1. A woman should be gentle, have a peaceful smile, and be popular with the family.

2. Children are the ones who create the industry, not the ones who inherit the inheritance.

3. Think of filial piety when serving others, and respect when dealing with others; devote yourself to hard work to practice virtue and justice.

4. Be filial to the elderly and teach your children and grandchildren strictly; respect the old and love the young, and be affectionate.

5. My family has lived in the Song Dynasty for more than three hundred years, and we must not forget that our descendants will not be in official positions.

6. Young people don’t know how to study hard, and when they are old they will regret that they were late in studying.

7. Husband and wife are the auspicious stars of a family, rooted in love.

8. Do not do evil because it is small, and do not do good because it is small.

9. Being full of merit and gentleness is called sex as gray.

10. I am only concentrating on my studies, so don’t waste your youth lightly.

11. There is a road to the mountain of books, and hard work is the path to it, and hard work is the boat to the boundless ocean of learning.

12. There will always be a day to think about the previous day, but don’t wait until there is no time to think about the time.

13. Promote diligence and thrift in housekeeping, saving is glorious and waste is shameful.

14. The two words for inheriting a family are reading and farming, and the two words for building a family are thrift and diligence.

15. A married man is like treasure, a prodigal son is like grass.

16. If you can’t do it, don’t say it. There is no dignity if your words don’t count.

17. Women are the mother of the country, the wife of the family, and the wife of people.

18. He is diligent and respectful, even if he is a fool, he is wise and wise.

19. Anyone who does not love himself truly lacks the qualifications to be a father.

20. Gold is not a treasure, not a treasure book, and everything is empty, good and not empty.

Chapter 2

1. Being mean-spirited and arrogant and extravagant is a sign of prodigality.

2. People leave their children and grandchildren with wealth, but I leave my children and grandchildren with innocence.

3. If you want to have a high family status, you must do good deeds, and if you want to have good children and grandchildren, you must study.

4. Without indifference, there is no clear ambition, and without tranquility, there is no far-reaching goal.

5. Be close to the wise and distant from the villain; value etiquette and integrity.

6. Don’t take ill-gotten gains if you see them, but follow what is reasonable.

7. There are three kinds of men: weak husband, violent husband and husband.

8. It is difficult for everyone to recite sutras, but only happy recitation can be done.

9. If a woman is busy, a man will be silent; if a woman is not gentle, the family will not be prosperous.

10. Don’t rely on yourself to look after others, even if you are humble, you will do your best.

11. Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings, so don’t work for them.

12. A man is the backbone of the family. He must be sensible, ambitious, and take care of his wife regardless of his wife.

13. A flawless jade can be a national weapon; a filial son can be a national auspiciousness.

14. A porridge and a meal should be remembered as hard-earned; half a thread and half a strand should be kept in mind that material resources are difficult.

15. Emphasis on moral cultivation and strict moral character; support justice and denounce evil.

16. When naming the descendants of the Fang family, the descendants of the family should be named with one character in the middle and one character in the back. There should be no confusion.

17. Parents are their children’s first teachers, and family is their children’s first school.

18. Husbands and wives should make up for each other’s mistakes instead of blaming each other.

19. Those who accumulate extensively will cause harm to their descendants; those who are sensual will ruin their lives.

20. Supporting parents is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and it will be passed down from generation to generation starting from me. Classic Family Instructions and Family Rules Quotes

Classic Family Instructions and Family Rules Quotations Part 1

1. Do not make your elders suspicious, and do not make your parents angry.

2. There are no virtuous fathers and brothers in life, and there are no strict teachers and friends outside, and there are very few who can succeed.

3. It is better to be prepared before it rains and not to dig a well when thirsty.

4. It is better to seek from the straight, than from the crooked.

5. Be honest and serve the public, work diligently for the people, have a breeze on your sleeves, and your generosity will last forever.

6. Don’t rely on yourself to look after others, even if you are humble, you can do your best.

7. Accumulate grain to prevent hunger, accumulate virtue to prevent old age, send your children to study, and your children will practice filial piety.

8. People should not be happy when they are in trouble.

9. I bully others when I am in power, and I am bullied by those who are defeated; I chase a dog in a poor alley, but a poor dog in the alley bites me.

