If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come. Beautiful girls are naturally favored by boys. If you are amazing enough, it is not easy to find a boyfriend you like as long as you don't set the threshold for finding a boyfriend too high. If you look mediocre, don't be discouraged. You have to remember one sentence, girls are cute not because they are beautiful, but because they are cute. In the history of English literature, there was an orphan girl named Jane Eyre, who was thin and not beautiful. But with her own efforts, she finally overcame the obstacles of poverty, status, money, honor and disgrace, and finally gained a beautiful love. Efforts will not be in vain, and tempering is to meet a better self. In layman's terms, it is "it is necessary to be hard while the iron is hot." What kind of person you are basically determines what kind of person you want to be with. Appreciate each other, excellent people will be more confident and have more choices when choosing friends, thus attracting those who are destined to know you.
2. Attend a friend's party
Participate in more classmates and friends' gatherings and expand your social circle as much as possible. Fate will come one day, so you have to believe it. I had a crush on a girl in high school, but I have been afraid to confess because of the pressure of entering a higher school. I didn't say that important sentence until we graduated from high school and said goodbye to each other. In a blink of an eye, we met again at a classmate's winter vacation party. When she passed me in a long shawl, I felt my heart beat half a beat. When I learned from my classmates that she was still alone with my sister-in-law, my emotions suddenly got out of control. I told myself that I must catch up with her ... and I got what I wanted. Now we are a happy family of three.
Fate is unstoppable, so even if you haven't waited for the person you want to hold hands with, you should believe that fate is already on the way.
3. Blind date
If you really don't actively pursue people's resources and abilities, then passive matchmaking through relatives and friends is also a priority for finding a boyfriend. However, blind date usually talks about marriage, which is a bit unacceptable and even contradictory for reserved girls. I often hear girls complain, "I'm not talking about friends, why go straight to the theme of marriage?"
In fact, blind date is not as beautiful as imagined. Girls should be normal and objective. As long as it's not a blind date that makes you too disgusted, you can try to get to know each other in many ways. As Wu Zaishi, a contemporary poet, said in his poems: liking a person begins with his face value, falling into talent and being loyal to his character. ? These three suggestions are very suitable for the blind date process. External beauty cannot be ignored, and the first impression is very important. With a good first impression, you will have the opportunity to display your talents, let people see your true strength and understand your personality more comprehensively.
If the face value, talent and personality of the blind date are online, then it is not good to choose such a person as a boyfriend.
It is every girl's wish to have a favorite boyfriend, but here we should also advise those girls who don't have a boyfriend or are looking for a boyfriend: "Don't hold hands casually because of loneliness, and then rely on it. People are free, even if they drift, that kind of experience is better than prison life. " So, please listen to your inner voice, don't find a boyfriend just to find a boyfriend, the most important thing is that you should be happy.