I would like to introduce to you the geniuses in the cracks of the Three Kingdoms - the four prodigies of the Three Kingdoms.
1. Cao Chong
Cao Chong, courtesy name Cangshu, was a figure in the late Eastern Han Dynasty and the son of Cao Cao and Mrs. Huan. He was smart, kind, and unique since he was a child, and was deeply loved by Cao Cao. There is an allusion that "Cao Chong calls Xiang". In addition to Cao Chong calling the elephant, Cao Chong also used his talents to save the little official who kept the library when he was a child. It is said that one day when Cao Chong was wandering around, he saw the clerk in the warehouse crying. Cao Chong asked him what was wrong. He said: The prime minister's whip was bitten by a rat. It is an ominous sign that the whip is bitten by a rat before the war begins. The prime minister will definitely kill me. Cao Chong said: Don't be afraid, I have a way. Later, Cao Chong cut his favorite clothes into a shape that had been bitten by a mouse with scissors, put it in a box and cried aside. After seeing it, Cao Chong comforted him not to be sad. Dad will buy you another one. Later, Cao Cao found out that his whip was bitten by a rat but did not punish the clerk. He said: My son's clothes in the box were all bitten by rats, not to mention the whip. Cao Chong is not only quick-thinking, but also has a benevolent heart. In troubled times, human life is as cheap as an ant. If anyone else is in a high position, who would care about the life of a subordinate. But God was unfair. Cao Chong fell ill and died at the age of thirteen. Some people speculated that Cao Pi killed Cao Chong in his fight for power. This shows that the emperor's family has no mercy.
2. Zhou Buyi
Zhou Buyi, with a courtesy name of Yuan Zhi, was born in Chong'an, Lingling. Liu Biao was Liu Xian's nephew. He had few talents and was smart and agile. At the age of seventeen, he wrote four essays. Zhou Buyi got close to Liu Bei while he was in Jingzhou. Liu Bei wanted to let Liu Ba, the prodigy mentioned above, teach Zhou Buyi, but Liu Ba refused. After Liu Biao's death, Zhou Buyi followed Liu Cong to Cao Cao, and later met Cao Chong in Xuchang. The two had a good relationship. Cao Cao also liked Zhou Buyi very much and intended to marry his daughter to him, but unfortunately Zhou Buyi refused. After Cao Chong died, Cao Cao often thought of Cao Chong when he saw Zhou Buyi, so he wanted to send someone to kill Zhou Buyi. Cao Pi interceded for him. Cao Cao said: Zhou Buyi is a man of great talent. If only your brother Cao Chong was better, you There is no way to control him. It is said that Zhou Buyi not only wrote articles and poems himself, but also drew pictures and provided suggestions for Cao Cao to capture Liucheng. It is a pity that a generation of child prodigies died because they were too smart and were feared by others. This is not only thought-provoking.
3. Xia Hourong
Maybe everyone has heard of the first two, but everyone is not very familiar with Xia Hourong. This Xia Hourong is the son of Xia Houyuan who was killed by Huang Zhong in Dingjun Mountain. He is also the younger brother of Zhang Fei's wife Xia Houjuan. He is also the uncle of Zhang Xingcai and Liu Chan's uncle. This person has been familiar with the art of war since childhood and has a photographic memory. One time, Cao Pi showed him the list of guests at a banquet, and he memorized them all without missing any one. Later, in the Battle of Hanzhong, his father was shot dead by veteran Huang Zhong. Xia Hourong, who was thirteen years old at the time, pulled him to escape. He said: My father died in the battle, how could I escape, so he fought to the death and died. If Xia Hourong had not died, with his abilities and status, he might have been able to hold a high position in Cao Wei. With his wisdom, Sima Yi might not have had the chance to usurp Cao Wei's kingdom. The tragic scene of earth mourning.
4. Zhuge Ke
Zhuge, whose courtesy name is Yuanxun, was born in Langxie. During the Three Kingdoms period, he was a powerful official in the Eastern Wu Dynasty, the nephew of Zhuge Liang, the prime minister of the Shu Han Dynasty, and the eldest son of the general Zhuge Jin. Zhuge Ke was quick-thinking and eloquent, and no one in Wu could compare with him in terms of eloquence.