10. I am only concentrating on my studies now, so don’t waste your youth lightly.

11. Without indifference, there is no clear ambition, and without tranquility, there is no far-reaching goal.

12. Respect and love each other, trust and help each other, understand and give in to each other, comfort and encourage each other.

13. You should leave room for everything, and you should not continue to be satisfied.

14. Don’t use small favors to hurt the general public, and don’t use public opinion to gain personal feelings.

15. Unite neighbors, be kind to others, behave wisely, and put integrity first.

16. When the family is in harmony and everything is prosperous, work together to break the gold.

17. When a family is of one mind, there is no need to worry about everything going wrong. If you give me a hard time, half of the house will be ruined.

18. Don’t forget the knowledge of poverty and lowliness, and the wife of chaff will not go to court.

19. Respect the elderly when you are above, and love the young when you are below. Use gratitude to improve everything and make the family harmonious.

20. Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. Don’t treat your children and grandchildren like cattle and horses. If you have books to read, you need to read more. Don’t let your children and grandchildren have a good future. Chapter 2 of Classic Family Instructions and Famous Quotes

21. The two words for inheriting a family are reading and cultivating, and the two words for building a family are frugality and diligence.

22. Put righteousness first, treat neighbors as friends, be generous and treat others with kindness.

23. Don’t be arrogant when you are in control, and you must cultivate yourself when you encounter slander.

24. Be kind to others, be friends with your neighbors, be strict with yourself and forgiving others, and forget past mistakes.

25. Don’t create right and wrong, don’t say right and wrong, don’t preach right and wrong, don’t listen to right and wrong, take responsibility for right and wrong, and don’t be afraid of right and wrong. Harmonize the family and avoid any disputes, otherwise the old man will be missing.

26. Be an upright person and do the right thing.

27. You should know that learning is difficult and only depends on your hard work.

28. The spirit of diligence, thrift, and hard work should be carried forward at all times.

29. Diligence and thrift are the foundation of a life, and education is the foundation of a family. Great blessings are all the same as destiny, and small wealth must be diligent.

30. My family has lived in the Song Dynasty for more than three hundred years, and we must not forget that our descendants will not be in official positions.

31. When you are in a wealthy place, you should show pity to the poor and humble.

32. A beloved child should be restrained and should not let him ask for anything. It becomes a habit over time and is not easy to harvest when it grows up. Guide them with etiquette and supervise their cultivation of benevolence and virtue; aspire to achieve great things and serve the people.

33. When you see benefit, think of righteousness; when you see water, think of its source; when you see difficulty, think of loyalty; when you see virtue, think of virtuous people.

34. Be courageous and knowledgeable, be polite and courteous, be affectionate and righteous, and gain and lose.

35. The father is kind and the son is filial, the husband sings and the wife follows, the neighborhood is harmonious, and respects morality and righteousness.

36. Honor your ancestors with all your heart, serve your country with all your loyalty, make friends with all your heart, and start your own business with all your heart.

37. Whether you are beautiful or not depends on the water in your hometown; whether you are close or not, it depends on the people in your hometown.

38. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are harmonious, the husband and wife are close, the children and grandchildren are filial, and the family business is prosperous.

39. You must be frugal in serving yourself, and do not linger over dinner parties.

40. If you are eccentric, you will regret and make many mistakes. Part Three of Classic Family Instructions and Family Rules

41. When naming the descendants of the Fang family, the descendants of the family should be named according to one character in the middle and one character in the back. There should be no disorder.

42. Study seriously, work diligently, work honestly, and behave in an upright manner.

43. Being mean-spirited and arrogant and extravagant is a sign of prodigality.

44. Brothers and sisters should help each other, husband and wife should obey each other, elders and children should be orderly, and neighbors should be tolerant.

45. Respect the elderly and the virtuous, love the young and be charitable, behave in a steady manner and use civilized language.

46. The meaning of a daughter-in-law is to calm down the discord in the family, to be the auspicious messenger of a harmonious family, to be equal and kind to everyone, and to bring blessings to the whole family.

47. A dead tree grows again when spring comes, and no one can grow young again twice.

48. A little tolerance for everything means a blessing.

49. The elders are the virtuous stars of the family, and they should take virtue as the root. Virtue means taking responsibility for the faults of the family and being at peace with the faults of the whole family.

