Advantages: 1, early growth 2, independence 3, strong personality, strong ability to resist oppression 4, filial piety to parents 5, better care for people. Generally speaking, it can be said that a boy who followed his mother since childhood will understand his girlfriend when he grows up if he can understand his mother's difficulties. If a girl follows her mother since childhood, she is generally sensible, considerate and independent; If the girl who followed her father since childhood can take good care of her father and grow into a good woman. If the boy who followed his father since childhood is more masculine, he may also be inspired by his father's "divorce lesson" and should be more responsible for his family in the future. Single-parent children are easy to stand on their own feet, which also helps children to be more mature than other children. At the same time, single-parent children know how to cherish their loved ones who have paid for themselves. Education is easy to implement and there is no interference from others. As long as we can treat single-parent children correctly, they will never be worse than children in normal families anywhere. It is easy to form an attachment relationship, children's ability to love and be loved is developed, self-identity is developed, and they will feel very important. Children will care about their mothers and take the place of their fathers. Children are more independent and improve their social skills and ability to help others. It is easier for children and mothers to form clear information exchange, without swinging between parents. Many public information overemphasizes the educational predicament of single-parent children, inappropriately exaggerates its harm, and leaves a shadow on children's hearts. Don't believe it too much. One advantage of single-parent families is that a problem does not need so many family meetings to decide, and it does not need the unanimous consent of grandparents, grandparents, parents and others. At least in single-parent families, it can maintain high efficiency. With fewer family conflicts, clean ears and a clear head, you can start thinking and make the most suitable choice. Small things like buying a bottle or not can be solved by yourself. You can decide important things, such as what school you go to. Advantages of children in single-parent families 2 Characteristics of children in single-parent families 1. Inferiority: children from divorced families tend to have negative and pessimistic self-concepts, such as "my family is unfortunate", "I am an unwanted child" and "my life is not good". If other aspects are frustrated, it is easy to have inferiority complex. Second, unsociable: the disharmonious family environment makes children's interpersonal relationships tense. The idea that "divorce is disgraceful, I don't want others to know, and I can't hold my head among my classmates" makes children reluctant to associate with others, and it is easy to form a withdrawn and unsociable character. Third, cowardice: Some parents often pin their feelings and hopes on their children after divorce, especially hoping that their children will become useful talents and show that they have taught their children well, so they are too tightly bound and disciplined. Over time, children are psychologically burdened and afraid of disappointing their parents, so they stay away from their parents and become timid. 4. Rudeness: Children from divorced families often don't understand their parents' divorce behavior, or understand divorce as their parents' ruthlessness and extreme selfishness. If parents often quarrel and fight before divorce, children will not feel affection and family warmth, which will easily lead to sad and cold emotions and form a rude personality tendency. Characteristics of single-parent families 1. A single-parent family refers to a family where at least one child lives with a single parent. Another definition from the perspective of family economic evaluation is that only biological parents or adoptive parents have income units to support school or preschool children. 2. The so-called single-parent family refers to the family formed by the divorce of husband and wife, the death of one party and the separation of husband and wife. Among all single-parent families, divorced single-parent families do the most harm to children. 3. The so-called single-parent families refer to families who are widowed, divorced, separated and pregnant before marriage. , or its members are incomplete. Children raised by their mothers or fathers are children of single-parent families. In recent years, with the emergence of divorce, the number of students from single-parent families among newly enrolled college students has increased year by year. 4. The so-called single-parent family refers to a single-parent (mother) family that has no husband but may have children under the age of 18. The proportion of single-parent families varies among different ethnic groups. In new york, for example, the proportion of Asian single-parent families is only 4%. 