Getting along with others is something that everyone in today’s society needs to be exposed to and learn. So what should we do to get along with others in our daily lives?
1. Don’t worry about small things, but know how to pay attention to big things.
In relationships, the first principle is that we must learn to be a person who cares about big things and lets go of small things. What does this mean? That is to say, if it involves your own principles, never compromise and stick to one's bottom line. If you encounter such trivial matters, you don't have to worry about it for the time being.
2. Learn to respect others, and others will respect you. This is the most basic principle of getting along with others.
In life, people come into contact with others every day, and there will be some friction, so we must learn to respect each other, and we must also understand the differences between people. This difference comes from different family growth environments. Different education, different thoughts, different personalities. The differences tell us that each person is unique. Therefore, in relationships, we must learn to respect people who are different from us so that when they disagree with us, we do not get angry but tolerate and explore their thought process behind them.
3. Understand what kind of person you are.
Think about what you really want before making friends, that is our goal, the path we want to take, and most importantly think about our own path so that we can attract like-minded people friend.
4. When dealing with others, keep a certain distance and give others enough personal space.
In person-to-person contact, appropriate distance should be maintained to ensure that everyone has their own space. There is something called boundaries in psychology, which are values ??of independence and independence that we must ensure when interacting with others. Whether it's love or dating, we need to keep our distance so that we can have a stable relationship. When we get along with others, we will find many problems because we are too close and lose the beauty of distance. When we know how to maintain a certain distance, we actually respect everyone's unique space and everyone's unique privacy, making the relationship between each other more harmonious.