50. Being unfilial to parents-in-law has sown the seeds. When the children grow up, they will also receive the consequences of their children being unfilial to themselves.

51. Diligence and thrift are not temporary savings, but a lifetime of persistence and hard work.

52. As the saying goes, everything thrives when the family is in harmony. The prosperity of the country, the harmony of the society, the happiness of personal life, the prosperity of the career, and the health of the body all depend on the foundation of a harmonious family.

53. When people are happy, they should not be jealous.

54. Don’t resent your children, don’t beat or scold them, teach them by example, and guide them earnestly. The success or failure of children is related to the moral character of their parents. Learn to reflect on whether your own education methods are appropriate.

55. If you govern your family strictly, your family will be harmonious; if you live in a rural area, your hometown will be harmonious.

56. As children, you should take it as your responsibility to fulfill your filial piety, be able to inherit the ancestral legacy, carry forward the family tradition, and aspire to be better than your predecessors.

57. Support your parents, educate your children, start a business and get rich, and be diligent and thrifty in running your home.

58. Children are the ones who create the property, not the ones who inherit the inheritance.

59. Be harmonious with your neighbors, be kind to others, be kind in your words, be gentle in your deeds, eat enough to satisfy your appetite, don’t be greedy for delicious food, don’t take anything inappropriate, and be frugal within your ability.

60. Be moral and conscientious in your work. Don’t be afraid of being tired when farming and don’t be afraid of hardship when working. Excerpts from a collection of famous sayings and aphorisms about family traditions

A selection of famous aphorisms about family traditions and family mottos:

1. When there are problems at home, first of all, there are loopholes in the behavior of the elderly. The first is failure to abide by one's duty, and the second is excessiveness.

2. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the family are all from other surnames. When they come to the same home, they are like mother and daughter.

3. Different family roles have different values. If a man has no ambition, his family will not be prosperous. Women are not gentle and drive away wealth. A woman's temperament should be as gentle as water, so that her husband and herself will be prosperous, and money and luck will naturally follow. If a woman's temperament is tough, fierce, overwhelming, stubborn, extreme, revengeful and resentful, gnashing her teeth and glaring in anger, the result will only be hurt. People waste themselves, neglect their husbands and despise themselves, all their blessings are lost, and their appearance is withered.

4. Five steps to educate children: raise, educate, teach, lead, guide, but do not control. The key point is to cultivate virtue and educate morals well.

5. When there are problems at home, the elderly should feel ashamed: I am the elderly who did not do well, had some bad qualities, and failed to educate my family well.

6. No matter who is at fault in the family, no matter what disasters and disputes occur, the family scandal will not be publicized.

7. If you want your family to be harmonious and everything to be prosperous, if you want your husband to be noble and your children to be virtuous, you must teach them to respect your parents-in-law, and your life will be prosperous. Otherwise, the dew among the flowers and the frost on the grass will not last long.

8. There is no need to control the children, it all depends on the influence of virtue. Understand his personality, help him cut small branches and leave big branches. Don't spoil, don't spoil, don't hit, don't scold. Encourage more, affirm often, criticize less, and don’t use material temptations.

9. If the child does not understand, the fruit will be sour. If the fruit is sour, work must be done on the roots of the tree.

10. Parents-in-law are like the roots of a family tree. If you want to have luxuriant branches and leaves, fragrant flowers and sweet fruits, you must treat the roots well, fertilize, water and loosen the soil.

11. Don’t be suspicious, don’t listen to divisive words, don’t do anything to make a living, and don’t seek the benefit of others.

12. When marching and fighting, soldiers are most afraid of arrogance, and arrogant soldiers will be defeated; children are also most afraid of being spoiled. If they are spoiled, there will definitely be problems.

13. Be filial to the elderly and teach your children and grandchildren strictly; respect the old and love the young, and be affectionate.

14. Filial piety should be done to the best of one's ability, loyalty and courage should be shown sincerity; brothers help each other, and compassion has no boundaries.

