possessiveness generally exists between lovers. If you want to take each other for yourself, it will seriously interfere with each other's circle of friends and make people unable to breathe. Having a possessive object is a matter of happiness and lack of freedom. Happiness is that one feels that one's boyfriend or girlfriend will want to tie himself up because he loves himself, but there is no freedom at all, which is boring. ? There is a real example. My friend is dating another friend. Once a girl went out to have dinner with a friend, the boy's serial call came, asking where the girl went, why she went, what she did, who she went with and why she went with that person. Put yourself in the other's shoes. What would someone think if they asked themselves this question? Do you feel that the other party doesn't trust you? Do you feel that you don't have any private space at all? Do you feel that you are on a secret mission and need to report it all the time? Another time, when a girl went to the toilet, she couldn't help but take a photo when she saw the mirror, and the boy's 99+ came. How long did it take, about five minutes, and the boys kept sending messages and making phone calls. I don't think it is necessary for two people to fall in love. ? Some people like possessive people, which is understandable. I like being taken care of by the person I like and feel happy. This is also a mode of getting along. However, I believe that people's possessiveness is moderate, and the management will not lock each other in their side and be a clever bird. Everyone has different preferences, some like possessive people and some don't like possessive people. I think the possessiveness is to announce that this person is mine and ask irrelevant people to stay away from him. It doesn't mean that you can't let the other person have your own circle of friends. If you have a dog, you have to let it go out to play, let alone fall in love. ? So I think possessiveness needs to be achieved to a certain extent. Falling in love is something that makes two people happy, not a relationship that blocks each other. I hope everyone can be possessive of their objects correctly.