According to media reports, on April 22nd, 221, there was such a tragedy about marriage in India. Because the child refused the arranged marriage of his parents, he eloped with his boyfriend in a rage. Parents are sad and afraid that their daughter will elope, which will damage their family's reputation. Under pressure, they choose to take their own lives. Looking back on this incident
First, let's take netizens back to this incident, which happened in a village in India. The couple who passed away were also very young. The husband was 45 years old and the wife was only 4 years old. They brought up two daughters under their knees. The eldest daughter obeyed the arrangement at home and got married early, but I didn't expect the younger daughter to be rebellious and refused to be arranged by her parents. Originally, both parents had already talked about the marriage. Unexpectedly, on April 17, 221, Shi Fuqi and his wife found out that their youngest daughter had run away from home and eloped with her boyfriend. What is even more irritating is that the object of her daughter's love has never been seen.
To know that the little girl's marriage is almost arranged, she is waiting to get married. In anger, the husband and wife dare not tell their relatives about the incident of their daughter running away from home, telling them that they are afraid of being insulted. Originally, it was not a big deal. It may be influenced by traditional ideas that the husband and wife actually chose to end their lives in such a fierce way. After the incident, the police intervened in the investigation for the first time, and there was no suicide note when the husband and wife left. After this incident was made public on the Internet, it also caused a lot of hot discussion among netizens. After all, it is normal for children to grow up and have their own views on mate selection, but it is simply unreasonable for parents to choose the way to end their lives. Nowadays, young people should decide their own marital affairs
There may be arranged marriages in their parents' time, but with the development of economy and the progress of marriage concept, more and more young people advocate freedom of marriage, and many parents are beginning to take it easy. The society of arranged marriage in the past has long been replaced by this free love environment. Although some young people can't find a suitable partner after entering the society, their parents will arrange blind date, but it is only to expand their children's circle of friends, and there will be no such thing as arranged wedding. Marriage life needs to be cautious
Although parents have broken their hearts for their children's marriage, the future marriage life is their own business, so it is essential to give children some space. Especially for young people, if they can't even choose their other half, such a married life will feel suffocated, and they will not feel happy in their married life. Nowadays, the pressure of life is so great that everyone is struggling for his future. Lover is not only his strong backing, but also his life partner. Therefore, choosing your favorite marriage partner is not only responsible for yourself, but also for the future of two people.