5. Single-parent family refers to a family composed of only mother (or father) and unmarried children. Since the early 1990s, a large number of single-parent families have appeared in Russia, accounting for 13.4% of the total number of families. The main body of single-parent families is families composed of single mothers and their children, accounting for 94% of the total number of single-parent families. Advantages of children in single-parent families 3 Basic methods of education for children in single-parent families Method 1: Seeking demand points. People have needs all the time, which is the ideological and psychological characteristics of people. Therefore, grasping the demand point will also grasp the joint point of the child's mind. What children in single-parent families lack most is affection. What they need is nothing more than the warmth of the family, the joy of success, and the understanding and sympathy of others. Educators should seize children's needs in time, create a family atmosphere in classes and families, comfort their spiritual wounds with the warmth of families and collectives, give them cordial care, and let them feel the love and warmth like family members. Method 2: Seize the bright spot. Highlights are a person's strengths and advantages. Grasping people's advantages and advantages to affirm, encourage and praise, even a little, can effectively dispel people's sense of inferiority and stimulate people's enterprising spirit. Everyone has a bright spot, and children from single-parent families are no exception. Parents and teachers should give them extra praise and affirmation when they have creative ideas in their studies. Children from single-parent families should be encouraged more and blamed less; More warmth, less indifference. Method 3: Discover hobbies. Hobbies are the basis and premise of doing things. Everyone has his own hobbies. Only by fully displaying one's hobbies and specialties can one cultivate and establish self-confidence. Children from single-parent families have problems in showing their hobbies and specialties. If we can't find and develop it in time, we will lose the opportunity to turn education into success. Children's self-confidence and nervousness, especially their interest in what they have learned, will affect the transfer of knowledge. Therefore, teachers and parents must be good at discovering and guiding children's hobbies in time and transferring this hobby to the track that is conducive to children's physical and mental development in time. Only in this way can we produce better educational and teaching effects. Method 4: Overcome setbacks. Life in this world cannot be smooth sailing, and there can be no setbacks. Handling setbacks well may become a new starting point for children's progress and a new driving force for progress; If it is not handled well, it will become a point of ideological decline and retrogression. Children in single-parent families have many setbacks, not only their parents' divorce, but also their lives and friends. To this end, teachers and parents must grasp the joint point of this ideological change and comfort and enlighten them in time. Method 5: Generate * * * sound points. The so-called * * * singing point refers to the * * similarity of children in thoughts, feelings, behaviors and situations. The situation of children in single-parent families is the same, but their thoughts and behaviors are different. There are many successful people here. Children in single-parent families have great ups and downs in thinking, abnormal personality and behavior, passive learning, bad habits and lack of self-confidence. As teachers and parents, we should not only take the initiative to care about them in life, but also use the situation in our minds to stimulate their self-confidence. For example, using the stories of children from single-parent families who have contributed to mankind, such as Chaplin and Xi Xinghai, can trigger the ideological transformation of such children, make them produce * * * vibrations, produce * * * voices, produce positive thoughts and feelings, and help them to be familiar with their values and pursue their goals persistently. Method 6: Don't indulge and spoil children without principle. Parents tend to be more sympathetic to their children after their spouses die or divorce. Everything depends on their children, everything is under their control. They would rather suffer for themselves than let their children suffer a little injustice. As a result, children often take me as the center everywhere, becoming selfish, bossy and willful "little bullies", lacking sympathy and sense of responsibility, not knowing how to respect others, and often looking down on their parents who raised them with hardships. Method 7: Cultivate children's sense of independence. There are many single parents who live alone with their children and regard them as the only hope in life, for fear that their children will be unsafe and have accidents. Take care of children's lives, let children develop the habit of reaching for clothes and living within their means from an early age, and take various measures to limit their activities. This is unacceptable and not allowed. Afraid of children's problems, they can't be independent in everything, and they don't have the opportunity to experience some indispensable "risks" in life. Such children lack independent consciousness, and once they leave their parents, they don't know how to face the difficulties and setbacks in life. Single-parent family education method 8: simple and rude is not desirable. Contrary to extraordinary care and excessive protection, some parents educate their children in a simple and rude way, always beating and cursing, which makes their children live in panic all day, and their personality development is seriously inhibited, forming bad qualities such as timidity, withdrawn, stubbornness and self-confidence. Avoiding parents for fear of punishment, unwilling to go home and looking for "warmth" outside are easy to be dragged down by bad guys and embark on the road of crime. Therefore, parents should educate their children not to be simple and rude, but to pay attention to correct guidance.