15. Do not do evil because it is small, and do not do good because it is small.

16. I see that there is no education in the world but there is love. This cannot always be the case. You can eat, drink, and do whatever you want. It is advisable to give warnings and rewards, and laugh when you respond. When you have knowledge, you can tell the law. .

17. My family has lived in the Song Dynasty for more than 300 years, and we must not forget that our descendants will not be in official positions.

18. A flawless jade can be a national weapon; a filial son can be a national auspiciousness.

19. I am only concentrating on my studies, so don’t waste your youth lightly.

20. Weizu’s great knowledge has changed, hardships have arisen, the lineage has moved to Tibet, and each province has its native place in another state; the virtues that are wanted to be repaid, Haotian is extremely ignorant.

Selection 2 of family traditions and family mottos:

1. As a person, you must be honest (obey the law), be honest (be the same on the inside and outside), be a kind person, do more good deeds, and eventually you will be rewarded Good thing.

2. If the descendants of the clan, etc., do reckless things, and those who are famous teachers, they will not wait for the official to be called, and the temple will be rectified first.

3. When you have porridge and a meal, you should think about the difficulty of getting there; half a thread, half a thread, always think about the difficulty of material resources.

4. Emphasis on moral cultivation, strict moral character; support justice and denounce evil.

5. If you want to have a high family status, you must do good deeds, and if you want to have good children and grandchildren, you must study.

6. A person who has virtue for a hundred generations will have descendants for a hundred generations to protect him; a person who has virtue for ten generations will have descendants for ten generations to protect him; if there is no latter, that is virtue. Extremely thin.

7. A porridge and a meal should be remembered as hard-earned; half a thread and half a thread should be remembered that material resources are difficult.

8. He is diligent and respectful, and even though he is a fool, he is wise and wise.

9. The first is to get up late; the second is to be lazy; the third is to be luxurious; the fourth is to be proud. In addition to observing the four precepts, we must also follow four appropriate rules: first, we should read diligently; second, we should respect our teachers; third, we should love others; fourth, we should eat prudently.

10. Students must be diligent in three aspects: diligent in hands, diligent in thinking, and diligent in reading.

11. Every family should imagine that their daughter is marrying into the family, and the mother-in-law should love her daughter-in-law as much as she loves her own daughter. If this is not possible, the daughter-in-law will treat her future daughters-in-law in the same way, creating a vicious cycle.

12. It is the best Feng Shui and the highest Feng Shui for the elderly to be virtuous.

13. The elderly should promote the family tradition, the parents should model the family tradition, the husband and wife should control the family tradition, the children should inherit the family tradition, the grandchildren should obey the family tradition, and the brothers and sisters should compete with each other in family tradition.

14. The old man is as gray as ashes, gentle and non-irritated. He talks less, does not nag, and does not talk about family members. Taking the lead, we must see each other’s interests, and we must take care of the whole family.

15. The old man supports the family’s blessing and creates the family’s merit. Merit is getting stronger from generation to generation, and blessings are getting more prosperous and prosperous from generation to generation. If your descendants are stronger than you, it means you are virtuous, otherwise you are devoid of virtue.

16. The old man is the virtuous star of the family, with virtue as his root. Virtue means taking responsibility for the faults of one family and peace for the whole family.

17. How can the elderly make the family prosperous? That is to do more good deeds and accumulate negative virtues. On the one hand, you can cultivate virtue and avoid sins; on the other hand, you can cultivate virtue for your descendants and take root in them.

18. The old man is like the earth, silently carrying everything, tolerating everything, and cultivating everything. If an old man has a broad mind, his family will be blessed with great blessings.

19. If the elderly love people and things, the children and grandchildren of the family will prosper. If the old man is greedy, he will eat up all the blessings of the family.

20. Love without any pretense (price): Do not elevate your status and do not treat love as a business. Understand the other person's good points and praise the other person's good points; understand the other person's difficulties and forgive the other person's mistakes. If the other party has made a mistake, you can enlighten and guide the other party to correct it. Translation of "Family Rules of Xiaoyoutang" and "Family Instructions of Xiaoyoutang" by Sun Qifeng_Family Tradition and Family Instructions

Translation of "Family Rules of Xiaoyoutang" and "Family Instructions of Xiaoyoutang" by Sun Qifeng_Family Tradition and Family Instructions

"Xiaoyoutang Family Rules" and "Xiaoyoutang Family Instructions" by Sun Qifeng of the Qing Dynasty.

