Some people say, "A person's blessings are made, not earned."

A person's good fortune is a beautiful accomplishment gradually cultivated over time.

people who are truly blessed have these four characteristics.

1

Know how to be grateful.

To be a man, the kindness of dripping water should be reciprocated, and the kindness of paying for one meter is the proper character of a person. It is the duty of being a man to be grateful to one person and remember it for a lifetime. Grateful for the assistance in difficulties, grateful for the nobles who helped us.

remember when someone helps you once; When someone gives you a hand, you should respond sincerely.

As the old saying goes, a tree never forgets its roots, and if it is brilliant, it will never forget its gratitude!

no matter how rich a person is, don't be ungrateful.

someone is willing to help you out of love, not obligation.

people who can help you when you are in trouble are even more rare.

such kindness should be borne in mind.

gratitude is the most important quality of a person.

In The Book of Songs, it is said: Give me a peach, and return it to Qiong Yao.

if others help you, even if you can't repay it in time, you should be grateful and remember.

in this life, the most unforgettable thing is the kindness of others.

a meal is a gift; The grace of dripping water should be rewarded by the spring.

Only when you know how to be grateful can you get more help.

to be a man, you must repay kindness with kindness.

in our life, moving is temporary, and gratitude is lifelong.

it should be unforgettable to be indebted to others.

The ancients said, "Those who love will return, and those who are blessed will return." If you are grateful and give love to others, love and blessings will return.

always be grateful, and everything in the world will always be with you.

Be grateful. Everyone who appears in your life, no matter who you meet, is the one who should appear in your life. He will certainly teach you something. It is their giving that makes our life full of accidents and surprises.

Ma Yun once said: "The so-called faith means gratitude and admiration means awe." Know how to be grateful, and your life will be wider and wider, and you will go further and further.

people who know how to be grateful will keep in mind those who helped themselves.

people who are grateful want to repay each other.

such people are affectionate and righteous, and God can know them, and they will not be mistreated.

if you return a peach to a plum, you will be rewarded.

What you seem to give up in return for others is actually paving the way for yourself.

If you always have a grateful heart, the world will naturally be gentle, and the road of life will not be too bumpy and difficult. In this way, the road will naturally get wider and wider.

British Prime Minister Winston Churchill accidentally fell into the water when he was a child.

Hearing the cry for help, the farmer in the distance jumped into the river and saved him.

In order to thank the farmers for saving their lives, Churchill's father came to visit with a generous gift and promised to fund the farmers' sons to receive higher education.

The farmer's son is Alexander Fleming.

Later, penicillin was successfully invented and used to save Churchill from lung disease during World War II.

The world is like an interacting magnetic field. Because you know how to be grateful, others will be more willing to help you, and you will have more opportunities.

people who are always grateful have love in their hearts and light in their eyes, and luck will naturally take care of them often.

Everyone in this world depends on character, and every luck given by fate is accumulated by your good character without exception.

if you know how to be grateful, God will take care of you and good luck will come.

2

Be kind.

Tao Te Ching: "A gentleman is thick, but not thin; In fact, it is not in China. "

it means: an upright gentleman sticks to the simple and mellow way and never does anything vain.

a kind-hearted person is born with three points of blessing, and there will be rich blessings.

a kind person brings his own kindness and noble spirit.

Throughout the ages, people who are kind are often blessed.

if a person can be kind to others and do things in a kind way, he will surely be rewarded in the future.

kindness seems to be a concession at a loss, but it is actually a disguise to add luster to yourself.

During the Spring and Autumn Period, young Bao Shuya and Guan Zhong were doing business together in the downtown area. Every time they shared profits, Guan Zhong would take more.

Others were very angry when they saw this and reminded Bao Shuya to pay attention. He just smiled and said, "It's all right, you don't know. His family is not good. I have an old mother to serve, and I am fairly rich at hand. He should take more."

