In the process of interacting with others, conversation and cultivation are the best ways to conquer others. A girl who likes reading, she must be quiet and have a good attitude, and she must be an elegant and intellectual woman.
Two: tasteful.
Taste is a person's attitude towards things. Different people will have different versions of the same thing. To some extent, a person's taste and her temperament complement each other, and the level of taste depends on a girl's discovery of new things in her daily life.
Three: Try to discover the beauty in life.
Don't always remind yourself of your misfortunes. You know, there are still many people in this world who are less lucky than you. As long as you can look up and see the sunshine, you are lucky. What kind of person flaunts herself, she can only live in the prison she has set for herself. Only positive emotions can make life better. I believe tomorrow will be better than today. As long as you work hard, society will be fair Don't complain about life, otherwise it will only prove that you haven't really worked hard.
Four: Make friends with thoughtful people.
To choose friends with a purpose, social connections are very important. Don't make friends easily, but if you want to make friends, you must be sincere to them. Others can clearly see whether you are good or bad to others. Use your sincerity to make friends with those excellent people with ideas!
Five: Stay away from the bubble idol drama
Prince Charming and Cinderella on TV are both boys or girls in life. They don't really exist. Girls should not indulge in this false fairy tale atmosphere, which will directly affect their outlook on life and values. Like getting rich overnight or being poor overnight, there may be something in life, and love and affection are not as decisive and cruel as in movies.
Six: learn to be patient and tolerant.
Because sometimes you may lose your self-esteem because of your care and become an uneducated woman who is accused. Giving those unfriendly people a kind smile can not only make them feel ashamed, but also leave a good impression of generosity and understanding. Patience is not cowardice, nor does it hurt self-esteem, but tolerance. There will be many unfair things in life, and there will be many people you can't accept. We can't try to change others. Instead of criticizing others' behavior loudly and angrily, it is better to give others a smile with an understanding attitude. No one will hurt a kind person.
Seven: Cultivate a healthy attitude and pay attention to your body.
Health is the most important thing, I believe everyone knows, but when it is really done, it is not a simple matter. Girls in their twenties should start to pay attention to their diet.
Eight: Let beauty be your capital.
Let your beauty have enough say at the right time. Not every girl has a beautiful appearance. Make your beautiful appearance your capital and use it when necessary. It can open many difficulties in your life. Although some people sometimes say that a beautiful girl is a vase, a vase is a work of art if it is put in the right place. An excellent woman has a beautiful appearance and a wise heart.
Nine: You can live well without any man.
Not everyone can grasp the emotional things. Why let yourself be caught in an unhappy mood by a man? A man who doesn't appreciate you is not qualified to make you feel sorry for him. Every girl is beautiful. She is waiting for a man who knows her to appear. When the man is gone, I can only say that the man who understands you hasn't appeared yet. A man is not a girl's whole life.
Once I thought I couldn't live without him, but later I asked myself a hundred times: Can't I live without him? One hundred and twenty times, the answer is: I will live well. Girls should never trample on themselves, and don't think that you can get men's love if you are satisfied with perfection. Love is beautiful, girls are beautiful, and no man can blaspheme! Leaving a man who doesn't appreciate you is the most gorgeous turn. Although I am unwilling, the painful torture makes me have no energy to run your work or study.
Ten: Have the motivation to manage money and learn to invest and operate.
When girls reach their twenties, they will begin to learn how to manage money. No matter how much money you earn now, you should plan for your tomorrow. Smart women should know how to spend money, which is actually an art.
Eleven: Love and marriage can be owned together.
Girls in their twenties will face the pressure of marriage. Some people will say that love and marriage are two different things. A woman and a man can live together when they get married, which is not necessarily what she really loves. The man a woman marries can provide a warm and comfortable home for herself, but it is not necessarily what she really loves. Faced with these remarks, it seems that many people get married for the sake of marriage, and under the pressure of family and society, they get married for the sake of marriage. Some people get married for a purpose, perhaps to give themselves a place to stay, perhaps to help their future careers, or perhaps to get something from each other.
Ask those sweet newlyweds and you will know that sometimes love and marriage can be owned together. Marriage is the grave of love. It can only be said that neither side knows how to manage love. I believe that before two people decide to get married, they must have feelings for each other, but the day after marriage makes love dull. This is only because after marriage, both men and women put aside the romance in love and devoted themselves to their work. Those unmarried girls should never get married for some purpose. Getting married is a very simple thing. Don't make it so complicated. I believe that every girl longs for love. When a girl meets the person she loves deeply, she will find that if she wants to be with him, whether she is rich or poor, whether she is alive or dead may not matter. Girls should not get married for the sake of marriage, nor should they get married for a certain life.
Twelve: Who says that women are not as good as men?
When a girl reaches her twenties, she must firmly believe that it is not only men who can achieve something in life or in the workplace. Women have a lot of capital. Women have a slight advantage in the workplace. In some industries, women will play their unique advantages to fight for it. Women shouldn't always think about developing in the kitchen. Only capable women can be appreciated by men. Now the role of housewife is not popular, and there are a lot of wonderful worlds waiting for women to pursue.
Women don't want to be attached to a man. In this society, no one must care about anyone for no reason. A woman has no idea of how to attach herself to a man. In this personality environment, men also like women with personality and ability. Work hard, as long as you have your own sky, are you afraid that there are no white clouds under this sky? As long as you are a talented woman, are you afraid that excellent men will not appreciate you?
Thirteen: Find a husband who can help you realize your dream.
When a girl is in her twenties, she must have a clear dream and then fight for it. When you set a dream, don't change it, just like when you find a man who can help you realize your dream, you must try to make him your husband. Women should not think that some dreams can be realized by themselves, or that some excellent women want to realize their dreams through their own efforts, but this dream can be well realized if there is a man behind them, especially a man who can provide financial support.
It seems that there are few girls who have dreams about life now. Some girls just want to have a simple job and a simple love and live a happy life with a man. And really good men, they also want their wives to be ambitious women, so if women have dreams, men will fully support them. A woman can let her dreams follow her and marry a man. As long as he is willing to help you realize your dream, it shows that he is a man who appreciates you.
Fourteen: Let youth be presumptuous and smile brightly.
When a girl is in her twenties, she is in her prime and has a lot of youth to let go. Girls can be stubborn at the right time and proud at the right time, so that those beautiful corners of the mouth will be slightly affected. Girls in their twenties are the most beautiful. They can laugh at will or cry stubbornly. Girls in their twenties should not be afraid of losing. Youth has just begun. We have the capital to lose, and we can start pursuing again. Girls in their twenties should be true to themselves, and the most beautiful years should be reserved for bright smiles, so that love can be presented incisively and vividly, and they should dare to love, hate and pursue.
When girls are in their twenties, they are the most beautiful flowers in full bloom. A girl's one-season flowering period must be remembered only for herself, and never let her own flowering period be unnecessarily destroyed by others. A girl in her twenties is a cup of green tea, and beauty must be left to those who know how to taste. Don't let those who have no taste trample on your pure breath. Girls in their twenties are blue sky. It can be sad or spacious, but remember, it must have a pursuit.