Many people agree with each other when they are in love, but they don't correctly understand each other's three views of personality. Let's take a look at the questions that 17 must ask before falling in love and get to know each other better.

1. Ask the other person what his plans are for the future. Since we have established a love relationship, we naturally hope to grow old together. From this perspective, you need to know whether the other party has any plans for your future.

2. Ask if the other person's love for you is sincere. In fact, in love, we can find out each other's thoughts through some details. When you are in love, you must understand this truth in your heart. At this point, we must not be careless.

3. Ask the other person if you can accept your shortcomings. When we first fell in love, we might not think about it. But when you are in love, as two people spend more and more time together, this problem becomes very important.

4. How many times have you been in love? How many people are still in contact? Through this question, we can know his love history and see if he is a promiscuous person. If you still keep in touch with your ex-girlfriend, you can consider whether to stay with him.

Do you think we have anything in common? Through this question, you can see that he doesn't know much about you, depending on whether he is talking about superficial similarity (hobby) or deeper similarity (three views are close).

6. What are your shortcomings and will you correct them? Everyone has shortcomings. Only those who can notice and correct their own shortcomings will notice the differences in feelings and handle them well.

7. What should a good life be like for you? What is asked here is his understanding of life. Perhaps we can see what elements his ideal life contains. What will it be like? Whether it is what you dream of pursuing.

8. In five minutes, describe what you know about me. Asking questions can let you know how you exist in the other person's mind, which is also very important for you, right?

9. Is there anything you always wanted to do but didn't do? Why is it useless? What he wants to do will be his dream; An unfinished dream will be his regret. This question can let you see a different him.

10, what is your relationship with your relatives? If you have a bad relationship with your relatives, what may be the reason? You should understand this truth, because relatives are one of the special factors in the process of growth, which will affect his attitude towards others in the future.

1 1. What's too serious to joke about? Through this question, we can understand each other's scale and see which topics can't be touched.

12, tell me about the most embarrassing moment in your life? People who can share their most embarrassing moments with you must regard you as one of their own.

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3. What kind of relationship do you think love relationship is? what is love ? This is a question worth pondering, asking both the other side and yourself.

14, what do you think are the rights and obligations of both parties in love? Learn more about each other's views on love and clarify the rights and obligations of both parties. In the process of future love, you can follow the rules of mutual recognition.

15, there is a quarrel in love, how should we communicate and solve it? Even parents and children have arguments. How can there be a relationship without an argument? It is not important to avoid quarreling, but communication and good attitude after quarreling will make love go further.

16. What do you think is the reason for the breakdown of love relationship? Predict in advance what will break your relationship, and then try to avoid touching on those reasons. If you are kind to them, maybe your feelings will not disappear.

17. What do you like best about me? What do you dislike most about me? Understand each other's views on themselves and their own shortcomings in their eyes.