The reason for my inferiority comes from experience. I also have the same painful experience, buddy. Of course, I also have a lonely side of inferiority, but my experience is rich, and all kinds of pains and joys have prompted me to have four-fold personality now, but I think it's nothing. Since you have so many personalities, you might as well apply them flexibly to your life. Similarly, it sounds as if you only have inferiority complex. I suggest you be rational, think about the use of inferiority complex, and think about your own advantages. If you don't like to talk much, choose the important words. When you hit the nail on the head in every sentence, your mental age will be very good. Finally, let me tell you one more thing. Today's social friends are not friends of the previous society. Today's friends all use each other and touch each other. There are few sincere friends. If you want to make more friends, you only have to be strong. When you are strong, friends will naturally come continuously. Introverted, no friends
, don't give up on yourself. There is a gap between yourself in your own eyes and others'. Find the reasons from yourself and believe that you will change! I am a very kind person, but the best way to meet this
is to leave him alone and stay away from him!
the more this kind of person disputes with him, the more energetic he becomes, the more he will be. Introverted, no friends?
After reading your information, I think you are a very introverted and honest person. I am also 19 years old this year. I used to be as introverted as you, and I once had your thoughts. When I was 16 years old, I was very dissatisfied with myself and felt useless, but from then on I began to change myself. I believed in myself and I could do what others could do. In fact, the biggest enemy in life is yourself. If you defeat yourself, you will defeat everything. You don't like to communicate with other people at ordinary times, which must be changed. Like many times in real life, you need to communicate with people more. It is very helpful for you to make more friends. In fact, you don't have to be so rigid. How should you adapt yourself in what environment? For male friends, Class One will play with their own personality and hobbies. In fact, people can change, and you should change to adapt to them. For girlfriends, it is difficult to find a girlfriend if you are introverted. It is natural to be bold and thick-skinned when you chase girls and children. In fact, if you feel this way now, you should change yourself and believe that everything is possible;
I'm tired of typing when I answer your question. Please share it with me. Thank you. I wish you good luck.
I'm also introverted and often want to commit suicide, but I think about it. My parents are probably going to die soon. I'll teach you a way not to be hated, that is, I always smile when I talk to people. So people say that I have affinity. In fact, at first, it was just for the sake of being friendly. I got used to it later, and it's hard to find a job now. If you are not afraid of being tired, you can find a job in an electronics factory first, then solve the problem of food and clothing first, and then find a better one slowly. Finally, there is nothing to be afraid of even dying. My mantra is "it doesn't matter". I am introverted and have no friends?
Well, actually, you should try to let go. Don't be afraid of rejection or something. Don't be afraid. Come with the cheek. It's nothing. Be humorous yourself. If you are funny, people will naturally like you. Think about it. If you are introverted, it will be difficult for others to contact you when they see you, right? So, be cheerful, it's no big deal. At most, others will laugh and pass. Let go, try to let go and take your time! Don't worry about it, because the more you think about it, the more unhappy you are. Think of something happy!
I hope you can let go soon. Come on! Support you, I believe you can, you also have to believe in yourself, if for nothing else, just for yourself, prove it to yourself! Come on! Support you! I am very introverted. What should I do without friends?
quiet is quiet! I quite like such people! Ha ha! Usually they are sincere with others. Friends ~ it's good to have a few very good friends. Those ordinary friends are just for leisure. If you really have something to do, you still have to rely on those best friends, so if you really don't need it, don't force yourself. Making friends requires quality, not quantity! Too kind to have friends
On the one hand, I think it's your classmate's problem, too powerful. If such a person doesn't make friends, he may be a bad friend. . On the other hand, to be honest, if you haven't made friends with so many classmates by now, I think it's partly your own fault. There is also a girl in the class next door, who is very kind and very nice. Everyone who knows her basically says that she is kind, but she is also very nice. . Feeling tactless doesn't mean that you won't associate with people. There is always nothing wrong with being honest with others. As long as you get along with others sincerely, someone will always find you good. I think your problem may be that you are not very good at expressing yourself, or that you behave differently from your personality, just like saying that people in other people's eyes are different from you in your own eyes. Maybe your kindness is weak in the eyes of others, and weak people are really not very likable. Because I am too weak, I believe everything and listen to everything. In the end, I can't get the trust of others. . I think you can try to change yourself. Of course, kindness is necessary, but kindness doesn't mean being bullied. If you are wrong, you are right. You can't keep up with others bullying you, otherwise others will always be like this. And learn to say no, if you can't do it, don't do what you don't want to do. Don't ask anyone else. Please, you said yes. It's too easy to promise. One is that when you can't do it, others will have opinions on you, and if you get used to it, everyone will think that you are very nice and help everyone, and you will never be angry, but you will not care about your feelings. She is a kind-hearted person. 6 words
A kind-hearted person
Kindness and sincerity are the virtues of being a person, which is one of the standards for us to pursue as students and measure our moral standards. Today, the teacher showed a movie "Warm Spring" in class. Xiaohua, the hero of the play, is an orphan. Because of hunger and fatigue, he fell at the entrance of Shaoyao Village. The village chief asked who wanted to recognize the child. Everyone pushed from pillar to post and refused to adopt. Only a kind grandfather brought Xiaohua home.
Grandpa likes Xiaohua very much, and Xiaohua loves Grandpa very much. They went to the fields together, chopping wood, cooking and living happily. But Xiaohua's uncle and aunt hated her very much and even tried to cheat her away, but Xiaohua never hated them. On one occasion, Xiaohua touched her uncle and aunt with the hot cakes made by herself and the rice sent by her neighbors, and said with a smile, "Uncle, aunt, this is my baked cake for you." Looking at her sincere appearance, their hearts were moved. Inadvertently, my uncle spoke to Xiaohua, and Xiaohua immediately put down his work and ran to grandpa's field with great speed to tell him the good news. Grandpa looked at her bloody hands and cried ... Later, grandpa cut willow branches for Xiaohua to go to school, and Xiaohua lived up to expectations. After several years of study, she finally became the first college student in the village.
seeing this, I can't help crying. I thought: It is not easy for a person not to hold grudges in his heart, but to have more love, understanding and tolerance, and to pursue truth, goodness and beauty constantly and study hard! Xiaohua is such a person, a kind person. This really answers an old saying: "Without suffering, how can there be success"? Yes, Xiaohua has suffered countless hardships before she can have today's success. So we should learn from Xiaohua and be a kind person! I want to know how to change my personality. I am introverted and paranoid, and I like to be friends with very kind people. < P > To change myself, I have to rely on myself to change others, only to play a role of supervision and cultivate my own desires. Set a lofty goal for myself and be eager to get it. If you want to get what you want urgently enough, your personality will naturally change.