A good boy will become a good man. As for whether he is your good man, it depends on your relationship management.
Let’s talk about what good men do:
1. As a son, you should be filial and repay your parents for their upbringing, so that they have someone to rely on and love. I am sending you something to look forward to in your old age. Filial piety is the foundation of human development and should never be abandoned. In daily life, go home more often to see the old couple, bring them things they like but are reluctant to buy, help them with housework, cook a few meals; wait for them to soak their feet, shave and cut nails for dad, and give mom a Comb their hair and chat about trivial matters in their lives.
2. As a husband, you should love your wife, cherish and care for your woman, make her feel at ease, warm her heart, and respond to your feelings. Now that you have married her, you must tolerate her, care for her, support her, and comfort her. Tolerate her shortcomings and habits; care about her work, body, and mood; support her choices and decisions; comfort her, enlighten her, and be considerate when she doesn't go her way. Of course, you must treat her gently. She is the person you will keep with you for the rest of your life and support each other! Naturally, you must stay away from everything that will affect your relationship as a couple and eliminate the budding moths.
3. As a father, you should love, educate and protect your children. Your child is the continuation of your couple’s life and ideals, so you must accompany him to grow up healthily! You must love him, educate and guide him by example, so that he can grow up healthily! You should accompany him as much as possible, participate in his life, communicate with him more, teach him the limits of making friends, teach him independence, and teach him survival skills.
4. If you have good moral character and firm beliefs, you can treat others with courtesy, handle things with moderation, and be willing to help others. If you take action when it is time to do so, you will have peace of mind and will not follow the crowd. Virtue will make you broad-minded and extraordinary, you will be tolerant of others, you will see the light of the world, you will find your own kind, and you can move forward hand in hand.
5. You need to work hard to enrich yourself, that is, improve your talents, work hard to study your major, contribute your strength to society, and make your life, even though ordinary, a life of struggle. When your profession is strong, it can bring you material help, help you live a prosperous life, make your family happy, and improve your quality of life, so this is also very important.
These are some of the behaviors that I think good men will have.