1.？ Looking for conversation material from girls' circle of friends

For example, what food the girls have eaten recently, what interesting places they have gone to, whether they have pets at home, and so on. Maybe you can find a sense of connection between you, for example, you all like certain movies; Everyone likes some kind of music; Everyone has been somewhere, etc. Chatting with girls at this time will make it easy to find a topic. For example, you went to dinner a few days ago, and people around you are recommending it recently. I hear it's very good. How do you feel? I want to get a cat recently. What's your host like?

Cut into the theme from daily life

At this time, you can actually cut into the topic from your state at that time, or eat, drink, have fun, hobbies and so on. For example, I came out of the gym today and passed a barbecue shop. From the moment I entered, I knew that my 100 bench press today should be a waste of practice ... I just got home when it began to rain outside. God really gave me face. ...

Don't be too eager to express yourself

It is true that many boys want to attract girls by showing their high value, but if you are too anxious, girls will think you are pretending, but they will doubt your authenticity. Good qualities and advantages are discovered by girls in the process of getting along with them.

Communicate your emotions.

When a woman is chatting, 80% of her words are her emotions at that time, which are meaningless, illogical and divergent. So don't care whether their words are accurate or logical. Chatting is learning to communicate with her emotions, not the actual conversation.

Grasp the emotions of girls when they reply; Follow your mood, grasp key words and interact in a relaxed and natural state. When a girl's expectation of your communication is different from the reality you give her, it can stimulate her mood. Expectation refers to the expectation and expectation of girls for your interaction. Reality refers to the actual situation of your communication. Of course, what we must be pursuing is to stimulate her high mood, not to stimulate her low mood.