When she was in love, she knew that the other party had a group of such friends who kept socializing all day. Either Zhang San called for drinking or Li Si wanted to celebrate, and there was no shortage of quarrels between two people because of drinking. When they got married, these friends even tied the groom to a hotel post and threw stinky tofu at him (there is a local custom to tease the groom when they get married). In the eyes of our women's friends, these people are wild and difficult to get along with, so they often remind their girlfriends to take care of their husbands. After getting married, my best friend's husband bought a car, which was often borrowed by either the elder brother or the elder sister. Once my best friend took back the car she had lent for half a month, only to find that the bumper was sprayed with new paint. My best friend vomited blood with anger, and she was not good at attacking her husband's friends. She had a big fight with her husband and made him swear never to borrow the car again.
But it is also these friends who lend a helping hand when their girlfriend is pregnant for several months but is hospitalized because of a car accident. The car accident happened suddenly. My best friend and husband were in the car at that time. When my best friend passed out because of a concussion, all I remember is that my friend called when my husband called an ambulance. When I woke up again, my best friend was already in the hospital. Later, I learned that these friends rushed to the scene of the accident, called the police, applied for insurance, followed the ambulance, and stayed with their girlfriends when their husbands checked. Later, when I was drinking, my friend who borrowed the car also apologized to his girlfriend for drinking, saying that he accidentally scratched the car. And girlfriends, for her husband's entertainment, are not as blocked as before.
Is it a good thing or a bad thing for a man to make friends? You can't kill him with a stick. As the saying goes, there are many friends, and living with many friends in society is better than many enemies. But the important thing is how to live a good life in a mixed environment.