Especially on the issue of fertility, it seems to be an unwritten rule that women must get married and have children. Many women with reproductive difficulties will find it difficult to get out of the predicament.
20021March 18, Chen Songling posted a message on her social platform in response to her chat with her mother-in-law in Grandma and Mom 2.
All the netizens who follow Chen Songling know that she made great efforts to give birth to a baby, and even did a lot of things beyond imagination, but the final result is still unsatisfactory, which makes people feel distressed.
In fact, it is a good opportunity for her to suddenly tell her mother-in-law that she can't have children.
Faced with the fact that she can't have children, Chen Songling seems relieved. She doesn't think that the meaning of a woman's life lies in having children, and having children is not an item that must be completed in her life list.
Of course, a grateful woman naturally knows how to express her gratitude for the understanding and support of the people around her, so Chen Songling is also grateful to her husband Zhang Duo and her mother-in-law.
The family's tolerance and understanding made Chen Songling feel relaxed. She also said that she would travel around the world with Zhang Duo and her in-laws, and the happiness of the whole family would not be affected by her infertility.
I have to say that Chen Songling is a woman who knows how to let go of herself. She didn't embarrass herself too much about infertility. She worked hard, won, and stopped pushing herself when fate didn't come. What's more, the value of a woman's life is not reflected by having children.
The enthusiastic response of her mother-in-law also showed Chen Songling's personal charm. If she hadn't conquered her mother-in-law in other ways, the relatively traditional old man would not be so willing to accept the fact that his daughter-in-law could not have children.
Chen Songling, a former TVB Hua Dan, established her position as the big sister in the entertainment circle at the beginning of her career. Unfortunately, with the rise of newcomers, Chen Songling gradually faded out of the audience's sight.
Because of the decline of family life, I had to enter the entertainment circle to make money when I was young, and the hardships I paid were beyond ordinary people's imagination.
Chen Songling wanted to pursue further studies, but she didn't get her mother's support and didn't give up easily. Blessed by God, she was admitted to the University of Hong Kong by her own efforts.
After becoming famous, she had a good development prospect, but she was cheated, fell ill, hurt her body and led to infertility.
It seems that God tried too much and was cruel to this woman, but surprisingly, this strong woman was not defeated.
Even after the ups and downs and difficulties, Chen Songling is as optimistic as ever. She never gave up her passion for life because of her misfortune.
In Chen Songling's world, she never complains, because she knows that complaining will only increase her anger. Let nature regard everything as a precious gift of life.
Because of these experiences, she grew up and understood to cherish the hard-won happiness and stability, and because of these bumps, she became more calm and calm.
We all say that what you give to life will be returned to you. Chen Songling's positive breath finally made her happy, so she met a good man like Zhang Duo and a good mother-in-law who understood her.
In the program, Zhang Duo is a very traditional northeast man. He respects her, loves her, and even wants to protect her, claiming that he wants a dink, but doesn't want children.
In the face of his mother and wife, Zhang Duo has always protected Chen Songling, unwilling to let her suffer a little injustice. The state of two people makes people feel that love can be so sweet.
Many people are willing to send their own blessings, hoping that this unfortunate but lucky woman will be happier and happier. After working hard for so long, it will be very sweet and have a different taste.
In my opinion, the reason why Chen Songling can endure hardship is because she has complied with her own destiny. It's not cowardice, it's not fate, but knowing how not to embarrass yourself and be kind to yourself.
Because of this wise attitude, Chen Songling is very transparent. She knows that a woman can do a lot in this life and realize her life value in many ways. There's no need to be too hard on yourself and waste time giving birth.
Some people say that a woman who has never given birth is not a complete woman, which seems to be reasonable, because the psychological growth of a woman will be different after becoming a mother, but this sentence is one-sided because it ignores the differences in life.
Everyone is an independent individual, and the life he chooses is different. Of course, everyone has his own pursuit, but not every goal he pursues can be achieved.
Faced with irresistible results, some people have emotional breakdown, don't stop until they reach their goals, and even hurt themselves and the people around them. This is undoubtedly unwise.
Some people know what it means to "back off" wisely. To say the least, concession may not seem so hard-hearted, but it is the best way to protect yourself.
A woman who knows how to reconcile with herself and let go of herself is very powerful at heart. In every journey of their lives, they try their best to do what they should do and do their best. The ending is left to fate.
In the entertainment circle, many actresses are constantly pursuing fame and fortune, hoping to gain higher popularity and flow, and hope that they will always be young and beautiful.
But whoever it is, it's like flowers bloom and fall. Free and easy Zhou Xun is a natural person. After experiencing the ups and downs of life, she cherishes her ease and a little happiness.
Therefore, Zhou Xun thinks that taking care of yourself is the most important thing. He won't force anything, whether acting or making friends, just let nature take its course.
Everything works together, so we can look back. Keeping quiet is the great wisdom of life, but each of us should respect our hearts in everything, because the most fundamental place between heaven and earth is "nature".
Therefore, letting nature take its course is a woman's profound understanding of life after the baptism of fate, and it is also the courage to be fearless of difficulties and obstacles.