Two. Extraordinary romance. You are immersed in the world of two people, and you have never even met his friends. He will call you "baby", "good wife" and even more disgusting names; On Valentine's Day or birthday, you will receive a big bouquet of roses. Your ex-boyfriend hasn't sent you flowers for three years. He will also give you some very special gifts with great care-God knows where he got them. Vigilance: Maybe he wants to paralyze your vigilance and control your actions. A man I know described his behavior like this: "If I call another lover first, she will feel safe and won't think of calling me, which will buy me a lot of time."
Three. He has a lot of time with you. His job is very mobile, so he can come to accompany you often. Maybe you think he is a successful man, but in fact he is likely to be unemployed for a long time, or his occupation is a liar. In short, he doesn't have to work nine to five, and he doesn't have a fixed place to work. In most cases, he runs a small company by himself without punching in. Be careful: after you have sex with him, he is likely to suddenly "get busy"
Four. He asks you to trust him especially. He will probably tell you from the beginning that I broke up with my ex-girlfriend because she didn't trust me so much, and she asked me where I was going like crazy and peeked at my email. Or he will tell you that trust is the foundation of love. Or he will say: I like an honest partner. At this time, you may think, "this man and I have such a magical idea." But you forget that what he wants is an honest partner, but he is not necessarily an honest person. Note: His girlfriend is not a fool. It must be because this man has a criminal record that he will do such an excessive act. A trustworthy person will not deliberately ask others to trust him. That's probably what stopped you from discovering the truth.
Five. He often asks what you are doing. His phone calls and text messages are always with you, but most of them are asking where you are going. Understandably, he will feel uneasy and empty when he lies to people, which needs a lot of definite facts to fill, or he tries to control you by mastering your actions. Note: This behavior is a sign of control.
Six. He is often jealous or angry for no reason. Maybe one day you work overtime with your male colleague, and he can break all the bowls at home without telling him. Maybe if you miss the call, he will lose his temper and ignore you. He yelled at you and even started fighting, but later he would appease you with unusual gentleness. Beware: Liars are often in inner anxiety. This anxiety makes him irritable, controlling and exclusive. And we all know that men's exclusive desire has nothing to do with love, love is giving, and exclusive desire is taking. The trick of a liar is actually very simple, making you sweet and bitter for a while, and then you will blindly pursue the sweet moment and lose the peace of your original life. This is similar to the process of addiction, but an artificial means. If you accept it from the beginning, the sweetness will get shorter and shorter, and the bitterness will get longer and longer.
Seven. We all know he's hiding some details. In order to make up a lie, he has to tell many lies, but it is very difficult to remember so many lies, so you can test him on purpose. Besides, according to the survey, men who lie easily are more likely to cheat. So even if he is not a liar, a man who can lie is not a good partner.