1. People who don’t mean what they say
I have experienced this kind of friend before. When he was in the company, he was very upright and kind-hearted. However, as time went by, everyone found out that After all, he is a man with different appearances and duplicity. Not only does he like to make small moves with his boss, but he also pulls his colleagues by their hair. That's it. After we see his true face clearly, fewer and fewer people want to get in touch with him. As the saying goes, if your mouth is harsh, your heart will be kind, and if your heart is harsh, your mouth will be sweet. In real life, a person who doesn’t mean what he says may be sweet on the lips, but is very vicious on the inside. Such a person will only put his own interests first and never consider the feelings of others. Such a person is the most cruel person. Selfish.
In real life, the same is true for making friends. True friends will understand and take your interests into consideration, while people who don’t mean what they mean usually are just sweet-talking and cruel-hearted. Sometimes, it is easy for everyone to be blinded by such people. In daily life, we can't be sure what kind of people we will meet, but we can be sure what kind of people we will get to know. When a person does one thing in front of others but behind the scenes, it means that such a person is not worth getting to know. So when we encounter it, we should avoid it. But when we make friends, we should also look at quality. There is no need to make friends with people with poor character. 2. Fair-weather friends
Xiao Gang is also one of our friends. Sometimes I see him socializing a lot. He said that most of them were former classmates, and everyone would go out for party activities whenever they had free time. Once, Xiaogang was hospitalized due to physical reasons. At this moment, all his colleagues went to see him. After chatting with him for a while, his wife said to him: "I don't see any of your usual fair-weather friends. Didn't you say that between you? Is your relationship good? The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. Now you understand."
After hearing such words, everyone at the scene was quite embarrassed, but it was not right. Nothing wrong. Good friends are beautiful beings in our lives. In real life, we will meet all kinds of people. Some people can accompany us throughout our lives, but some people can only accompany us for one journey. Some people say that having more friends makes life easier, but I feel that good friends depend on their quality, not their total number. Friends who really care about you will take care of your feelings and know how to protect your interests. Friends who are fair-weather friends are usually fake friends, so you don’t want such friends. As the saying goes, the friendship between gentlemen is like water. This sentence also brings us a very big reminder that daily life is not easy, and we should give our precious time to people who are very worthy of it. 3. People who pursue fame and wealth
Such people just follow the wind. In real life, they often put their own interests first and have no opinions of their own in dealing with people. What do others say? In fact, that's what. In order to maximize their own interests, they will do all kinds of things that harm the feelings of good friends. A person of this size is friendly on the outside but ferocious on the inside, making him a real chameleon.
No matter how much you treat her, he will ignore friendship for the sake of so-called interests. Such people are two-faced and never take others into consideration. They can only put themselves first. The longer you stay with such people, the greater your losses will be. Judging people by their appearance. When we are interacting with a person, we should not just look at the surface. Only when you truly understand a person can you judge whether this person is worth getting along with.