Bao Shuya's kindness is admirable, and Guan Zhong didn't live up to his help and regarded it as a friend of life and death.

Later, with the assistance of Guan Zhong and Bao Shuya, Qi Huangong became the first undisputed overlord in the Spring and Autumn Period.

To be a man, you should not play the abacus too loudly. It seems that you have taken advantage of small things, but you have lost the big picture.

and kind people seem to have suffered, but in fact they have gained people's hearts.

Hu Shi's kindness is well-known in the Republic of China. He knows how to be grateful and people trust him. Be considerate of others and get along comfortably; Being generous to others, people feel relaxed in front of him.

In Beijing at that time, his home was always weddings every weekend, and he welcomed people from all walks of life, even vendors.

His friends are everywhere in Beijing, so that at that time, people often said "my friend Hu Shizhi". Such good popularity is inseparable from his kindness.

how you deal with people is your fortune; Your words and deeds are your blessings.

a kind person is comfortable to get along with.

even when he is helping others, he sticks to his own boundaries, puts himself in others' shoes and never offends others.

it's a kindness not to embarrass others, but to keep others' dignity in what you can.

When others are in an awkward position, they just watch the fun or add fuel to the fire, and such people are much more unkind and mean.

those who love to go out love to go back, and those who are blessed will be blessed.

what you do will eventually win the hearts of the people for you; Everything you say and do will eventually win you good luck.

If you are kind, you will be rewarded, and your life will be broad and smooth.

kindness is a kind.

I can't bear to let others suffer, so I choose to bear the blame of others.

put yourself in others' shoes, and never give others the pain you don't want to suffer.

Hugh, an actor, was once involved in a car accident. His right eye was badly damaged and he was almost blind, and his right face was almost disfigured. The accident investigation after the accident was caused by assistant Xiao Kai's fatigue driving.

It is puzzling that the driver of the accident at that time is still the driver of Hugh, and Hugh did not fire him after his recovery.

Hugh said afterwards, "No one wants such a thing. If I don't choose to forgive him, he won't forgive himself, and no one else will forgive him."

It is also because of kindness that Hugh has gained more and more partners, and the road of life has become wider and wider.

people who are kind, kind and kind will receive the gift of fate sooner or later.

being kind, doing the right thing, sitting upright, not being ashamed of the sky, and not bowing down to the ground.

Good fortune is not accumulated by wealth and status, but attracted by one's own virtue.

A person's happiness is not predestined, but is cultivated by himself bit by bit.

good people will be rewarded.

people who are kind will be blessed.

3

Good mentality.

There is a famous saying that the world is like a mirror: frown at it and it will frown at you; Smile at it, and it smiles at you.

with a good mind, you can't be bad luck.

A person's attitude towards life determines his happiness.

the same thing happens to different people and will have different results. Sometimes, happiness and pessimism are only in one thought.

Japanese writer Fan Fanzi said something about luck:

The method of luck is actually very simple: when the fortune is bad or unsatisfactory, it is actually arranged for you to learn from it. As long as you understand this truth, you will be grateful for what you have experienced. When you know that something tailored for yourself is waiting to happen every day, you will be full of enthusiasm and expectation for every day.

The world is always what we see, depending on where we look.

It's like putting half a glass of water on the table. When we see the empty cup in the upper part, we will feel "lost". When you see the water in the lower part, you will feel that you still have it.

how we look at the world, the world takes on a different look because of our views.

Su Shi's career path is extremely bumpy. During his 42-year official career, one-third of his time was spent in "decentralization".

At the age of 42, he was slandered by a villain for the Wutai Poetry Case and was banished to Huangzhou by Song Shenzong.

However, he didn't feel depressed and idle because of this. Instead, he did everything for the benefit of the people.

He keeps full of interest in life, enjoys climbing mountains, writes poems in the forest, and strives to find happiness in life.

This positive and optimistic attitude towards life has promoted his poetry and articles and even the realm of being a man.