1. The etiquette is based on the principles of heaven.

Question: Ritual is a moderate etiquette in accordance with the laws of heaven. Does it emphasize strictness or harmony? The answer is: When etiquette is separated from harmony, sincerity is lost; when harmony is separated from etiquette, there is no moderation.

The establishment of etiquette comes from the laws of nature, and etiquette and harmony cannot be divided into two unrelated things.

From Confucius’ chapter on the use of rituals and the importance of harmony, we can see what the sage’s intention is.

Etiquette is one of the core contents of Confucianism. It is also the moral code and code of conduct that ancient Chinese society has followed for thousands of years. It has almost imperceptibly formed the customs and habits of the Chinese nation.

However, since entering modern society, it has become the first breakthrough point for a group of intellectuals who received Western education to criticize traditional Chinese culture. They believe that it creates hierarchical concepts, restrains people's thoughts, and seriously hinders the development of traditional Chinese culture. With the progress of Chinese society, the term feudal was used to completely deny and bury traditional Chinese culture, including rituals.

Although the moral thought of etiquette has been pushed to extremes in the long history of social practice, its main purpose is still to promote and establish a social responsibility to repay family affection and promote social harmony. and order, some parts of which are still unchanging traditional virtues that we should carry forward today.

Regression does not mean regression, and reconstruction is a hundred times more difficult than reckless criticism.

2. The difficulty of keeping the family together. It is difficult to govern a country and bring peace to the world.

Question: It is more difficult to regulate a family than to govern a country and bring peace to the world.

How can it be difficult when our family is close and the world is far away, and our relatives are far apart from each other? The answer is: Because Jiazheng is close, it is easy to exclude each other emotionally; because Jiazheng is close, it is difficult to govern according to laws.

The reason why the word "Qi" should be used as the standard for running a family is that the father must be kind, the son must be filial, the brother must be friendly, the brother must be respectful, the husband must be strong, and the wife must be submissive. If you violate this standard, you will Situations such as fathers and sons hurting each other, husbands and wives turning against each other, and brothers fighting each other gradually accumulated and finally developed to the point where sons killed their fathers, wives poisoned their husbands, and brothers killed each other, making the halls, bathrooms, and beds become enemies. world.

Since ancient times, great figures who have governed the world have restrained their tempers and used their brains in this regard, because the legal system has no binding effect here, and prohibitions cannot be implemented here.

If you think about the difficulties of running a family from these points, you can understand the difficulty.

The difficulty for the ancients in running a family was that they could not use criminal law to coerce the feelings of flesh and blood, but they had to make every family member meet certain moral standards and take the lead in training the family to adapt to the situation. social capabilities.

The contradiction is still an incurable disease hidden deep inside many happy families.

On the other hand, those families with ancient and honest traditions are often full of enviable friendship and warmth.

3. Parenting is the first priority in the family.

Instructions to all of you young descendants: Know love when you are a child, and respect when you grow up. This is the conscience born in nature.

After becoming aware of things, their character will be determined by their living habits, and they will easily lose the original conscience in their nature.

The ancients focused on enlightenment to cultivate righteousness and paid great attention to the living habits formed by children in order to prevent them from losing their original nature.

Today's children will grow up in the blink of an eye. If the current enlightenment and education are not correct, once habits are formed into dispositions, it will be too late to remedy them.

What are the rules for the rise and fall of family fortune? Father is father, son is son, brother is brother, brother is brother, the family is strong and united. In this way, the family will be prosperous, which is a result that can be known without divination.

If the father is not his father, the son is not his father, the brother is not his brother, and the brother is not his brother, everyone bullies and fights with each other, everyone has selfish motives, and the decline of the family can be seen immediately, and it is The results can be known without divination.

Proper enlightenment education is the first priority in the family. All fathers of children must encourage themselves on this matter.

The ancients believed that the prime time to educate children is in their infancy before they know anything; the content of education is not mainly cultural knowledge for the time being, but to teach children to love and respect others and form good habits; Parents personally shoulder the social responsibility of being teachers. This is the original model of Chinese culture implementing social education in addition to school education.

