First of all, you should properly integrate into their communication, both boys and girls are the same.
Also, don't do what they tell you to do, and have your own consciousness. If you don't have time, refuse decisively.
Try to blend in with them and join their conversation. Well, it's hard to be shy, so am I, so I try not to talk as much as possible, but if you want to make friends, you have to make friends on your own initiative.
If those people are really bad or of poor quality, try not to get close to them, and it is also important to choose good friends.
O(∩_∩)O~