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Life is long and there will always be people leaving.

In the blink of an eye, I am already 27 years old. I am only 28 years old. In the eyes of my family, I am a person who is thirty years younger. People often say that you stand up at thirty. If you think about it carefully after so many years, there seem to be few things that you can do. of. I just want to share some thoughts. I haven’t been too close to people since I was a child, and I don’t know how to talk when I get along with them. Or I always feel confused and embarrassed when I talk. Later I found out that this is a symptom, and its name is social interaction. Phobia. When I was young, I envied those who could make friends at school and have a large group of friends wherever they went. Although such people said that these friends were fair-weather friends, it was better than no friends at all, right? It’s hard to live outside if you don’t know how to make friends, because your only one or two friends are still in your hometown. Every time you look for them, they are either flirting with your sister-in-law or on the way to flirt with her, so that every time He didn't dare to call his girlfriend the first time they met, for fear of calling her by the wrong name. It was really difficult during that time, so much so that later on I was afraid of being alone, which would even cause the bad environment around me to change, or the people I knew well to leave my job, or I was suddenly fired. I think all this should be attributed to me being a very sensitive person. Pedestrians on the road rolled their eyes at me, or I accidentally bumped into someone else on my seat, or someone patted me impatiently, which would make me feel very uncomfortable, at least uncomfortable. few minutes. My sensitive personality allows me to quickly catch the subtle changes in everyone's expressions, and know who is unhappy today? Because I am very afraid, I dare not speak in situations with more than two people over time, and even when I speak, I will stutter. When you were in the city of Wuxi, you basically became a mute. You just graduated and didn’t understand anything. No one would tell you what to do when you went to work? People assume that you know how to do it? When you hand in a task, you will often be at a loss. Later, I thought about it, and there is no need for people to teach you. They are not your relatives or friends, and you can only rely on your own work ability. Sometimes she will stand silently behind you and sneer. Whenever this happens, I feel that Einstein is right, this time passes too slowly. At that time, my boss often talked to me, but I was so nervous that I couldn’t remember what he said? The saliva hit my face several times, and I was too embarrassed to wipe it away. The last conversation we had was almost a year after joining the company. I just remember the last sentence was that if you don’t talk anymore, you should resign! I nodded. Later, when I came to Nanjing, I had familiar friends in the company. After having familiar friends, I slowly learned how to speak, but I still didn’t know how to communicate with others. Later, books said things were simple, and people It is complex. A complex person doing a simple thing can be very simple or very complex. In my first company in Nanjing, there was a person who had a great influence on me. At least I thought he was very talkative, gentle and active. He became my idol for a time. Later, when I resigned, he encouraged me. Whether sincerely or politely, I am grateful to him, he is a good man.

It’s hard to be worldly. If you don’t learn, it’s hard to move forward. If you learn, you don’t know how to learn? Who can you learn from? It is said in "The Swordsman" that wherever there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and people are the rivers and lakes, and there is no way to escape. In "Young Marshal", it is said that the arena is not about fighting and killing, it is about human relationships. But the school teachers have never taught us this, so many times we can only be dumb. Even if we speak, no one will listen. There is a saying that everything a successful person says is right. Yes, who will listen if you fail? Everyone’s understanding will be different. I will only talk about my own understanding below. I have a deep obsession with this thing. The obsession is not greed or belief. For this reason, I also recognized my master. This person who was both a teacher and a friend was the person who had the greatest influence on me besides my cousin. In the past, you had to force yourself to do anything. Now the Buddhist term is that you have no worries about your own nature and follow your original heart. The book says that Buddhism teaches people how to get along with themselves. In the long life, there will always be separation. In the long life, there will always be separation from people. Now I just hope that the people around me are healthy, happy and safe.