INTJ will be deeply attracted by the romanticism, liveliness and secularity in ENFP's ideal. The deep-seated reason for their attraction is that both of them are N-type and have rich inner worlds, while ENFP is keen to express complicated inner thoughts and is very popular with INTJ. ENFP always chats with INTJ casually with a smile and a heartless heart.
And INTJ will be surprised, why this person is so enthusiastic about himself, his thinking is so smart, and the emotional defense system that INTJ painstakingly managed collapsed instantly. However, when INTJ matures, it will find that although it is still easily attracted by ENFP, it will no longer fall in love with ENFP.
Because the essence they pursue is very different: INTJ pursues the ultimate truth, while ENFP pursues the ultimate romance; INTJ doesn't like partners with poor liquidity and lack of planning, which ENFP often does. Wait a minute. ENFP likes making friends very much, so it will overlap with INTJ who often hides in the corner alone.
ENFP will be attracted by INTJ's accidental exposure of complex ideas and strong intuition (* * * similarities), as well as highly rational ideological system and super execution planning power (differences). ENFP will find that the inner world of this taciturn person is like vast stardust.
There are always some interesting ideas and skills that you can't understand, which further stimulates ENFP's desire to explore. If INTJ is willing to be good friends with ENFP, then ENFP will find that INTJ is an ideal dependent object in the early stage of getting along: under the protection of INTJ.
ENFP can be a romantic little girl. ENFP will like to pull INTJ to experience all kinds of romantic complexes, but after a long time, it will be found that INTJ is so insensitive to his various complexes and will wonder why INTJ always keeps himself so tight.