The so-called doting is the abnormal relationship between caregivers and children. Because they love their children too much, they will give unprincipled satisfaction to some excessive or even unreasonable material or emotional demands of their children, protect their own shortcomings and shelter their children indefinitely. This is a kind of love in the eyes of caregivers, but in fact, these are all seriously hurting their children, and it is irreversible to hurt children for life. There are many kinds of doting, mainly in the following aspects:
1. Overindulgence deprives children of the opportunity to receive normal training and exercise independently, and becomes a flower in the greenhouse, spoiled and arrogant. After entering the society, you will definitely hit a wall everywhere and cannot stand on your feet.
Second, excessive concern makes them accustomed to being self-centered, while arrogance, extreme selfishness, ingratitude and ruthlessness are bound to be incompatible with the public.
Third, excessive love deprives them of the concept of understanding social rules and obeying national laws, which makes them ignore the law, become arrogant and finally walk into a dead end.
Fourth, doting also deprives children of their autonomy to do things independently, making them lose the opportunity to do things independently, and the joy of success passes them by.
Loving children is also a science. For the sake of children, study more and don't fall into the the trap of love and drown.