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1. Don’t make any decisions while crying. The less you say when you are emotionally negative, the better.

2. Don’t think about the same problem over and over again, and don’t put all your feelings on one person. You still have your parents and other friends.

3. Don’t be afraid of doing something wrong. Even if you make a mistake, don’t be upset. Life is all about right and wrong. What’s more, there are many things that, looking back, right or wrong no longer matter.

4. It is normal to have negative emotions, but you must know that this is only a small part of life. During the rest of the time, try to keep your emotions as stable as possible.

5. It’s normal for that person to suddenly stop contacting you; it’s also normal for that person to suddenly contact you again, and it doesn’t mean anything.

6. If you don’t understand, just say it. If you understand, don’t say it, just smile.

7. All troubles are self-inflicted, so you can only solve them yourself. Don't cry to your friends, go play ball with them.

8. You must do what you say, even if it is stupid, no matter how stupid it is, it is better than breaking the promise.

9. No matter what changes occur, do not break the original rules of life, eat on time and sleep on time.

10. Don’t be afraid of doing something, don’t be afraid of getting hurt, don’t be afraid of saying the wrong thing, don’t be afraid of thinking about the past, don’t be afraid of facing the future.

11. Whether it is right or wrong, you need a criterion. Your behavior should follow this criterion and be constantly modified according to real life. It is impossible to like people who are repeatedly indecisive. People who wander between right and wrong have a less positive image than those who go from wrong to right.

12. When he says "Let's calm down for a while?", say yes calmly and then hang up the phone. Don't beg, he's not here to ask for your opinion.

13. Don’t take out all the words in your heart, these are the wealth that only belongs to you.

14. Don’t talk to someone who is in the same circle as him, no matter how reliable you think he is.

15. When you don’t know what to say to him, don’t say anything. Silence has infinite meanings.

16. Don’t pursue any result. The result is the same for everyone, which is death.

17. Don’t regret, no matter what, the emotion of regret is more terrifying than the wrong thing you have done, because it will destroy your self-confidence, self-esteem and very likely make you do something Something even more wrong.

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1. Don’t underestimate anyone.

2. You don’t have that many viewers, so don’t be so tired.

3. Be gentle with people and things. Don't lose your temper randomly, no one owes you anything.

4. It’s very painful now, but when you look back after a while, you will find that it was actually nothing.

5. Cut off friendships with people who are malicious to you. Only when people break up with each other can they have close friends.

6. Learn to tolerate people who hurt you, because they are very pitiful, everyone has their own difficulties, and it is not easy for everyone.

7. Learn to give up. The tighter you pull, the more painful you will be.

8. Keep a low profile, and there must be gains and losses when making trade-offs.

9. Don’t try to make any excuses for yourself. No one likes to hear those excuses when faced with mistakes.

10. Be careful when speaking, be independent, and learn to compromise while also adhering to your most basic principles.

11. Effort does not necessarily lead to results. Persistence may lead to more losses.

12. You can not forget the past, but you must let it go.

13. Live easy and make the best plan and the worst plan for everything.

14. Be a simple person, down-to-earth and pragmatic. Don't indulge in fantasies. Don't bother yourself.

15. Don’t lie, because one day you will be exposed.

16. There may be too much unknown pain behind other people’s glory

17. Try to enrich yourself. Don't stop learning.

No matter what you learn, language, cooking, various skills.

18. Pay attention to your own cultivation. You are your child's first teacher.

19. Be filial to your parents. Not just words, but even a few more phone calls would be good.

20. Love your parents, because they gave you life, and they are also the most selfless people who love you.

21. Sometimes you have to be realistic and hypocritical, because if you don’t do that, it will be difficult to get along.

22. Control your temper, and occasionally be deliberately silent, because impulsiveness will make you do things that are irreversible.

23. No matter what you do, think about it.

24. Never give a friend who has betrayed you a chance to betray him a second time.

25. No matter who you are, you have your own limits. Especially trust.

26. Know how to listen to other people’s advice.

27. Keep what others say in your head, but keep what you say in your heart.

28. Try not to gossip about colleagues and friends.

29. Believe in Buddhism and cause and effect. In the face of real cause and effect, human power is insignificant.

30. Accept the gifts that life gives you calmly, whether they are good or bad.

31. To truly understand the meaning of impermanence, when you are in pain, you have to think that the pain is not eternal. When you are happy, you have to think that the happiness is not eternal.

32. Be happy, cheerful, tough, warm, and sincere to others.

33. Read when you are empty and bored, but you must have your own life goals and plans.

34. Have a clear understanding of the weaknesses of human nature, but you must believe in sincere love and always have a pure yearning for love.

