2. Be grateful and everything will be forgiven. Heart is the director of the drama of life; Reading is the negative of life. The joys and sorrows of life lie not in how many things you encounter, but in how many things you have in your heart! Empty the haze in your heart, and you can be calm when you are clean, and you can be comfortable and secure when you are calm!
3. It was predestined to come, but left without a chance. That's the way things are in the world. What should come will come naturally, and it's useless to hope and ask for what shouldn't. Fate, don't push, miss, don't ask. Come, welcome, go and watch. Everything is fate, let nature take its course. Things in the world can't be satisfied after all, and it is bound to be sweet to insist. What we can do is, do our best to be ourselves, as things are, and try our best to have no regrets.
4. One thing, no matter how beautiful, once it has no result, don't pester it, you will be tired after a long time; A thing, even if you remember it again, if you can't catch it, you should let it go at the right time, and it will break your heart for a long time. Sometimes, giving up is another kind of persistence. If you miss the splendor of summer flowers, you will surely walk into the autumn leaves. Anything, anyone, will become a thing of the past. Don't give it a hard time. No matter how hard it is, we must learn to pull out.
5. There is a saying in Buddhism that there is no struggle and no demand. This is a cherished satisfaction, and it is also an inclusive generosity. It is better to be at ease with yourself when dealing with the right and wrong in this world, letting go, dissolving and taking responsibility, rather than demanding others.
6. what you lose in life is what you gain. In order to get this "half", you must give up the other "half" If you weigh too much, you will suffer and lose, and you will end up with nothing. Giving up is a kind of wisdom, a kind of heroism and a deeper level of enterprising. Learn to give up, in order to unload all kinds of burdens of life, go into battle lightly and live happily; Knowing how to give up can make you mature, more substantial, calm and relaxed.
7. There is no perfection in the world, and the pursuit of perfection is a positive attitude. Life is like a tune, which cannot be separated from clever notes; Life is like a long river, inseparable from the rolling waves; Life is like a rainbow, which cannot be separated from gorgeous colors; Life is like an article, and it can't be separated from all kinds of punctuation.
8. Appreciating others is a kind of wisdom, and being kind to others is a kind of virtue; Helping others is a kind of practice, and learning from others is a realm; Uniting others is a kind of ability, and learning from others is a kind of sublimation; Forgiving others is a kind of mind and leading others is a kind of temperament; It is foolish to isolate others, and it is immoral to frame others; Visiting bloggers is a true feeling, and forwarding blog posts is a win.
9. One can't live without desires, just like the sea can't keep up with the tide. This is a natural law. If the world has no desire, it will not be interested in anything, and it will lack enthusiasm, investment and pursuit. What a pale picture of life it will be. The crux of the problem lies in how people grasp their own desire scale. When the tide rises and falls, it is advisable not to let the desire flood.
1. The pursuit of wealth is understandable. There is no fixed standard for how rich you are. A calm life should grasp the "horizontal" and "vertical" lines of desire. The so-called "horizontal" line is to draw a horizontal line from one's own wealth, and it can be seen that there are many people above and below the horizontal line. I am in a better position than the previous one, but I am more than the next one. Because life is the sea, the waves are high and low, just as people's wealth can never be at the same level. The so-called "vertical" line is to draw a rising line from the low point of one's previous life. As this line rises, it can clearly show the degree of gradual improvement of one's living standard, which should be gratifying, fulfilling and satisfied.
11. However, many people in life don't want to do this. They never look back suddenly, do not compare with their past, but blindly climb with others. As a result, the tide of desire only rises and falls, and the wave is higher than the wave. For their own wealth and enjoyment, they treat life and others by hook or by crook, so that the tide of desire will burst the dam of reason, endangering society, harming others and harming themselves.
12. In fact, everything in the world has its own laws, which can't be violated like spring flowers and autumn fruits. Wise people let nature take its course with wealth, which can make the tide of desire rise and fall and never be offside; Foolish people are very wild about wealth, and always want to let the tide of desire only rise and fall, and never wake up. People with these two kinds of mentality should pick fruits on the tree of life. Those who are moderate may taste more sweetness of success, while those who are offside will taste some bitter taste.
13. Moderate desire is beneficial, while excessive desire is harmful. In this world, we should not let the tide of desire break the dam of reason. Only in this way can we take fewer detours and shed less tears of regret. Refreshing and serene, smiling at life is also a high degree of happiness.
