I never thought that "distance produces beauty" before.

I think friends should keep in touch, which will make our relationship better and better. However, just this year, I don't feel like this.

In the first half of this year, that is, the second semester of Senior Two, a new classmate transferred to our class. This new classmate is very boyish, with good hairstyle, good walking posture and even good clothes. A few days after she transferred to our class, our class began to compile seats. I happen to sit at the same table with this new classmate.

At first, being a deskmate with her felt neither good nor bad. It happens every day anyway. Later, when I got to know more, my relationship became better. She will talk to me about her family or why she transferred to another school. I think she's ok, just consider her a friend.

Later, we exchanged seats, and we exchanged seats. The relationship is ok. A friend of mine (sitting close to her) told me in private that she loves to take advantage of others too much. I didn't think so at first, but the more I observed it, the more I felt.

In the second half of the year, I was in the same class with her and a good friend of mine. Several students in our original class did it together. She and I are only separated by a corridor, and I sit at the same table with my good friend. She thinks we know each other very well, so she always does something that makes people feel too much. The point is, she doesn't think so yet

For example, I bought a big bag of napkins at my deskmate, and she knew. She always borrows it from my deskmate. When my deskmate runs out, she doesn't buy it herself. She borrowed it again when I bought it at the same table. My deskmate couldn't hold her hand, so I didn't lend it to her. As a result, she took my deskmate's paper directly after class and asked her to return it. Later, I bought it again, and she still did. I can't stop buying paper because of this (I always catch a cold myself). The same is true for shopping and eating. She always eats what we buy first. Sometimes they don't give it back to us at all. But she eats everything by herself (not that we have to ask her to return it). Is her virtue too bad?

Forget it, there are still many things I don't want to say.

I just think it's okay to play far away from her. It's not good for her to contact too long or play too well.

So for her, I can only say "distance produces beauty."

Essay:

We all like to use the word "intimacy" to describe very good friends, but in fact they have really arrived.

Intimacy often backfires. It is necessary to keep a certain distance between friends.

Yes, but friends of different degrees can have different distances. The distance mentioned here,

Mainly refers to due courtesy and respect. Some people lose their sense of proportion as soon as they get acquainted with others.

Sense, entered the so-called regardless of each other's state. The extremes meet, and once it reaches this level, friendship will

This will be the opposite. What is the reason? When it comes to "don't treat him like an outsider"

Later, it will naturally turn some seemingly trivial problems into unimportant ones.

Status, such as attitude, way of speaking. This will inevitably increase the possibility of misunderstanding or friction.

Energy. Why don't many lovers eat well if they don't see each other for one day or three days before marriage?

If you do things heartlessly, you will get sick if you don't see them for a week, and almost fatal if you don't see them for a month;

But getting married should be your wish, but it has changed in less than a year. heavy

One of the main reasons is that we are no longer outsiders. Besides, where are the others? Isn't ordinary friendship better than

Will the relationship be much deeper

Schopenhauer once said: "The reason of social communication lies in the monotony and emptiness of people's lives."

Virtual. Social needs drive them together, but each has a lot of disgusting behaviors.

Separated them. Finally, they found an appropriate distance to tolerate each other, that is:

"Politeness" was once compared to a porcupine, whose body was covered with thorns in order to avoid the cold in cold weather.

Everyone wants to use each other's body temperature, so get as close as possible, but not too close, because everyone is.

There is a thorn, and as a result, the porcupine gets as close as possible on the premise that no one can stab anyone. mankind

Keep a "porcupine distance" when dealing with people. Zidan was published in the newspaper.

A short article entitled "Distance is also a kind of beauty". In this essay, I think there are several paragraphs.

It's well written, and the special excerpt is here for everyone to enjoy: in fact, why not open the communication between people?

Some distance. Because of the distance, there is the existence of subject and object. Sight penetration

Look at each other for a long time; And the positions of subject and object are often interchangeable. make friends

In the future, there is no need to attack all fronts in a short time, whether it is hot or hot; You don't need a little conflict of interest, it's just a moment.

Become a tiger and a cow. Just think of each other from time to time, make a phone call and listen to each other's voice; Xiangyuequ

Watching movies and playing tennis; On a Sunday, we had a tea party, an endless sea and a heart-to-heart talk. light

However, time will become a stream. The way to make friends is to watch the lotus. Elegant as a cover, Ying Ying wants to open it,

It's best to look from a distance. The fragrance is sent with the wind, silent and charming. If you get too close, you will see dead branches.

Leaves, rotten water, it is inevitable to be frustrated. Everyone has his own space and a lotus pond.

I looked at him and he looked at me. Enjoy yourself and enjoy leisure and spaciousness.