My husband and I got married in 2006 and have been married for ten years. We now have two children and live in a second-tier city.

I discovered my wife’s cheating in 2013. At that time, my wife was sleeping and I accidentally checked something on her mobile phone. When I had nothing to do, I clicked on the folder he had compiled on it and found that there was a SKYEP chat software, because we usually use WeChat, QQ, etc., I opened it out of curiosity and accidentally discovered the secret of her extramarital affair.

The content inside changed my impression of my wife. I didn’t believe that my wife, who seemed to have a good temper, a good personality, and a good person, actually had another side.

The person she cheated on was her male boss, a Taiwanese, I have met him. The content is very ambiguous, and the relationship seems to be more than one or two years old. Yes, my wife joined this company in 2000. Theoretically, the relationship should have lasted for thirteen years. When I found out, I felt I was twitching and couldn't control myself. I tried to control my emotions and calm myself down.

Actually, I have known this man before. When we first came to this city in 2000, my wife just went to work, and he bought a mobile phone for my wife. Why didn’t I think much about it at the time? Because My wife said she wanted to pay him back. At that time, I was also running for survival and I really didn’t think too much about it. Later, I found a text message saying something like "I miss you so much". I was very angry at the time, so I called the other party and asked where he was. Later, I went to find a friend to ask him to come out and prepare to fix him, but he didn't come out later. , my wife explained over and over again, swearing that there would be no problem, but then nothing happened. I believe she was self-aware, because the other party had a wife. Later, my work gradually improved, and I went to a nearby county-level city to develop business. Basically, I can only go back to our rented place on weekends every week. From 2004 to 2007, I stayed in this county-level city for more than three years. Because I was a business manager at the time, had my own car, and had an annual income of about 100,000 to more than 200,000 yuan. Life began to get better, and many female customers or colleagues had a good impression of me. Because my wife and I have known each other since high school, we exchanged letters for many years before we actually met. When we got together in 2000, we already had a brief experience together. When I was in this county-level city, there were too many temptations around me and I was afraid that I would not be able to control myself. In 2006, I directly told her that we should get married. In fact, I was afraid of what I would do if I fell in love with another woman, because I He is a person who values ??relationships and does not want to develop new relationships before breaking off the relationship, which refers to marriage and the like. Even though I wasn't as nice as I said, I had sex with other girls once or twice. At that time, my wife and I had a fight. We were in a cold war for three months, but we didn't break off.