I was once decadent because I was lovelorn for a long time.
But now I'm finally out of the shadows.
I will say a little with my own feelings, hoping it will be good for you!
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Live every day to the fullest, and watch every day happily.
I hope everyone can let go of the past.
I loved, hated, cried and gave up!
But I know
Life is for yourself.
The mood is your own.
I won't and can't give up because of repeated failures.
Because I'm responsible for myself.
I look forward to a better future.
Let bygones be bygones (it will become my beautiful memory one day).
I can't be sorry for myself.
I believe: as long as you work hard, everything will get better and better!
Fate is predestined, and one day I will meet the right person at some time. ...
What's the big deal with a smile?
Regain the romance in the depths of memory alone. Although there is no result in reality, it is a flower that never fades in memory. I finally understand that tears exist to prove that sadness is not an illusion.
Some people say. When you are young, if you love someone, please, please be gentle with her. No matter how long or short you have been in love, if you can always be gentle with each other, then all the moments will be flawless and beautiful. If we have to part, we should say goodbye and be grateful for giving you a memory. When you grow up, you will know that when you look back, there will be no regrets in youth without resentment.
Love is like sand in your hand. You tried to hold on to it, but you lost it.
A person is used to everything that a person can get used to, and a person is used to life!
Accustomed to being alone,
When you fall and get up again and again.
Smile and nervous pain have been smoked in the corners of your mouth until your face completely loses its edges and corners!
Accustomed to a person's bedroom,
A bunch of simple perfume lilies,
Light color, light color beauty,
Faint into my eyes, slowly wither!
Accustomed to the smell of people,
Infiltrate the air, dye into the sunset glow,
It emanates from your body and is inhaled into your lungs.
No surprises, no decadence!
Accustomed to a person's "study" of history and history,
The rise and fall of kings, the joys and sorrows of princesses.
Wow!
In real life, who is whose promise? Who is whose future?
Who is who is eternal. ......
Accustomed to listening to music alone,
Habit melody, habit voice, habit humming,
Habits roll up helplessly,
Accustomed to watching the flowing water in the pool,
Tears!
Let yourself get used to everything that a person can get used to, the life that a person is used to!
What should come will come, and what should go can't stay!
Just get used to it,
Watching a person's day,
Sing a person's song,
Go your own way,
Always be yourself!
No cheating, no lies ......
I met you by chance.
I thought I would be happy forever.
However,,,,,,
A few days ago.
It's faded
But my heart is so bitter
Pain or hardship cannot be expressed in words.
Tears blurred my eyes.
My heart still hurts.
Think of the past time
Tears have slipped away.
Why is the most urgent time to go the most beautiful time,,,,,
Tell who the inner pain is?
But I can only write sad words
But only on paper.
Ridiculous,,,,,
But it's really helpless
Then let the past be the past.
Learn to be strong
You can control your love, but you can't control the love of others! True feelings may not be exchanged for love, maybe cheating, maybe trouble! As the saying goes, love is deep and hate is deep! Why hate it? Did she cheat you? Don't! Did she do something wrong? Not really! You are wrong to look at a person from the wrong angle. In the eyes of your lover, this person will always be perfect. You can tolerate all her shortcomings. You are wrong to believe that you can bring her happiness and happiness! Everyone is the same and has their own advantages and disadvantages, but now you have expanded her advantages and narrowed her disadvantages. What you see is not the real her! What is the purpose of love? Is the family, can you firmly believe that the plain life can't affect the love between you? Can't do it! From another angle, you can always master yourself, not others!
Some things, some people, if they deliberately choose to forget, that means you don't want to forget at all. In the final analysis, feelings are really your own business.
There are too many touching love stories in the world. Maybe you are experiencing an enviable love now, but you should also learn to cherish it. The greatest happiness in life is to get a heart that loves you and cares about you all the time. Never forget that love is like sand in your hand. The tighter you hold on, the more you lose. ...............
A person's life is very short, no matter what he meets, it is worth remembering, whether it is sadness or pain, it is written on the road of our growth.
It only takes ten minutes to fall in love with him, but it takes a lifetime to forget him, and the result is unforgettable.
Some people say that a man's heart follows his feet, and wherever his feet go, his heart follows, and a woman's feet follow her heart. This sentence is very reasonable.
How long does it take to forget the person you love? Many people say that time will dilute everything, but this sentence is actually wrong. To forget someone, the premise is that you really want to forget. It is not difficult to forget, but it is difficult to make up your mind.
Some people will be engraved in their memories forever, even if they forget his voice, his smile and his face, but the feeling when they think of him will never change.
The more you want to forget someone, the clearer you remember. It is easy to know someone, but it may take a lifetime to forget someone! Since you can't forget it, don't forget why you have to force yourself. You don't have to have someone to love. Put her in the warmest corner of your heart. If you miss her, you will open your heart ... sometimes missing someone is also a kind of happiness!
Forget ... the heartbreaking problem ......
It is self-deception to say that you have completely forgotten the past. As long as there is a little thing that can be linked to the past, you can't forget the past. Don't run away, regret is useless ... don't you think so?
Isn't there a saying? You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in 1 day, but forget someone in your life ... this is love!
Oh, forgot? That's impossible and unrealistic. Instead of trying to forget, let yourself be busy, enrich your life, and let yourself be too busy to miss. Don't forget it deliberately. If you do, you will only remember it better. Try to expand your circle of friends and meet as many people as possible. Maybe there's the only thrill in it. When you have to contact him, try to treat him as an ordinary friend with a normal heart.
Try to find your hobbies, do something you like, and play an empathetic role.
Give yourself a big smile every day and tell yourself, "Tomorrow is another day."