When Zhuge Ke was six years old, there was a banquet where Sun Quan ordered someone to bring in a donkey with the words Zhuge Ziyu on it, insinuating that Zhuge Jin had a long face. Everyone laughed at the scene. Zhuge Ke ran up and added two words, which became "Zhuge Ziyu". "Yu's donkey", all the guests at the scene were amazed. Sun Quan also praised him for being so smart at a young age and said he was a beautiful piece of jade. However, as an adult, Zhuge Ke took control of the power of the Wu State and acted willfully. Sun Jun secretly joined forces with Sun Liang, the Lord of Wu, to lure Zhuge Ke into the palace and killed Zhuge Ke at the banquet. He was fifty-one years old at the time.
At this point, the editor will add one more thing. It is said that Langya Zhuge has a dragon, a tiger and a dog. The dragon is the Wolong Zhuge Liang, who was acquired by the Shu Han; the tiger is Zhuge Jin, who was acquired by Sun Wu. One dog was Zhuge Dan and was acquired by Cao Wei. They are all heroes of the moment. What we want to talk about now is not them, but their son. Zhuge Liang's son Zhuge Zhan died fighting when Deng Ai entered Shu. He had a reputation for loyalty. Zhuge Jin's son Zhuge Ke was even more of a prodigy for a while. However, Zhuge Liang, the son of Zhuge Dan, is not known to the world. When Zhuge Dan rebelled against Wei, Zhuge Liang went to Soochow as a hostage to obtain reinforcements from Soochow. After Zhuge Dan died, he served Soochow and surrendered to Jin after the death of Wu. However, Because of his father's hatred, he stayed out of office for the rest of his life, and people at that time praised him for his filial piety.
In troubled times, no matter whether they are ordinary people or princes and generals, they all have no control over their own actions. If you are in a high position today, your head may be missing tomorrow. As the saying goes: It is better to be a peace dog than a person in troubled times. We must all cherish the hard-won peace and work hard for the prosperity of China.
Wang Yun, a Situ during Dong Zhuo's chaos. In the Eastern Han Dynasty, Situ, together with Taiwei and Sikong, were called the Three Dukes. Being able to hold the high position of Situ when Dong Zhuo was in power shows that Wang Yun still has two brushes. If it sounds good, he is tolerant and waits for an opportunity to eliminate Dong Zhuo and help the Han Dynasty;
Wang Yun actually did two earth-shaking things in the last year of his life. One was to get rid of the powerful minister Dong Zhuo (using his adopted daughter Diao Chan to perform a beauty trick), and the other was to kill Dong Zhuo. Literary scholar Cai Yong. Dong Zhuo held great power in the government and was cruel and cruel. Getting rid of him was not only a political struggle, but also a way to eliminate harm for the people. Cai Yong was an apolitical scholar and an intellectual admired by everyone. Wang Yun changed his mind after getting rid of Dong Zhuo. He was not spared and was arrested and imprisoned, where he was hanged. For this reason, Cai Yong's death not only makes people shake their heads with sadness, but also makes people incredible.
The most direct cause of Cai Yong’s death was doing the wrong thing to the wrong person at the wrong time and in the wrong place. Dong Zhuo was executed and the whole country celebrated, but Cai Yong "lay his body and cried loudly". This gave Wang Yun, who was newly in power, a clue. Wang Yun was the murderer who directly caused Cai Yong's death. Although Cai Yong was indirectly responsible for his own death: he knew that Dong Zhuo should be killed, which was in line with the popular will of the people, but he went against the grain and cried for Zhuo to show his personal gratitude. This is simply shooting oneself in the foot and wasting one's life. Wang Yun is directly responsible: he knew clearly that Cai Yong should not be killed, and the officials cherished his talents and tried their best to rescue him, but he refused to listen and insisted on killing Cai Yong to show that the country was listening.
In fact, Wang Yun's killing of Cai Yong was not as he said, which was detrimental to his saintliness and worried about criticism, but because he was jealous of Cai Yong's talents. There are three reasons.
For one, they have different personalities.
