1. Choose appropriate cosmetics and makeup methods that are consistent with your temperament, face shape, age and other characteristics, and choose appropriate hairstyles to increase your charm. ①The thickness or lightness of makeup depends on the time and occasion. ②Do not wear makeup in public places. ③Don’t put on makeup in front of men. ④Don’t criticize other people’s makeup. ⑤Don’t borrow other people’s cosmetics. ⑥Men should not wear excessive makeup. 2. Clothing and Etiquette 1. Pay attention to the characteristics of the times and reflect the spirit of the times; 2. Pay attention to personal personality characteristics 3. Taboos for white-collar women should conform to their own body shape. Taboo 1: Hair style is too trendy. Taboo 2: Hair is as messy as grass. Taboo 3: Makeup is too exaggerated. Taboo 4: Face is blue and lips are white. Taboo 5: Clothes are too trendy. Taboo 6: Dressing up is too sexy. Taboo 7 : Pretending to be a "female hero" every day. Taboo 8: Wearing "platform shoes". Four signs and flaws of Chinese gentlemen 1. Ten details of a Chinese gentleman: ① Have clean, slender hands and neatly manicured nails. ② Although I don’t smoke, I carry a lighter with me so that I can light up the women around me when they smoke. ③ Change shirts every day, keep collars and cuffs flat and clean, and some will use cufflinks. ④ Do not hang items around your waist, such as mobile phones, pagers, etc. ⑤ When getting along with women, do not miss every detail to take care of her, and operate almost in a completely subconscious state, so that you can fight without danger. ⑥ Never make a sound while eating. ⑦ Use polite expressions more frequently than ordinary people. ⑧ Preference for solitude, seeking a quiet mind, a quiet body and passionate meditation. Gentlemen therefore like classics on ideas, dance, literature and art, and rarely read flashy and noisy trendy works, including movies and TV shows. After reading it once or twice, if you think it is vulgar, you will never pick it up again, including discussing it. ⑨ His emotions and anger are invisible, and he is alone and silent in the crowd. ⑩ Overthinking in attitude towards love, often appearing indecisive. 2． The top ten flaws of Chinese gentlemen: ① The hands are clean and beautiful, but once you enter a room where you need to take off your shoes, a strange smell will be produced in the air. ② Although I carry a lighter with me, it is a disposable plastic lighter. ③ When wearing a brand-name watch, the wrist is raised in a domineering manner. ④ Although I change my shirt every day, I always wear the same tie. ⑤ Although there is no cell phone or pager hanging around my waist, I often talk loudly into my cell phone in public places and let my cell phone ring in the theater. ⑥ Although he has great respect for women, the contrast is too great when getting along with friends of the same sex, and he feels like two people. ⑦ He makes no noise when eating, but attracts attention when drinking soup. ⑧ Although polite expressions are used more frequently than ordinary people, it is so frequent that it is suspicious. ⑨ Prefer solitude to the point of being afraid of meeting strangers. ⑩ Overthinking about your attitude towards love does not mean that you cannot make up your mind, but that you do not intend to believe it at all. 2. Behavior and etiquette (1) To create a good communication image, you must pay attention to politeness and etiquette. For this reason, you must pay attention to your behavior and behavior. Behavior and etiquette are an expression of sincerity. A person's external behavior can directly indicate his attitude. Be courteous and generous, abide by the general etiquette of entering and exiting, and try to avoid all kinds of impolite and uncivilized habits. (2) Visit the customer's office or home, ring the doorbell or knock gently before entering, and then stand at the door and wait. Do not ring the doorbell or knock on the door for too long, and do not enter the room without anyone or without the owner's permission. (3) Behavior in front of customers ☆ When you see a customer, you should nod, smile and salute. If you do not have a prior appointment, you should first apologize to the customer and then explain your intention. At the same time, take the initiative to greet or nod everyone present. ☆ In the customer's home, you are not allowed to visit the house without invitation. Even if you are familiar with the customer, you are not allowed to touch or play with the things on the customer's table, let alone play with the customer's business card. Do not touch the books, flowers, plants and other furnishings in the room. ☆ It is not easy to sit down before others (the host) are seated. The sitting posture should be upright, the body should be slightly tilted forward, and do not cross the legs. ☆ Use a positive attitude and a gentle tone to talk to customers. When customers talk, listen carefully and answer with "yes" first.

