Friendship can easily be promoted to love, but feelings can hardly be diluted to friendship. What is the reason? Just as people can't hang themselves from a tree when they are old, so people's emotions can't hang themselves from a tree. From friendship to emotion, it is promotion, no problem. But from emotion to friendship, it is a gap. Without love, the foundation of communication will collapse, and friendship will have no place to join. The most torturous waiting is not that you have been waiting for the boat at the airport, because you will eventually realize that you will never wait; It doesn't mean that waiting in a long line in a restaurant is equivalent to completely preparing your order, because you know it's only a matter of time. The most torturous and helpless waiting is that you can't break your stubbornness without establishing it. Just like every time you raise your expectations, it is drowned out by the rain. It keeps giving you a little natural light to forget to bring your umbrella, but it also pours heavily on you.

Those who can still be friends after separation either don't love, don't love enough, don't do it, or don't do enough. If he loves you, why did he break up with you? If he loves you, how can he not value your tenderness? If he loves you, why should he watch you cry and be indifferent? After breaking up, the best state is not to disturb each other, which will only make you pay more and more, and only a few people can continue to be friends with each other. Therefore, saying goodbye to each other, never seeing each other again in this life, and living your daily life without disturbing or pursuing each other is the greatest respect for each other. It is a noble thing to be a stranger after breaking up, whether for others or for yourself.

I heard that too many people broke up and talked about it, and then they became friends. But does it actually include friends? Can you forget those happy or sad times when the other person exists, just be friends and watch her find another lover? From falling in love to entanglement, from breaking up, can we be friends calmly? Can you just pay attention to him as a friend, and then it won't be easy to have an embarrassing reputation?

If you can, then you must have never really loved. Or the result of one person's compromise. Forget who said it: Emotion has no access gate, and it can't be closed. Two people can't fall in love except this, and they can't fall in love except this. Do not love or hate, and be indifferent to the anxiety in your heart to become good friends. But you and I, two newly separated people, maybe one of them can't let go, maybe it's because of love and hate, maybe it's because of other people's uneasy eyes, how can we be good friends?

You know, except that there is no contact, you can contact again. That will only make you uncomfortable and make him unforgettable. If you have already broken up, don't be cruel and rude to yourself. If it's time to break up, you need to break up. Live your own life. No matter what the reason, if you break up, you just can't fall in love, so be the most familiar stranger. Even if there is no fate along the way, then leave completely and bless you silently, but you are already a passer-by in my life. Becoming the most familiar stranger after breaking up is tolerance for yourself and respect for new feelings afterwards. A qualified predecessor should be dead, and there is no need to mourn.