Wang Yun and Cai Yong both have a patriotic heart. However, Wang Yun was paranoid, narrow-minded, rigid and evil, and his circle was deserted, so he lived a tiring life; Cai Yong was open-minded, open-minded and cheerful, arrogant and arrogant, and had many friends, so his life was relatively easy. Comparing the two, their personalities were incompatible and formed a huge contrast, which caused Wang Yun's inferiority complex and a sense of loss. As a result, the two of them were destined to die and could not survive;
Second , two people have different talents.
Cai Yong, the imperial concubine of the dynasty, Ma Ri?, was said to be an outstanding talent with a long history of filial piety. He was also a person in the late Eastern Han Dynasty who was able to master classics, history, astronomy, mathematics, painting, calligraphy, music, etc. A cultural all-rounder in various categories, a super master who has an absolute advantage in the literary world and can be condescending and overlook everything. Compared with Cai Yong, Wang Yun was a scholar and a politician.
When it comes to politics, he can use tricks to seize power, which is top-notch, and he is worthy of being called Wang Zuocai by Guo Tai, one of the three sages of Jiexiu (a famous scholar in the Eastern Han Dynasty, who together with Xu Shao praised Guo); when it comes to literature, he is still not very good, so he can be regarded as a good one. Second rate. Compared with Cai Yong, he pales in comparison and is not at the same level at all;
Thirdly, the two have different pursuits.
Cai Yong did not seek to gain knowledge and reach the princes, but only sought to protect his family from persecution. He relied on Dong Zhuo without talent. This was a passive and helpless move by Cai Yong. Although Cai Yong was attached to Dong Zhuo, he did not act as his pawn. Instead, he used Dong Zhuo's courtesy, respect and trust in Cai Yong to persuade Dong Zhuo to benefit the people of the world. Wang Yun was different. His ideas were not as simple as Cai Yong's. Although there is no indication whether Wang Yun actively or passively surrendered to Dong Zhuo, Wang Yun was still able to maintain a high position as a Situ in Dong Zhuo's chaotic country, which shows that Wang Yun was very trusted by Dong Zhuo. Otherwise, Wang Yun would have become Lu Zhi's second best. Wang Yun followed Dong Zhuo around. At best, it can be understood that he avoided his sharp edge, committed himself to the traitors, and waited for the opportunity. He was an Infernal Affairs hero who was in the enemy's camp and his heart was with Han; at worst, he acted as Dong Zhuo's helper. An accomplice or thug, he wisely protected himself and became a typical opportunist who corrupted the outline of the Han Dynasty.
Wang Yun executed Cai Yong because of jealousy and acted as the executioner of Cai Yong's death. He paid an immeasurable price for it and was criticized by future generations. In fact, Wang Yun's fault was just like Cai Yong's. He ignored the wishes of everyone with his own selfishness. The final result is just as Ma Ri? said: "Princes and princes have no descendants." The price is heavy and the lessons are profound. It was precisely because of Wang Yun's insistence on going his own way that Dong Zhuo's remaining troops mutinied and counterattacked Chang'an, causing the Eastern Han Dynasty, which had finally restored stability, to fall into a greater military disaster. This is something to talk about later.
Chinese people live a tiring life. Once a child is born, he is the hope of the family. Once a man starts a family, he becomes the backbone of the family. I have to support him whether he can support him or not. Once a woman gets married, she becomes a virtuous wife, and she has to behave obediently whether she is virtuous or not. Children live in their parents’ expectations, and parents live in their children’s future. In fact, everyone has their own independent life, and the best family life is to be independent and support each other.
Those who are too strong will have easy plans; those who are too soft will have trouble accomplishing things; those who are soft on the inside and strong on the outside will be really weak and pretend to be strong; those who are soft on the outside and strong on the inside will be unstoppable; those who are dignified and steady will be accepted by others. Respect; those who act frivolously will be despised by others; those who are arrogant are in danger, and those who are arrogant are weak; those who are too clever and show off their virtues have little virtue, and those who are too talented have little blessings; those who take the superior will be punished, and those who take the inferior will not be long; smile secretly to the corner alone , the plot succeeds; the fleeting smile hides anger behind it.