14. clothes are not too warm. Don't wear too warm clothes and hats, and don't be too thin. Too warm is easy to catch a cold, and too cold is easy to catch cold. Not enough to eat Eat seven or eight full meals, match the thickness, combine meat and vegetables, drink soup before meals, and do not smoke or drink. Can't live in luxury. Be happy with the situation, the room is clean and comfortable, and there is no need to make it magnificent, which will easily lead to degeneration. Line but rich. If your health permits, try to replace the car with steps. If you go out by car, your legs and feet will lose their flexibility after a long time.
15. You can't work too hard. The intensity of labor is limited, and exceeding the load will cause harm to the body. Pay attention to the combination of work and rest, and take a proper rest after working for 8 hours. Escape is not safe. Doing nothing all day will lose the interest in life and turn the spirit back to dust. Therefore, even if you retire at home, you should take part in more activities, walk and chat, write and paint, play chess and watch movies, read books and newspapers, use your brains diligently, and keep a good mood to prolong your life.
16. I am overjoyed. People are happy when they are happy, but they can't be too happy. If they are too happy, they will be sad. The ancients went crazy after Fan Jin was promoted, which was caused by overjoy. Anger is not violent. If you have troubles in your heart, don't be angry. Anger will hurt your liver. Learn to control your emotions, improve self-restraint and be optimistic. The name is not enough. Fame and fortune are all things outside the body, and they are not brought with them when they are born, and they are not brought with them when they die. Fame and fortune are fleeting. Profit is not greedy. I don't take "debauchery and wealth", "romance and love" is irrelevant, without desire, without attachment, content is always happy, let nature take its course, and I am innocent.
17. Water is the soul of all things, and tea has gained new life in the water, and it is refreshing with the hot air with strong tea fragrance. It's extremely simple, but I enjoy it. The directors are harmonious, elegant and popular, which has practical significance for universal implementation and operation in daily life. If life is like tea, only when you encounter repeated setbacks and stand up to hot boiling water like tea can you release the profound connotation and strength of life itself.
18. Drink tea with a grateful mind. This cup of tea is not just a bowl of tea soup, but full of humanistic spirit, full of the spirit of harmony between heaven and earth, mutual achievement, * * * * harmony and harmony, so as to resolve hostility, carry forward righteousness and achieve harmony. When you drink tea with a sharing mentality, the human gratitude and resentment will be like pieces of tea, dissolving the fragrance and sweetness into clean fresh water and turning it into dew that is beneficial to optimizing each other's physical and mental temperament, and the righteousness and harmony in the world will be implemented in the respect of each other.
19. Drink tea with a sharing mentality, cultivate our caring mind of pushing ourselves and others, think that there are still many sufferings in the world and all kinds of defects in society, and everyone has the responsibility to give love to each other, with less selfish desires and more public interests; Less indifference, more love. Drink tea with an affinity mentality. With the best taste of tea soup, we can have a tea affinity with everyone, a good affinity, a dharma affinity, a Buddha affinity, the wisdom of dharma, the compassion of Buddha, the fragrance and cleanliness of tea, the harmony of goodness, purify life and a harmonious society. There is Zen in tea, and tea Zen is one heart, which can calm people's souls.
2. A frustrated young man came to the ancient temple to ask a monk about Zen to relieve his worries. The old monk told the young monk to bring a pot of warm water and a pot of boiling water. The old monk first brewed a pot of tea with warm water for the frustrated people. The young man didn't understand it, sipped it, shook his head and complained that the tea was tasteless. The old monk smiled and made a pot of tea with boiling water. For a moment, the fragrance of tea lingered in the meditation room. The frustrated person tasted tea again, and suddenly a slightly bitter sweetness spread on the tip of the tongue, and the frustrated person couldn't help but drink a large cup. The old monk smiled and said: Warm water makes tea, and the tea leaves only float on the water; When tea is brewed with boiling water, the original flavor and fragrance of tea naturally dissipate after repeated ups and downs. Frustrated people have an epiphany: it turns out that all sentient beings in this world are no different from tea. Only those who are weather-beaten and can withstand the ups and downs of the years can exude the fragrance of life.
Part II
1. People always like to look around for a way out. In fact, many times the road is right under our feet, but we always like to look far away and don't want to lower our noble heads. As long as it is a road, someone will go. Some people have succeeded on this road, but it does not mean that others will not fail. So, the result depends on how we go.
2. We all know that everything will work out in the end, and we will cross the bridge when we come to it. We also believe in the philosophy that there is no way out when there is no doubt. But when the problem came out, I was immersed in troubles and couldn't extricate myself. As long as you look at it from another angle, you will know that God never shuts one door but he opens another.
