? As the saying goes: "Parents should be filial, and friends should be made with sincerity. Friendship lies in the essence, not in the abundance." I think it is very reasonable. When it comes to making friends, you must be sincere. Only in this way can you make friends. To be a true close friend, you don’t need to have too many friends. As long as you are in trouble, they will go through fire and water without hesitation. As long as they can lend a helping hand to you without hesitation, there are three or two such friends. That's enough.

You must master the skills and propriety in making friends in order to make good friends who are worthy of your trust throughout your life. Based on my experience in making friends, I have summarized the following aspects on how to make friends, for your reference only.

?When making friends, you must first look at your character. If you have a friend with good character, he can help you when you are in trouble. If you have a friend with bad character, he can stand by and watch when you are down. What I mean by character is whether a person is trustworthy, honest and honest. For example, if a person with bad moral character wants to make friends with you, he may gain your trust through his sweet words and false honesty during the first or second time you meet him. Be a good friend and trust him with confidence. But as time goes by, you gradually find that this so-called friend of yours always promises things that he always promises, and never fulfills them on time or blindly delays them. You know his strength. When you need his help with something, he always does it perfunctory. Things never help you. At this time, you should pay attention. There is something wrong with this individual's character. He is not only trustworthy, but also too selfish. You cannot continue to be a partner with him, let alone continue to be friends. When you meet someone who wants to be friends with you in the future, you must first look at his character, otherwise you will be in trouble if you make a bad friend.

Second, "The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water." To make friends, you must make friends with people who are loyal and affectionate. What is loyalty? That is, when you encounter difficulties and need help, he will do whatever it takes to resolve the crisis for you and save you from dire straits. Emphasis on feelings means that a person is relatively indifferent to vanity things such as money and fame, but pays special attention to the friendship established with friends. People often say, "A friend in need is a friend indeed." If you want to know whether a friend is loyal to you and whether he values ??your friendship, the easiest way is to ask him to borrow an amount that is not very small but within his affordability. money within. If you open your mouth and he says that you can borrow it without saying a word, just take it and use it first. If there is not enough, he can raise it and ask you if you need his help. This kind of good brother and good friend is definitely worth making for life. . But if you know that he has money, but he uses the excuse that he just lent money to others or just invested in a project, then you should think carefully about whether this friend of yours is a true friend. If you are loyal friends, make them with all your heart, but if you are false friends, cut off contact as soon as possible.

Third, make close friends, not bad friends. You may have a bold personality and want to make friends when you see someone with a personality similar to yours. But making friends requires different people. If this friend asked you to go out to play every day when you were in your glory days, and went out to eat and drink, it was your treat. But when you really encountered difficulties and needed help from your friends, he didn't even show up. If you don't see it, this kind of friend is the so-called dog meat friend, who can only share joys and sorrows. A close friend will not only care about you no matter what happens, but also send you sincere blessings when you succeed and be proud of you; when you are down and need help, they will come to you without saying a word and solve your difficulties without even a word. Thank you man. When we meet close friends, we must treat them well. When we meet fair-weather friends, we must not have close friendships, otherwise it will be harmful but not beneficial. ?

Most people in society understand, "Rely on your parents at home and rely on your friends when you go out!" But what I want to say is that the more friends the better, the more friends you have, the more things you need to do, and you need to spend more time. Focus more on dealing with friendships. If two of your friends have conflicts, you have to deal with them. But in the end, it is often a thankless effort that only offends others.

But having fewer friends is different. You can have a lot of energy to do more things you want to do, and have more time to spend with your family. Therefore, you don’t need to have too many friends. In life, it is enough to have three or two close friends.