Look at each other's eyes and constantly pay attention to their expressions. ☆ When standing, your upper body should be stable, put your hands on your sides, don't carry your back, don't hold your hands in front of your chest, and don't tilt your body to one side. When the host gets up or leaves the table, he should stand up at the same time to signal. When meeting the customer for the first time or saying goodbye, he should be neither humble nor overbearing, unhurried, behave appropriately, and be polite and courteous. ☆ Develop good habits and overcome various indecent behaviors. Do not blow your nose, pick ears, pick teeth, trim nails, yawn, cough, or sneeze in front of customers. If you can't help it, cover your mouth and nose with your hands, face to the side, and try not to make any noise. Don't throw away scraps of peel, confetti, etc. Although these are some details, they combine to form the customer's overall impression of you. It should be noted that wearing makeup in front of others is the most annoying female habit for men. On this point, conventions are relaxed. After eating in a restaurant, no one will make a fuss if a woman is seen putting on lipstick or lightly applying powder. However, it can only be this little, not too much. When you need to comb your hair, polish your nails, apply lipstick and makeup, or apply lipstick with a brush, please go to the dressing room or bathroom. Fixing your appearance in front of others is one of the most irritating habits of women to men. Similarly, you should be as restrained as possible when arranging your hair, clothes, or looking in the mirror in front of others. 3. Conversation Etiquette (1) Social Phrases When meeting someone for the first time, you should say: It's a pleasure to meet someone else. You should say: Visiting and waiting for others. You should say: I'm waiting to invite you. Don't send it. Application: If you stay, the other party's letter should be called: Huishu, trouble. Others should say: Excuse me. To help, you should say: I'm sorry. To ask for convenience. You should say: To lend a helping hand to do things. You should say: Please ask for advice. You should say: Ask for advice. Ask for answers. Application: Ask for praise. Application: Give advice. Return the original object. You should say: When asking for forgiveness, you should say: Forgive me. Welcome customers. Respond: Visit the elderly. Age. Respond: Longevity. Long time no see. Should say: Long time no see. Guests have arrived. Application: Visit before leaving. Should say: Excuse me. Say goodbye. Application: Yazheng. 2. Eight annoying behaviors in communication ① Frequently complaining to others, including personal finance, health, and work situation, but not caring about other people's problems and never being interested; ② Nagging, only talking about trivial matters, Or keep repeating some superficial topics and useless opinions; ③ Overly serious attitude, unsmiling; ④ Monotonous speech, intangible emotions, dull mood; ⑤ Lack of involvement, quietly independent; ⑥ Hyperreactive, exaggerated tone Vulgar; ⑦ Self-centered; ⑧ Overly enthusiastic about gaining favor from others. 3. 26 mistakes that damage personal charm in communication ◎ Not paying attention to the tone of your speech, often speaking in an unpleasant and confrontational tone ◎ Preferring to speak when you should remain silent ◎ Interrupting others ◎ Abusing personal pronouns, even using personal pronouns in every sentence ◎ Ask questions in an arrogant manner, giving people the impression that only he is the most important ◎ Insert some topics that are close to you but will make others feel embarrassed ◎ No Come on ◎ Brag about yourself ◎ Make fun of society’s dress codes ◎ Make phone calls at inappropriate times ◎ Talk about boring things on the phone that others don’t want to hear ◎ Write an overly intimate letter to someone you don’t know ◎ Don’t care about yourself Understand, and freely express opinions on anything◎ Openly question the reliability of other people's opinions Ability ◎ Correct the mistakes of subordinates and colleagues in front of others ◎ Complain when being rejected when asking for help ◎ Use friendship to ask for help ◎ Inappropriate or offensive words ◎ Express dislike on the spot ◎ Always thinking about misfortune or pain ◎ Complaining about politics or religion ◎ Acting too intimately 4. "Ten Don'ts" in Socializing ◎ Don't visit people who are busy with their careers. Even if you have to go, you should leave as soon as possible after finishing things; don't miss appointments or be uninvited guests. ◎ Don’t give gifts just to do errands.

Gifts should be directly proportional to concern for closeness, but in any case, gifts should be affordable and must not be given as "waiting for things" or "disposal". ◎ Don’t deliberately attract attention, overwhelm others, and don’t be timid or feel inferior. ◎ Don’t be overly curious about other people’s affairs, inquire again and again, and don’t offend other people’s taboos. ◎ Don’t gossip or spread rumors. ◎ You cannot ask others to conform to your own temper. Please know that your temper is not suitable for everyone. You should learn to be tolerant. ◎ Do not dress disheveled, dirty, or smell bad. On the contrary, clothing that is too gorgeous and frivolous will also make others unhappy. ◎ Do not cough, burp, spit, etc. without concealment, and do not modify your appearance in public. ◎ Don’t be disorderly, and have appropriate etiquette. ◎ Don’t leave without saying goodbye. When leaving, you should say goodbye to the host and express your gratitude.