35. Don’t rely too much on people other than yourself, because you are the only one who will not abandon yourself.

36. Always be full of hope in life, and face difficulties and tribulations with a smile.

37. Read more books and read good books.

38. Eat less and eat well.

39. Gu Long said that girls who love to laugh will not have bad luck.

40. Make more friends and make good friends. Women must have besties.

41. Please remember that the definition of a good friend is: if you do well, she is happy for you from the bottom of her heart; if you do not do well, she is sincerely anxious for you.

42. Have a dream, even if it is far away.

43. Try to love someone. If you pay, you may not get anything; if you don’t pay, you won’t get anything. Don’t expect miracles.

44. Promise is a beautiful thing, but beautiful things often do not become reality.

45. Everyone has their own distinct opinions and personalities. Don’t try to change others. Likewise, don’t be changed by others. If you change, you will no longer be yourself.

46. There is no perfect thing and no perfect person. The key is to know what you want. To get what you want, you will definitely lose another part. If you want everything, you will get nothing.

47. The most fragile thing in this world is life. Good health is very important.

48. God is fair to everyone.

49. Don’t try to control others, don’t ask others to understand you

50. Live in the present, don’t waste your present life by missing the past or looking forward to the future

51. Don’t forget your roots, at any time, for anything

52. Be sincere, be calm, be generous, be tolerant, and have a normal mind

53. Learn to forget, Forgetfulness is a good thing

54. Be optimistic, be positive, smile more, and look in the mirror more

55. Believe what he says, but don't take it seriously.

56. You have to be careful in everything.

57. Don’t be smart.

58. Make your own decisions. Then be prepared to face the consequences. Remind yourself from the beginning that there is no such thing as regret medicine.

59. If you don't like someone, you can respond with a silent smile; if you like someone, just do whatever you want, because your love will be revealed unstoppably.

60. Believe in karma! Believe in reincarnation!

61. Learn to be patient and persistent!

62 There is no true love in this world... time can dilute everything

63. Don’t be a hedgehog. If you can’t make enemies with others, you won’t make enemies with others. You won’t be with anyone for the rest of your life. , there are some things that you don’t need to keep in mind

64. Sometimes you have to learn to listen to the opinions of people around you, and more often this way you will not get hurt.

65. Only by forgetting the past can we have a new beginning.

66. The world is very unfair.

67. Don’t rely too much on your friends. Human nature basically has a bad side.

68. Love is beautiful, believe in love. If you don’t even believe in love, wouldn’t life be too miserable?

69. If you want to get one thing, you will definitely lose another thing.

70. Pain makes people grow. It is an opportunity and a challenge for you to make progress. Don't be afraid of painful things, it has a positive side.

71. People are lonely, and the only way to alleviate the pain it brings is to accept it calmly.

72. Those who have not experienced it will never understand these principles, but it is good to listen.

73. You don’t have to be beautiful, you don’t have to be cute, you don’t have to be gentle, but you have to be honest and kind.

74. Love all beautiful things, praise and enjoy the beauty they bring.

75. When difficulties come, face them with a smile and solve them with wisdom.

76. Be brave enough to admit your mistakes and bear the responsibilities they bring.

77. Love your family, friends, partner, and children, but you must truly live for yourself.

78. Never worry about what has happened and what has not happened. Worrying about a fait accompli that has already happened will not help. If something has not happened, you can only rely on subjective assumptions and cannot deduce the direction of things, which only adds to worries.

79. Don’t always tell others about your difficulties and expose your vulnerability.

80. Don’t think about relying on others, but have goals and pursuits. This has nothing to do with age.

81. Be a simple person, down-to-earth and pragmatic. Don't indulge in fantasies. Don't bother yourself.

82. Learn to think, have a clear mind, understand your own insignificance, and avoid being narcissistic. Don't force yourself to be the best in everything, because you are not as strong as you think!

83. Everyone is an independent individual. It is true that no one can live without the other!

84. Don’t overestimate your power in the group, because when you choose to leave, you will find that the sun still rises even without you!

85. Society is hierarchical, and many things are unfair. Don't complain because it's useless.

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01. If you make a mistake, you should admit it honestly—quibbling and blaming the blame will only hurt yourself.

02. Keep a distance between friends - this is the kind of friendship that lasts.

03. Money chases people, and people chase health—if you have good health, are you still worried about not being able to make money?

04． Don’t change careers easily – changing careers is very risky and it’s best not to do it lightly.

