People’s hearts are separated from each other, and maybe the people around you are full of bad intentions.

Everyone is worried that he will meet someone unkindly or make careless friends. However, in order to survive, I have to expand my network of contacts and cooperate with others to do things.

Our ancestors told us that "the mouth is the door to disaster and fortune." In other words, you can judge whether a person's heart is good or bad from his words. Even if it is very concealed, there is an overtone.

Let me tell you, people with bad intentions have the following "sex" in their words. It is best to stay away from them.

01

Like to say ambiguous words, it is difficult to tell the truth from the false.

Some words are said but not said. If you think about it carefully, you will find that one sentence can be broken down into many sentences, and they all make sense.

I have seen a joke. Three students went to see a fortune teller to see if they could pass high school in one fell swoop. The fortune teller definitely doesn't know the outcome of the matter, but after accepting other people's money, he is embarrassed not to reveal some "information".

He said: "If you understand one 'one' thoroughly, you can achieve something."

Later, two of the three students passed the exam. They were puzzled. When I said "one", how come both of them passed the exam? Ever since, I decided to go find trouble with the fortune teller.

The fortune teller said: "I said, no one is successful. Is it wrong?"

Everyone was speechless and could only accept their fate.

The writing is extensive and profound, and there are many homonymous words; one word can have multiple interpretations, and receive mixed reviews on different occasions. Therefore, the evil-minded person will seize this point and make the obedient person confused, but afterward, he can speak clearly and make you believe it.

For example, saying "the water is very clean" in a vicious manner means that the water is dirty, but the literal and verbal meanings are the opposite.

When you hear something that is difficult to distinguish between true and false, it is best not to take it seriously. Listen attentively and do what he says. On the contrary, you will be trapping yourself.

02

At critical moments, do not express your position, do not speak, and avoid responsibilities.

Silence is also a kind of language.

When ordinary people are silent, it means that they are very quiet and do not want to get involved in messy things. However, evil-minded people will boast when they should not speak, and remain silent and pretend to be deaf and dumb when they must speak.

For example, you and your partners are doing business together, and you encounter trouble and you don’t know how to deal with it. You ask, what should be done? The partner remained silent. When you finish handling the matter and cause losses, he will immediately jump out and blame you for the wrong way of handling the problem.

When you must take responsibility, remaining silent is to evade responsibility and let others take the blame. When encountering such a situation, you should act cautiously and clear yourself of responsibilities. You can even adopt the method of "writing a plan and signing it" to protect yourself.

03

Talking behind your back and amplifying other people’s faults and shortcomings.

Don’t say anything to your face, but talk nonsense behind your back. Such people are very annoying.

But you don’t know who is speaking ill of you behind your back? Moreover, some vicious words are not told directly to you by the "initiator", but spread to your ears through the mouths of several people. It is difficult to understand what is going on.

You have to know that evil-minded people have a hobby - pinching people where they hurt.

When talking with others, if someone uses the scandals you have done in the past, mistakes at work, conflicts between people, etc. as conversation topics, it is probably because you have no good intentions. He will also comfort people while exposing his shortcomings, pretending to be a good guy; only after you leave will his true nature be fully exposed.

Everyone has different virtues and faults. Whether it is praise or criticism, it is best to point it out in person rather than talking about it behind your back.

Therefore, if you meet someone who talks nonsense behind his or her back, don’t pay attention to him, otherwise he will talk even more energetically and make you unable to hold your head high in front of relatives and friends.

04

Good at "hinting" others and guiding others to go into darkness.

In psychology, there is a "suggestion effect", which uses words or body movements to guide others to do something, or to create expectations of thoughts and behaviors, without confrontation between the two parties.

Evil-minded people want to lead others into a dark place, or they may have dug a trap long ago and are waiting for others to fall into it. As soon as he opens his mouth, he will use intentional language to give you an idea of ??what to do.

For example, two colleagues work together. Colleague A said that his boss recently assigned a special task. If he completes it, he will definitely be reused. Colleague B heard about it and immediately became interested and hoped to join this task.

In fact, the task is very difficult to complete, and if you mess up, you will be punished.

To be a human being, you need to have an extra eye, and everything must go through the brain. The clearer the direction of something, the more likely it is an illusion. It feels very uncomfortable to be led by someone's nose.

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Conclusion.

From a person's words, you can see his heart.

So, what should you do if you meet someone with bad intentions? First, don't expose him easily, face him with a smile, and avoid becoming enemies with him. The second is to put away your curiosity, don't be tempted by bad interests, and don't believe in good things that "fall into the pie". The third is to insist on being righteous and draw a clear line with him. The fourth is to think independently, know what you want and do, and not let others influence your emotions.

To mix in society, people should be close to people with positive energy. Generally speaking, people with good intentions are often not good at words and like to say "pertinent" words, which makes people feel uncomfortable. It is precisely "loyal advice that offends the ears but helps the deeds".

As the saying goes: "It's hard to know people's faces but not their hearts. It's difficult to paint a dragon or a tiger."

No matter who you are with, insist on talking less and doing more. If someone is plotting against you, don't blame others. First think about where you went wrong, whether you didn't take precautions well, or you just coveted the windfall.

The bad guy can hurt you because you are too close to him, or you may be in cahoots with him.

When your heart is as bright as a mirror, the dirt of words cannot get close to you.

Author: Buyi coarse food.

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