1. Do you enjoy the inner state of being alone?

If you are alone but very happy and enjoy this state, then there is no need to deliberately get close to others in order to cater to others, because people have different personalities, and some people are introverts. Being alone is the most comfortable state, and it is also the state that best recharges oneself. For such people, there is no need to care whether it is good to be alone or not. The most important thing is to improve personal business capabilities. You are a valuable person yourself. Even if you are not gregarious, many people will come closer to you.

2. If you hope that you can integrate into the group, that will make you happy, but you lack the ability to integrate into the group.

Then this is a technical issue. In fact, getting along with others is also a skill, which can be improved through learning. Well, first of all, you have to learn to speak, because a person who cannot integrate into the group often cannot speak. As Cai Kangyong said, speaking is an art. If you can speak beautifully, it will make others like you easily.

Secondly, learn to do things. You must understand the principle of giving first. Whatever you want, give first. If you want the friendship of others, then give friendship first. Be kind to others first. Look at them more and do what you can for others. Learn to provide help when it is time for you, rather than add icing on the cake. Be a sincere person. Over time, others will naturally feel it.

But no matter what you do, there are several principles that you must have, independent personality, noble soul, self-esteem, self-love, and self-confidence.