Junior high school just started to understand. At this time, I had some judgments about right and wrong, and I also initially formed some views on things. It is very important for them to make friends with junior high school students. On the one hand, because it is the time when the outlook on life and values are formed, the influence of people around him is very important. As the saying goes, people near Zhu Zhechi are all black. This is why both parents and teachers emphasize not to make bad friends. Because this stage is amorphous, what kind of mold you put yourself in may become. On the other hand, junior high school students want to know what kind of person they are, whether they are welcomed by others, whether they are affirmed by others, and what are their advantages and disadvantages. At this time, they want to have an understanding of themselves. At this time, friends are their own mirrors, and you can reflect all aspects of yourself by making friends. If you don't have good friends, you may even think you are bad and unpopular. Do you think my analysis is correct?
In order to solve this problem, we start from the following aspects:
So, first of all, you have to decide who to make friends with. You should be careful when making friends. What we are talking about here is bosom friends. Those who often play together are not necessarily friends. Make friends with whoever you want to be, and make friends with the winner if you want to be a winner. It's an improvement for yourself.
Secondly, one of the secrets of making friends is initiative. If you are on your way home from school, you can take the initiative to invite them back together, or take the initiative to invite them to attend on your birthday, so that you will also be invited on other people's birthdays next time and your friends will increase. Or you can do some problems and take the initiative to help students who can't do it. Take the initiative to help others, others thank you, and it is easier to become a confidant.
Again, taking the initiative is just a good start. So how to maintain friendship? I'm afraid that's what you're worried about. Find out your hobbies and topics first, for example, you all like playing badminton or a star, so that you can have frequent communication. Second, be honest with each other. If you want to make good friends, you should treat your friends as you wish. For example, give them encouragement and encouragement when they fail in the exam. When they have difficulties in study and life, try your best to help them. When they have something good, share it with them. Only these deep-rooted intentional contacts can make eternal friends, so-called friends in need, and so on. If you want to be a conscientious person, a person who likes to help others and care about others, you will certainly make good friends. Third, we should learn to cultivate our emotional ability. In other words, you can understand others, sympathize with others and put yourself in others' shoes. If someone does something that makes you unhappy, if you were in his position, you might do the same, so that you won't be too angry, become tolerant and forgive others easily. In this way, because of your tolerance and understanding, you have a few sincere friends.
Fourth, if you have realized that you have some bad habits, remember to get rid of them. In fact, it only takes 2 1 day to get rid of a habit. 2 1 day, if you don't swear, get rid of this habit. Before you speak, you should consider whether you should say this dirty word.
I believe you are a lively, cheerful and kind girl and everyone will like you. Have fun!