05. Moderately raise your net worth - In the job market, people are also a commodity.

06. Turn dedication into a habit—it’s for your own good in the long run.

07. Use the accumulation method to grow your assets - don't ask for speed, don't ask for more, and don't interrupt.

08. Be patient for a while and fight for the future. When the situation is stronger than others, you must be patient.

09. Rather than living to the death, it is better to live while you live - this is a win-win situation and a healthy competition.

10． Manage relationships with a "seeding" mentality - the earlier the seeds are sown, the more resilient they will be.

11. Don’t do things rashly—acting rashly will only harm yourself.

12． When you encounter a devilish supervisor - accepting his training can make your character more and more tough.

13. Don't argue with your supervisor in public - that will leave you with no choice but to leave.

14. Learn new things from people in different industries – remember, ask for advice.

15． All difficulties are good things - this is God training you in order to give you the heavy responsibility.

16． Live and do things with the mentality that taking advantage of someone is a disadvantage - that way you can grow up quickly.

17. Don't talk about your success in front of someone who's down - that can hurt your relationship.

18. Don’t underestimate the importance of keeping time—punctuality is a sign of respect for others.

19. Use time to see people - time is the master of testing.

20． Find out about people by asking around - by summarizing the information you get, you can get to know that person.

21. Create a friend profile - so you don't miss it when the time comes.

22． Expand your circle of friends – be proactive and don’t wait for others to come to you.

23. Be flexible in your friendships—enemies can become friends.

24. Make friends who like to "fix" you - these kind of friends are your life mentors.

25. There are many benefits to self-recommendation - letting others see you, know your existence, and know your abilities.

26. Be careful of a friendship that suddenly heats up - the correct attitude towards this kind of friendship is: don't push or welcome, and reciprocate politely.

27. Be the second child, not the boss - if the boss is not good enough, he will easily become the third or fourth child.

28. Be a decent person - the purpose is to win the respect and trust of others.

29. Exchange "material benefits" for "human benefits" - "material benefits" are temporary, while "human benefits" are long-term.

30. Don't think only about glory - if you enjoy the glory today, you may suffer the consequences tomorrow.

31． Find a "food and clothing parent" - that person can reduce your time of fumbling.

32. Find a rival to follow - keep up with him and eventually overtake him.

33. Use patience to warm up the cold bench - you have already sat on the cold bench, what is there to be afraid of?

34． Apply other people’s success models – Others’ success models can serve as a guide, giving you a direction to follow.

35. Secretly think of yourself as a boss or supervisor - Gradually develop your ability to be a boss or supervisor.

36． Don’t be satisfied with the small achievements in front of you – ask yourself: Is this the rest of my life?

37. Let yourself become an expert in your field as soon as possible - as long as you work hard, an iron pestle can be ground into a needle.

38. Don't think that your talents are not being appreciated - most of them are your own fault.

39． When you fall, you must get up - if you don't get up, others will look down on you, and you will also lose opportunities.

40． Don’t make excuses for failure—face it head on and quickly identify the reasons for it.

41. Change circumstances or change yourself – Instead of changing circumstances, change yourself.

42． Don't fight uncertain battles - life cannot afford to be wasted again and again.

43. Make it a daily task to reflect on yourself - because you are not perfect, you will say the wrong things and do the wrong things. 44． When you encounter a low-key situation, encourage yourself - never be an earthworm

45. Relying on other people's intelligence to do things - one person's ability is limited.

46. Always be aware of the danger - don't think that your fate is good or you are lucky.

47. She can play both the leading and supporting roles, and is comfortable on and off the stage - facing life, you need to develop a personality that can bend and stretch.

48. Learn to control your emotions - this is one of the most important signs of maturity.

49． Be a tortoise, not a hare - people with rabbit qualifications are prone to pride, and pride will become a stumbling block on the road to success.

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50. Do small things first and make small money first - accumulate experience for doing big things and making big money.

51. Don't let past failures tie you down, otherwise you will never achieve great things.

52. Live like a cockroach - if a person has the resilience of a cockroach, what kind of life can't he live?

53. Rely on strength, not faction - factions are not forever, strength is what you can rely on for life.

54. Shine your own light, don’t wait for others to polish you – who has the time and mood to seriously polish you? ?

55． Make roads in the mountains and build bridges in the water - you must learn to adapt to your needs.

56. Always run ahead of your subordinates - leadership by power and leadership by affection are not as good as leadership by talent.

57. "Three things to do when a new official takes office" is necessary - to tell others loudly: I am here.

58． Only 50 cents, not 1 yuan - you only have one chance to get a dollar.