This model is a comprehensive folk channel through which the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation are passed down from generation to generation.

Although modern parents also attach great importance to tutoring, they are more interested in assisting school teachers to care about their children's academic performance. However, in terms of educating children to behave and form good habits, it is obviously not better than in the past.

4． There is a wise man among the children. Win several noble people.

The first important thing for scholar-bureaucrats to educate future generations.

If future generations are not good people, wealth and rank can help them do evil; if future generations can be self-reliant and self-reliant, poverty and lowliness can further strengthen their integrity.

Most of the sages and gentlemen since ancient times were not born rich. As long as they can stay in poverty and uphold their duties, they are a kind of wise and gentleman.

If you cannot be content with being poor, stick to your duties, work all your life, and give up the easy things to covet the hard-to-get things, in the end, not only will wealth not be obtained through greed, but a lot of life time will be wasted.

I think that during childhood, one should downplay the idea of ??luxury.

It is better to have a wise man among your disciples than to have several dignitaries.

If you are not a wise father and brother, how can you enjoy the happiness of having good children?

Mr. Xia Feng’s highest requirement for future generations is to live in poverty, stay in compliance, and aspire to be virtuous.

This may form a hindrance to future generations' courage to compete and pursue material civilization.

But Mr. Xia Feng is a man who has read poetry and books, experienced the changes of dynasties and the ups and downs of life. Compared with those people who compete fiercely for money and power, his advice to his own flesh and blood must have a deeper meaning.

5. If you want to study, you must be literate.

When you study, you must pursue understanding of words.

Some people say: How can there be people who don’t know how to read and write? I said: when you read the word filial piety, you should be filial to your parents; when you read the word "ti," you should respect your elders.

Since entering the private school, no one does not know these words. Who can experience them one by one in themselves, pursue practicality and turn them into actions? I learned it when I was a child, but even when my head turns gray, I still don’t realize it. Even if I read thousands of volumes, I can only say that I am still illiterate.

Wang Ruzhi talked about the knowledge of conscience and believed that it is not knowledge without practicing it.

A firewood collector who had been eavesdropping in the hole in the wall for a long time suddenly had an epiphany and sang: Ten miles away from the mountain, the firewood is at home; one mile away from the mountain, the firewood is in the mountain.

People like this firewood collector are what I call literate people.

The so-called literacy means applying what you have learned.

The ancients emphasized applying what they have learned, specifically referring to turning the sages’ learning that teaches people to practice morality into their own practical actions. This shows that the ancients’ moral construction not only had clear content and implemented responsibilities to everyone, but also There is also the inspiring theoretical power.

People today also emphasize applying what they have learned, but the focus is not on moral construction. It mainly refers to transforming the learned scientific and technological knowledge and skills into practical abilities.

Combining the moral construction of the ancients with today's scientific and technological knowledge and putting it into social practice is an effective way to comprehensively improve the quality of the Chinese nation.

6. The first thing in life is tension. It’s just that you can’t tell whether people are good or not.

The first and most important thing in life is not to focus on other people's faults.

Once you focus on the faults of others, you make demands and restrictions on others. Then no matter how close or close you are, or even if you are a servant or a dog, you will be detestable everywhere, and you will expose yourself to resentment and anger all day long. He could not climb out of the pits and trenches.

When ministers kill kings and sons kill fathers, they just focus on the faults of kings and fathers. How terrible!

When one pursues perfection, it is easiest to discover the shortcomings of others.

It is not a bad thing to see the flaws of others. What is terrible is that you are born with narrow eyes. Everywhere you see are the shortcomings of others. This allows other people's flaws to surround you, close them up, and make you He became a lonely man who was separated from his relatives and resentful for the rest of his life.

Such people can only fend for themselves and cannot become founders of great causes who can draw on the strengths of others and be supported by heroes.

7. Silence converges. Appointments are rarely lost.

To Zuo Ya and others: Broaden your horizons and expand your mind.

But once something is successful, you must immediately restrain yourself and restrain yourself to reduce mistakes.

I hope you all pay attention to the meaning of this. When you gain a lot, beware of big losses. The purpose of worrying is to ask for more. This sentence can be an annotation for the word covenant.

