Male friends often ask me how to get out of singles and whether there is any good way, but they ignore that the most important thing about getting out of singles is to make more friends of the opposite sex, so that you can have more opportunities. So in life, a man who is good at sociability will always expand his social circle, so a man with many friends will almost never be short of female companions. So how can introverted men who are not good at proactive communication expand their circle of friends?

The first thing is to cultivate your own interests and hobbies. Having a wide range of interests will help you make all kinds of friends. For example, if a person can play ball, swim, or dance, then there will be more opportunities to get together with others. Even if you don't take the initiative, others will take the initiative to approach you and pull you in. Enter their circle. In addition, when someone talks about a certain aspect that you are good at, even if you don't understand it very well, you should pretend to be interested. If you affirm his specialty, you can trigger a buzz between you.

The second is to socialize as much as possible. Although we often tell everyone to refuse invalid social interactions, there is a prerequisite for that, that is, you lack nothing. If you lack a girlfriend, you must attend more parties. In fact, everyone has been confusing a concept. It is easy to equate socializing with choosing friends. The two are different. Socializing is mostly just ordinary friends or just acquaintances. In the process of socializing, you cannot use the standards of true friends. On balance, I feel that I don't want to talk to them more than a few words, and I don't want to have too much contact with them. This is probably an escape mentality. Strictly speaking, the new friends we meet should have different personalities from our own. The differences in social experience, knowledge structure, and personality hobbies are conducive to mutual understanding of the multi-faceted nature of society and enriching our own thoughts. Furthermore, you don’t know whether you are compatible with some people until you get to know them, so be sure to give both parties a chance to get to know each other.

Then there is also the matter of remembering the other person’s name. The first step to meet the opposite sex and establish a relationship is to exchange names. Names are the most sincere and beautiful sounds for each of us. If you can quickly remember a person's name and call it out, you are actually giving her the greatest love. The respect made her feel valued, and subsequent contact would naturally be much easier.

In general, it still takes some effort to get out of singles, but we will teach you the methods in the column, and you need to rely on your own actual actions.