59． Put down the shelf, and the road will become wider and wider - the shelf will only tie up your hands and feet.

60. Don't speak too absolutely - the purpose is to leave room for surprises so as not to be unable to get off the stage.

61. Become an expert in your field as quickly as possible—if you work hard, you will succeed.

62. Praise others more - you can make people happy without spending any money, so why not?

63. Respect other people's territory - don't cause unnecessary trouble through negligence.

64. Don't reveal your frustrations easily - lest others think you are weak or incompetent.

65. The principle of interpersonal relationships is: only when you give up can you get something - only when you satisfy the other party will the other party satisfy you. ?

66． Don't ignore the issue of face - the behavior of not giving face is the most likely to cause disputes.

67. Properly handle the relationship with the villain - don't rely on him, and don't offend him.

68. It's better not to block other people's money paths - rather than blocking other people's money paths, it's better to create your own.

69． Use a low profile to resolve other people's jealousy - jealousy is a raging fire that will burn a person.

70. You don’t have to do everything in your life – there will always be people who are dissatisfied with you.

71． Recognize and use the selfishness in human nature - find ways to use the selfishness of others to benefit yourself.

72. Just touch it along with the hair and he will listen to you - no matter how big your temper, no matter how deep your city is, no matter how strong your personality is, you won't be able to withstand this trick. 73. Use positive actions to promote success - persevere, work hard, and accumulate capabilities.

74. Delay the period of prosperity and decline with a cautious attitude - many failures are the foreshadowing of prosperity.

75． If everything is ready, the flowers will bloom naturally - just work hard, God will decide when the flowers will bloom.

1. The essence of patience is that if you want to make a profit, you can make it, if you want to be shameless, then you can be shameless, whatever. Whatever I can give you, I will give it to you; if I can't give it to you, find someone else to give it to you. As for whether others will give it to you or not, that is your business.

2. To deal with a hypocritical person, do not scold her or expose her, but let her continue to be sadly hypocritical, and then pretend to know nothing. Slowly, many people will come to tell you how hypocritical she is.

3. To deal with a selfish person, don’t hate her or ignore her, but gradually stay away from her, stay away from her from the bottom of your heart, and then pretend you don’t know anything. If she goes to find someone else, you will find that many people stay away from her.

4. There is never anyone you can’t live without. Just because you can’t live without now, doesn’t mean you can’t live without forever. There is nothing you can't give up. If you don't give up, you may give up first.

5. Except for parents, no one does not ask for anything in return. A lover's kindness to you is based on love and harmony, and a friend's kindness to you is based on sharing interests and eliminating loneliness. Not to mention other people.

6. Although it is difficult to live alone, you must learn to be alone and not to rely on others easily.

This is to prevent you from living well when everyone around you leaves.

7. When you are sick, you must value yourself and cannot wait for someone to value you. By that time, you will find that you are already very uncomfortable both physically and mentally.

8. When studying alone in a different place, you must learn to communicate more with your parents and learn to listen more to your elders. You must learn to be patient. There is nothing you can't bear. No matter how wrong others are, you don't have to punish yourself for others' mistakes.

9. However, when others say something, try to listen carefully and pay careful attention to what others say to you. No matter what the original intention is, you can believe it but not respond completely. This is respect for people.

10. Don’t test your good friends easily, otherwise you will be either very disappointed or you will be labeled as “crazy and thinks too much”.

11. Don’t be sentimental to others easily, even if you are really sentimental. Others may not understand your sentimentality, nor do they have the obligations and responsibilities. In this case, what you want to vent turns into humiliating yourself and deepening the pain.

12. Under no circumstances can you play games with others. Those who play games with others will be played by others. No matter how smart you are, you are not the most powerful one.

13. Don't grab the interests that belong to others, but you can't allow others to grab your own. This is the principle.

14. There is no need to be jealous of other people’s grades, popularity, status, scholarships, etc. There are five reasons: 1. Others may really pay more than you, but you just don’t see it. 2. These things can only bring temporary satisfaction, not permanent satisfaction, so don’t worry. 3. There are rules of the game that you can’t play, and those who can play are very tired. 4. If you are not as good as others, you must be better than others. Just wait for the opportunity. 5. If you don’t fight for these, you will have more friends.

15. If you can help others, do your best. If you can't help, don't force yourself.

16. For people who like to fight against you, you must first objectively reflect on yourself, correct yourself, and eliminate your own reasons. Secondly, see how childish she is and let her be unhappy alone.

17. For people who have different living habits from yours, keep a little distance from them, and then each can live his or her own life without affecting others, and don't ask others to change.