3. People always try to open up a new road, but they don't know that there is no difference between the new road and the old road, only the scenery along the way is different, which is full of bumps and muddy. The road that no one takes is a new road. In fact, it may have existed for many years. And more people walk, and the new road will soon become an old road. Therefore, the road doesn't matter whether it is old or new, and it doesn't matter whether it is good or bad. It all depends on your own needs and choices.
4. The path that most people take is not necessarily a good one, and the path that few people or even no one take is not necessarily a bad one. Just as the truth is always in the hands of a few people at first, few people can agree that the road of others is more rugged than their own, and no one will know in advance which road to take or which road is more suitable for them. People just walk the road of life in contradiction and confusion, but in the end they can't even get an answer.
5. Being injured is also a kind of tempering, but you must learn to be strong after being injured. The society is cruel. If you are not careful, you will be covered with scars. After crying, you must live happily. The lovelorn person is bound to be painful, but the other person has left you. Why not let go smartly? Your cowardice and your tears will only add those superfluous emotions. Here, I send you an adage "I loved, I hurt, and I will be happy if I am willing". Life is like this. "The future is bright and the road is tortuous." Even though it is full of thorns, the road is made by walking out and must be stepped over step by step.
6. Don't complain about the environment, learn to change your mind, don't pull a long face all day, complain about your own shortcomings, and believe that you can do something, so that you can at least be worthy of yourself. As the saying goes, "since heaven gave the talent, let it be employed!" is not that you are inferior to others, but that you have not found your own strengths. There is no saying that "life is not a lack of beauty, but a lack of eyes to find beauty"
7. Everything can come again, except life. Everything can be thrown away, but faith cannot be thrown away; You can lose everything, but you can't lose face; Everything is acceptable, but humiliation is unacceptable. You can forget the failure, but you can't forget the lesson; You can forget yesterday, but not history; You can forget the suffering, but you can't forget the hardships; You can forget the scars, but you can't forget the shame.
8. You are not the only one in life, but you are the first one in life. Although we went our separate ways in the end, I was still moved by your first open heart to accept my short-lived perch after traveling in my heart. If it weren't for you, how could I know that the feeling of loving someone and being loved in this world is so happy and wonderful. One person's sorrow is relieved when two people share it, and one person's happiness and joy become the greatest happiness when two people share it.
9. Looking back, I have had longing, excitement, sadness and infinite happiness. In the seemingly dull days, I have loved, pursued, worked hard and contributed. Although the harvest is not all success and laughter, I have also experienced the taste of failure and the bitterness of tears. But always firmly believe that as long as you face it positively, life is meaningful; As long as you sow sweat and hope, life is valuable.
1. Maybe sometimes we work hard and we can't achieve the expected results. Maybe sometimes we can't do it well. Maybe countless tears are tasted at night. Maybe many things are beyond our control, but it doesn't matter. There must be cracks in life so that the sun can shine in.
11. There are countless forms of life, and there is more than one way to live. It is a kind of awkwardness for others to look at nature; Living naturally, it is another kind of awkwardness that others look at. It is the best day to live your favorite life, and it is the best way to live your favorite life. On the road of life, it is the best choice for life to learn to enjoy life and avoid dragging it forward. Being used to being unappreciated and not showing yourself to others is the wisdom of life.
12. Mind determines life. A good attitude is the most important capital of life. Dickens said that a healthy mind is more powerful than a hundred kinds of wisdom. There is no doubt: what kind of mental state of mind will dominate what kind of quality of life. Life is too short to be happy. Learn to master the vitality of your own life. Proud and indifferent to nourish the heart, frustrated and calm to nourish the will, live a full, open-minded, satisfied, safe, happy, sunny, calm and peaceful life every day.
13. Life is varied, so long as it suits you. Don't give yourself too many rules and regulations. There is nothing you can't do. Just have your own principles and live happily. Only those bohemian days are good memories when you are old. Live well, take care of yourself, and don't make yourself sad. Life is short, just be happy.
14. Everyone has their own happiness, but some people don't know how to cherish it. When happiness comes, those who know how to cherish seize the opportunity and reap happiness. People who don't know how to cherish miss the opportunity and miss happiness! Life is short for several decades, so you must cherish the happiness that comes to you, and don't leave regrets for your life! Don't talk about the next life, cherish this life!
15. People often sigh that life is really tiring. Tired, it is mental stress; Being tired is a heavy psychological burden. Tired and not tired are always relative. If you don't want to be tired, you must learn to relax, and life is expensive. Mental fatigue makes people fall into a sub-healthy state for a long time; Tired heart will make you depressed. Don't be too tired, learn to free yourself.
16. If you don't blindly pursue happiness, you will be proud of your life. There is only one life, and no one wants to live in a muddle. If you want to live