In my life, there have been some edges. I know them, I am familiar with them, I know how to please them, I know how to distinguish them, I know how to get along with them, I know the distance, and I also generally know their personalities. Life strategies.

I recently chatted with my friends and found out that edge is so common. I didn’t realize it before because my personality is so distinctive that people on the edge are incompatible with me. In view of the prevalence of edge, I want to write a series of articles about edge to help those novices and those on the edge, telling you the characteristics, characteristics, identification, coping, and choices of marginalized people.

In this series of articles, there are about 5-6 articles, which will be published according to the actual situation. The first 3-4 articles are about characteristics and identification, the middle is about coping strategies, and the last one or two articles are about coping strategies for people with borderline personality disorder.

I have not done any systematic research. This is based on my personal experience and observation. If you have any different opinions, please send a private message directly.

Characteristics of Borderline Personality Disorder

Borderline people have several characteristics, and these characteristics are mutually supportive. Some borderline people do not meet all the characteristics. I also divide borderline people into There are two major categories, alpha and beta. The alpha type is incredibly destructive. I have been hurt by it. My discovery and conclusion of the edge was also due to the emergence of alpha.

Alpha is highly proactive and aggressive, and is more inclined to use offensive means to control others.

Beta, on the other hand, has gentle methods and is also highly proactive, but is not aggressive towards classmates and colleagues. It is not known whether he is aggressive towards relatives and friends. Everyone likes beta types very much. Although they are also in control, they can control the overall situation quietly. I have had friends like this. People on the edge of beta are very tired and have countless things in their heads. I don’t have much contact with Beta, so I may be biased in this regard, so please forgive me.

Next I will explain the characteristics of marginalized people that I discovered

1. I am always right - extremely confident and arrogant

Borderline people have such a He is confident that his IQ and EQ are among the best in the world. It depends on the situation. If you study well, you will think that your IQ is top-notch. If you study poorly, you will think your EQ is top-notch and IQ is among the best among human beings. It's just that you are good at learning, not in school.

I think I am a member of the elite class, but I have not yet started or I will be able to enter the elite circle in a few years.

2. Class Concept - Elite Consciousness/Elitist

Marginal people do not recognize the concept that everyone is equal and believe that people are inherently different. This sense of superiority comes from the first point, the self-confidence in one's own business, and it feels like everyone is drunk and I am alone. They advocate money and power, and believe that powerful and wealthy people are elites and people on the same level as themselves, while the working class are non-elite, and they only know them because of life or work needs.

This sense of superiority not only comes from dual commerce, which is only the most basic, but may also come from nationality, work, experience, and background. Please take a look. For example: Margin is a Manchu, a former ruler of the country. Then Margin will imagine himself to be the descendant of the ruler of the country. He has particularly good genes, outstanding IQ, and regains the glory of his ancestors.

This leads to a problem that there are no friends. Friends are based on equal relationships rather than high and low relationships. If a non-elite wants to be friends with a marginalized person, then the marginalized person will be unable to become a friend because they look down on him. If the other person is in trouble, then in line with the principle of minimizing losses by not being a friend, normal people will cut off contact, and so will the marginalized. For an elite class, marginalized people lose the qualification to talk to each other on an equal footing and cannot be friends because they are in a weak position.

As a result, people with borderline personality disorder have no friends.

3. Selfishness (pseudo)

Marginal people value interests. Normal people may become friends due to like-minded social needs plus interests, but fringes may value interests more. It’s not that the fringe doesn’t have social needs, but the social interaction of the fringe is not with friends.

Marginal people are very selfish, which is caused by class concepts. I don’t want to help those who need my help, and I don’t have the resources to help those who don’t need my help. So most of the time marginalized people act selfishly.

In fact, marginalized people are not selfish. When a person they like, whom they consider equal, or a rich and powerful person needs help, marginalized people will often go out of their way to help, regardless of the cost. But this is for greater rewards later.

Normal people do this too, helping people they like and care about, but due to the wrong concept of making friends, it looks selfish.

4. Performing personality - I am the focus of the world

This is actually based on items 1 and 3. Marginal people often have excellent memories and can memorize many things. They use many things as bargaining chips to control others.

They attract the attention of others through their actions/language, like a rooster in heat, attracting the attention of a hen, and building an iron wall around themselves. If anyone dares not to look at him If the chicken is found, he will punish it or drive it out of the iron wall. People on the margins are constantly paying attention. Two days ago, I looked at what blockchain is and there was a picture that is quite suitable to explain this.

Figure 1 is the social circle of marginalized people, and everyone’s eyes are focused on me.

Figure 2 is a normal social circle. Everyone knows each other because of the same hobbies, and different groups have different connections.

Figure 3 shows the relationship between friends. My friend’s friend may not necessarily mean that I like him.

Marginal people tend to play more tricks on rich and powerful people they like and care about, which leads to the fifth characteristic

5. Delusion to control the overall situation

Because of the self-confidence in dual quotient, I feel that I should be the king of the world (point 2), and I have no friends, which leads to the lack of respect for normal emotional relationships, and I control the overall situation through performance. This point is a supplement to point 4. Modern society cannot enslave others or illegally imprison others. Therefore, if you want to maintain the situation in Figure 1 in point 4, you can only do it through daily behavioral means.

So I’m very tired on the edge, constantly memorizing a lot of useless information, are you honest? I feel pity for them.

On points 4 and 5, both alpha and beta can be verified, but the difference is whether the method is gentle or not.

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