Don’t look at how others treat me, only look at how others treat others

If you want to harm a small person, let him take on a big responsibility and let him lift a thousand catties of weight above his head;

Learn to bend when the external pressure becomes unbearable. Bending is not about falling and destroying, it is an art of life.

I don’t care how others treat me, only how others treat others.

Little people should be stingy; big people should be generous. If your hands are low, your eyes should be low; if your hands are high, your eyes should be high. A small person's grandeur means his hands are low but his eyes are high; a big man's stinginess means his hands are high and his eyes are low. It's a tragedy and misfortune for both.

Learn from people you hate; make friends with people who hate you.

A capable person also has a temper; an incompetent person does not have a temper either; the worst thing is to be incapable but have a temper; the best thing is to be capable but have no temper. The first two are the normal state of nature; the third is strange; and the latter is holy. Quotations on how to behave in the world

If you want to exterminate a group of giant pandas, move them to a land with fertile water and grass without bamboo.

Those who know how to take care of people only take care of a few people; those who don’t take care of others take care of many people. A general who knows how to manage people; a general who doesn't know how to manage people. Ten generals are enough; more generals are better.

It is better not to do things; not to do stupid things. Not doing things is not the best situation; doing stupid things is the worst situation.

There is no absolute truth in the world. Therefore, no opinion is irrefutable; no opinion is undiscussable. What is truly rigid is interest. But even benefits can be compensated and replaced. A skillful negotiator makes opposing opinions relativistic and substitutes opposing interests. The former's skill is persuasion; the latter's skill is adjustment.

If you want to harm a clown, give him a big stage and let him perform crazily;

Most men can get the woman they love, but only a few men can leave without harm. The woman he no longer loves.

The quality of a man is revealed by the way he leaves a woman.

For partners, we don’t want people with high talents and narrow minds; we would rather have people with low talents and broad minds.

Those who tear down the bridge after crossing the river will never have another bridge in their future lives. But such people will never die out. Their logic is: There are one billion Chinese people, and it is enough for everyone to build a bridge for me once. Is it possible?

If you don’t have enough effort in being a person and doing things, you will get mixed feelings when dealing with others. Writing poetry is like writing a paper; doing business is like being an official; making friends is like doing business.

If something is not handled well, the key is to deal with the matter; if a batch of things is not handled well, the key is to deal with the people.

The circle is the highest form of all existence. Everything from the largest to the smallest is round.

If you can't knock your opponent out completely, then you have to win over your opponent. Either knock him down; or win over him. This is a general guideline for dealing with opponents.

Regarding big things and small things? Seeing through big things: detachment; seeing through small things: open-minded. Can't see through big things: persistence; can't see through small things: care. ;