In "The City of Fantasy Music", Ku Kuiji said that he wanted to tell the audience through his works that he should cherish his friends, because once you meet them, you will never see them again. Faye Wong doesn't quite agree with this. She says there is no need to be satisfied deliberately, because people will leave whether you look at it or not.
In fact, Faye Wong just wants to say that while cherishing friends, we should also relax, be a little Buddhist and let nature take its course.
People like Faye Wong have a very Buddhist attitude towards friendship. They never deliberately insist on or contact anyone. If you come, he will smile; if you leave, he will not stay.
Because they know that life is impermanent, no matter how hard you try, people around you will leave you. The best way is to cherish it when we are together and not regret it when we lose it. It can be said that they really treat friendship with Buddha and see everything thoroughly.
Some people are just like everyone else, because they know that the feelings between people will change. They may be good in the past, but they may not be so good after that, so don't be too sad when there is no contact between the two sides. After all, this is life.
Therefore, they always let nature take its course with their friends. When they are friends, treat each other with care. When they lose, accept such impermanence, don't be too sad or too desperate, just get used to it.
There are also people who don't like to express their emotions excessively. Sometimes, in fact, he really wants to tell you how much he likes you and wants to be your friend for life, but he knows that life is full of variables, so he would rather keep such words in his heart and take every step in front of him.
So they won't cry even if they lose their friends, because he has long been used to such impermanence, and he knows that this is the essence of life, not that he is heartless and cold-blooded.