Paranoid personality disorder is characterized by suspicion and paranoia.

Performance:

① Sensitive, suspicious, narrow-minded towards people or things around them, easily shy, with excessive self-esteem, deeply humiliated by others' "neglect" of themselves, full of resentment Resentment, often overreaction in interpersonal relationships, and sometimes the concept of involvement;

② Often have unreasonable suspicion that others want to hurt, deceive or use themselves, or think that there is a conspiracy against themselves, and have a distorted understanding of other people's good intentions , always think that others have bad intentions, doubt the sincerity of others, and be wary of others;

③When encountering setbacks or failures, it is easy to complain, blame others, and shirk the objective. Blame one's own failures on others and do not look for subjective reasons within oneself;

④Easily argue and confront others;

⑤ Often have pathological jealousy and doubt spouses and lovers Loyalty, restricting the other person's interactions with the opposite sex or showing great displeasure;

⑥Easily hold grudges, and hold grudges against what they think have been despised, unfair treatment, etc., arousing strong hostility and revenge;

⑦Easily feel aggrieved;

⑧Conceited, overly self-evaluated, intolerant of other people’s faults, giving people a sense of being unreasonable, stubbornly pursuing unreasonable interests or power;

⑨Ignore or disbelieve objective evidence that is inconsistent with their thoughts, making it difficult to change the patient's thoughts.

Encourage them to take the initiative in making friends, learn to trust others and eliminate their uneasiness in making friends. The principles and essentials of friendship training are:

1) Meet each other sincerely and communicate sincerely. I must adopt a sincere and conscientious attitude to actively make friends. We must believe that most people are friendly, nice, and trustworthy, and we should not be biased or distrustful of our friends, especially close friends. It must be clear that the purpose of making friends is to overcome paranoia, seek friendship and help, exchange thoughts and feelings, and eliminate psychological barriers.

(2) Try to take the initiative to provide all kinds of help to close friends during interactions. This helps to exchange hearts for hearts, gain the other person's trust and solidify friendship. Especially when others are in trouble, they should help each other and know the true feelings in adversity. Only in this way can we gain the trust of friends and strengthen friendship.

(3) Pay attention to the "psychological guest principle" in making friends. Similarity and consistency in personality and temperament are helpful for psychological compatibility and establishing a good relationship. In addition, gender, age, occupation, culture There are also issues of "psychological compatibility" in terms of cultivation, economic level, social status and hobbies, but the most basic condition for psychological compatibility is the similarity and consistency of ideology and outlook on life. The so-called "like-mindedness" is development. The psychological basis for cooperation and strengthening friendship.