Of course, traditional ways of understanding, such as confessing to blind date, are once again charming in the new era. The biggest advantage of blind date is that both parties know what they are doing and have ensured effective communication; After all, blind date is recommended by others. Although it is impossible for everyone to know, we all know that the personal credit threshold has been raised by human factors, and the defendant's defense reasons can be reduced a little. If the result of blind date is often unsatisfactory, you should be prepared for repeated defeats.
When someone is willing to give you advice, don't rush to make a shy gesture, wave and say "what you recommend is definitely not as good as what you meet" and "I'm in no hurry". When you introduce others' enthusiasm in detail, you should dispel your worries, get rid of your burdens, and of course, accept it calmly. And in the case of delayed feelings, you should put a low profile and actively mobilize relatives and friends to find you a partner.
Don't be obsessed with or refuse to chat online. Someone must have told you not to believe in love fairy tales. Some people have clearly warned themselves to "die at the sight of light", but there are still many young people who bravely look for true love on the internet, make friends on QQ and in the same city ... and never miss any opportunity. If you need to deal with the problem of marriage and love through detailed introduction, online blind date is the simplest way. Many young people are anxious at work and have no time to waste on meeting, communicating, meeting again and communicating again. Online blind date doesn't need to meet, you can "talk to God" online first. Clarify whether it is necessary to meet, and further improve efficiency. It has prevented the dilemma of meeting strangers, and the communication on the Internet has also released the pressure. In addition, this way is more economical. In view of online chat, everyone's attitude is not obsessed and does not refuse. It's just another way to get to know each other. It is predestined to talk, and a thousand miles of marriage leads you.
Make friends at parties "Relatively speaking, there are few social gatherings specially held for singles, and we usually know very few people, so we don't know where to find friends." Li Xian, an older young man, felt very helpless.
At present, many people have become "families with emotional difficulties". The key reason is that the life circle is narrow, and you can't get in touch with the right marriage and dating goals. In Quanzhou, Xiamen, there are also many enterprises that set up white-collar clubs regularly to build a good service platform for young friends to make friends at will. Activities carried out by singles clubs and similar stores should also be properly involved, with the focus on whether the activities are creative and eye-catching.