Your vision and mind must be infinitely open, so that you can have a good plan and be able to take care of the world.

But once you succeed, you must let your desires wither and die immediately, keep your mind as calm as still water, and tie a tight knot to success, so that you can truly obtain and enjoy success.

Things are always like a turbulent and ever-changing tide. If you are not careful, you will be overwhelmed and your success will be ruined.

The reason why many people suffer setbacks in the stock market is because they lack this kind of quiet restraint

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Only by tying success one by one into a knot can life stand up to successful milestones one after another.

8. To protect oneself from the great desires of oneself, a virtuous person is unknown to others.

The key to self-preservation is to guard the biggest aspect of one’s desires; to be kind to others is important when others don’t know; to keep one’s ambitions is to keep one’s ambitions before they are realized; to despise the secular world is to wait until there is no suffering in secular life. When you are frightened; to love life, you must work harder on the things that your survival depends on; to cherish happiness, you must know how to cherish it when it is too much; to be sincere and humble must be reflected in the moments when humility is unbearable; to pray to God must be before God’s will has been decided. stage.

This is a real famous saying!

I want to copy it right here, chew it and play with it morning and night, and show it to my descendants so that they can cherish these warnings.

When a strong desire begins to occur and becomes too intense to suppress, you have to wake up: Will this lead to disaster? Be kind to others but avoid being known to others, so that you can truly expand and improve your morality to a pure state.

When the world is facing a great crisis, you must not speak arrogantly, otherwise you will be ignorant of current affairs and cruel to your conscience!

How can you talk about it if you don’t know how to cherish the foundation of your life? Love life?

A person who knows how to cherish happiness even when it is overwhelming is a real person who enjoys happiness; a person who can persist in being patient even when it is beyond endurance is a real man in the world.

9. Don't use all your words, and don't show all your wisdom.

Don’t say all your words, don’t reveal all your talents, and the worst thing is to avoid all the good things being taken advantage of by one person.

Not only are the extraordinary blessings too much for one person to bear, but heaven and earth are also full of hatred. If you don’t leave room for these three things, people will look at you with side eyes.

If you talk too much, it is tantamount to weaving your own net, restricting your freedom of movement layer by layer; talent is the brilliance of life, if you show it off blindly, you will not only let yourself be seen at a glance , and it is easiest to take away the brilliance of others and turn outstanding talents into impetuousness.

Once all the good things are taken advantage of by one person, that person will not only easily become the target of public criticism, but will also be on the verge of decline in the cycle of the movement.

Only by learning to use the art of moderate implicitness and reservation can we remain invincible in a harmonious atmosphere and leave room for balance and permanence.

10. From then on, ambitions were established and knowledge was enriched.

Say to Yunya: When you were young, you did housework, and I was worried that you would give up on your studies.

However, the sage Lu Xiangshan was in charge of the family for three years, and he said that his knowledge had improved.

Miscellaneous household items such as rice and salt are very trivial matters. If they are arranged and cooked well, it is knowledge.

As for seniority, juniority, and inferiority, men and women inside and outside the home have different situations and personalities, and have different likes and dislikes.

Strive to make both rich and poor people feel at ease and happy. This state is not difficult for the most benevolent and righteous people to achieve.

Ambition can be established from here, and knowledge can be enriched from here.

If you study with an open mind and practice it yourself, you will get the essence.

Being able to organize trivial household matters such as firewood, rice, oil, and salt in an orderly manner also has a certain degree of philosophical wisdom; being able to handle various concrete and complex interpersonal relationships inside and outside the family happily is also enough to show a person's personality. Kindness and talent.

Confucian culture is a kind of knowledge that can penetrate into specific affairs and be improved in specific affairs.

This is a kind of knowledge that is first implemented and implemented in the family and then extended to the society to benefit the country and the world.

Some people who are influenced by Western cultural concepts regard the human obligations that Chinese traditional culture emphasizes as creating hierarchical concepts, and view the process of people training and improving their own qualities from childhood as suppressing human nature. and restricting people's freedom. This actually advocates that Chinese people refuse hard study and abandon basic social responsibilities. This view is not only not more civilized than traditional Chinese culture, but also undermines the mature Chinese civilization.