I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of him again, your heart will no longer hurt. Unconsciously, he has become "the man". Put aside all selfish thoughts. Cherish what you have now
A man in bad karma found a monk to speak his mind.
He said, "There are some things that I can't let go of."
The monk said, "There is nothing you can't let go."
He said, "I just can't let go of these things and people."
The monk asked him to hold the teacup, and then poured hot water into it until it overflowed.
The bitter man is scalded, let go of his hand at once.
The monk said, "There is nothing in this world that can't be put down. If it hurts, it will naturally be put down. "
You may feel sad.
Because no matter how good you are, he/she is ungrateful.
No, he/she can't see him/her. He/she just pretended not to see it.
Or he/she doesn't want to see it at all.
You think you like him/her very much.
I even think that no one can like him/her like you.
You try your best to be nice to him/her.
Take him/her more important than yourself.
Think of him/her first.
When you can't reach him/her, you are worried about him/her.
But have you ever thought about it?
This is not your responsibility.
He's probably avoiding you.
He/she can't stand you being so kind to him/her.
Don't keep texting him/her.
Don't keep looking for him/her.
You may just want to talk to him/her.
You think that's normal, don't force it.
But maybe he/she doesn't think so.
Remember that your thoughts do not represent his/her thoughts.
Do you really like him/her for nothing?
Ask yourself.
Are you sure you don't want him/her to return things?
Then why are you sad?
If you really want nothing.
How can you be sad?
So don't think it's great that you love him/her so much.
Maybe/he/she doesn't care how you pay for him at all.
Sometimes your love for him/her may be a burden.
This burden will only make him/her want to stay away from you more.
Because he/she doesn't want to owe you.
Don't worry about him/her everything.
Do you think he/she can't live without you?
You don't think others can be as perfect as you.
But you have to understand
You are not the person he/she wants.
No matter how perfect you are, you can't compete with those who don't do it.
That position was never yours.
Why do you have to squeeze in?
You know everything, but you can't do it well.
It's not your fault to like him/her.
It's not your fault to care about him/her.
It's not your fault that you can't control yourself.
But that's your way.
People may not accept your so-called selfless love.
So if you like him/her, he/she doesn't like you.
Then please be silent.
Don't try to let him/her know.
Even if you are sad or even sad enough to cry.
Please keep quiet.
Even if you force yourself.
Be sure to endure.
Silly boy.
Forget it. Everything you missed. You remember. What you have.
Those are memories.
Lack is not terrible.
It sucks. Can't face it.
Silly boy.
You can't forget to give up easily. Because you gave.
Pay. He or she will be rooted in the heart like a pillar.
Don't try to escape. Try to forget. It will only make you more miserable.
Bypass this post. Find a happy life in the future.
There. Have your ideal.
Silly boy.
Start a new habit.
habit Live alone every day.
habit Spend your birthday alone. Walk alone.
habit Take a familiar road. Facing the familiar scenery.
You can't escape. You can't escape.
Then. Face the reality bravely.
The reality is that everything has come to an end.
Silly boy.
Look at yourself bravely in the mirror.
This sad, weak and haggard self.
This is you too. You're growing.
This is you. You're dying.
The new you will be reborn soon.
Find your way. Your future.
You know that. All disasters are a commemoration of growth.
Do your best. Even if you are alone.
Silly boy.
It's good. It's good. Let it out.
Open your heart. Words. Use sound. Use all the ways you can vent.
It's over. Cheer up.
Look at that. You've lost nothing.
There are so many people who care about you. In different ways.
So ... You are not alone.
It is this loss that makes you see the happiness you have now.
Silly boy.
Don't cry. Don't cry.
Not worth it. Really. Not worth it.
Dust off the past. Don't be wronged. Don't be unwilling. Don't refuse to accept.
Start a new journey. Welcome new scenery and new opportunities.
Do what you have to do. There are still many things waiting for you to finish.
Silly boy.
Life has faded its original color. It was quiet for a while.
Don't indulge in this peace. It will destroy you.
You have to understand. Although cruel, this decision is correct enough.
Life now. Not what you want.
For your ideal. You must learn to give up at the right time.
Give each other the best care. That is to become better, stronger and happier.
Now I am good to you, good, good, you don't need it, you don't care, you don't care, you don't cherish it. . . .
When one day, you get hurt and think of me. At that time, I could never be as kind to you as I am now, regardless of anything. . .
Because at that time, I have lowered you. . . .
It turns out that lowering a person is finally forced out by the other party. . . .
Interviewee: wyz 745632 1- Level II 20 10-3-3 17:54.
Reporting lovelorn love is an incentive and the beginning of life, and you can't fall into a trough. It is equally enviable to stand up when you are lovelorn. Lovelorn is just that the other party doesn't want to be unhappy in the future, not hate you. He (she) just doesn't want to harm you for life. Perhaps, he (she) thinks from the bottom of his heart that he (she) is not worthy of you. When you fall down, stand up again. I know this process is very long. Just like winter, you can't escape the cover of ice and snow, and you can't escape the cover of sadness. Your heart is very low, and there is a crystal of love inlaid with a flawless jade. They let you stand up from depravity, wash your mind, keep a balanced mind, and don't let the fragments of your mind stab you. Perhaps, you love each other deeply, but your disharmony is only appearance. Not that you will fall, but that you will stand up from the bottom, look at the sea, look at the sky and think about the future.
Lovelorn is just the beginning, and often lovelorn is just the first step in life. You are still young, and you have a long way to go. "Don't worry about the world without a confidant." Therefore, we should stand up and look to the future. I hope you can get good love, I hope you are happy, and let confidence and comfort accompany you forever!