Later generations found that many poems that remain immortal were created by him in a difficult situation.

if you have a good attitude when things go wrong, your life will be brighter.

Roosevelt was robbed before he became president, and his money was badly lost. Facing the comfort of his friends, he wrote back and said, "Dear friend, thank you for coming to comfort me. I am safe now, thanks for life. Because: first, the thief stole my things without hurting my life; Second, the thief only stole some of my things, not all of them; Third, the most fortunate thing is that he is the thief, not me. "

people with a good attitude don't bother to entangle small things. Their energy is spent on meaningful things. How can people who work harder than others be unlucky?

people with a good attitude will never waste their lives complaining. Their time is reserved for the most important people in life. How can people who know what they want be unlucky?

People with a good attitude can look at their lives with a more peaceful attitude, and even in the gutter, they have the courage to look up at the stars. How can people who always see opportunities in their worries be unlucky?

Our greatest luck in life is just ourselves.

4

Kindness.

The opening of San Zi Jing is six words: "beginning of life is good in nature."

Mark Twain also said: "Kindness is a universal language, which can make the blind feel and the deaf smell."

We can grow very ordinary, but we must have a kind soul. Kindness is the noblest quality of a person and the wealth and beauty of your life.

Even though the world is full of ulterior motives, we should still insist on choosing kindness.

because, we insist on the meaning of kindness, and we don't hope that kindness can bring much return.

But when everyone passes this little bit of kindness to others, the society will be a little bit better, and the world will become better because of everyone's little bit.

the so-called kindness is not to do earth-shattering things. But in subtlety, sympathize with other people's difficulties and resolve embarrassment. It is also a manifestation of kindness to leave others with proper dignity, to make themselves comfortable and to make others comfortable.

the smallest good deed is better than the greatest good thought.

There is a very warm and healing commercial in Thailand.

The little boy's mother was ill and had no money to buy painkillers, so he went to the drugstore to steal them.

unexpectedly, it was discovered by the drugstore owner. The little boy stood there and let the drugstore owner scold him, full of disappointment.

At this moment, the owner who opened a restaurant nearby took the initiative to go over, paid the little boy in advance and made a vegetable soup for him to take away.

The owner of the restaurant is a kind-hearted man. He helps the little boy not out of sympathy, because he also gives food to beggars who come to beg.

thirty years later, the owner of the restaurant suddenly fell to the ground and was taken to the hospital, and her daughter received a medical bill as high as 8,.

This family can't afford it. My daughter put up an advertisement for the sale of the house and cried in front of her father's hospital bed all night.

When my daughter woke up the next morning, she received another medical list, and the amount shown on it became .

There is a small print below: "Your medical expenses were paid off 3 years ago."

The attending doctor is the little boy who was helped by his boss. In order to repay this kindness, he paid the medical expenses in advance and tried his best to treat his former benefactor.

Kindness and kindness have knocked on the door of luck for him and lit up his way forward.

Although this is only an advertisement, it gives us an insight into the goodness of human nature.

In this story, we also see another meaning. Helping others means helping yourself.

lift a finger, so why be stingy.

Many unexpected things will happen in people's life. Maybe a small act of kindness we do unconsciously can change the fate of others, and at the same time, our own life will change.

So when we see someone in need and you are able to help him, please hold out your hand firmly.

after giving kindness, it may not be rewarded immediately, but it will be made up at a certain node.

Shakespeare said: A kind heart is gold. Therefore, kind people are precious and lovely.

always holding a kind heart is the greatest blessing in life.

in life, the simplest kindness is to help others. When we lend a helping hand, we plant good causes, and one day, we will reap good results.

"As you sow, you reap." Treat others with kindness, and others will reciprocate with courtesy.

If you want to be loved, you must give love first; If you expect others' help, you should help others first; If you want others to be kind to you, show them your kindness first.

as the saying goes, "love"