...Everyone's values ??are different...
To be honest, people nowadays are still more concerned about material things. It would be difficult if the conditions of both parties are very different. It's acceptable. Even if girls haven't considered this yet, their parents are definitely not very happy...
But the title says it's in the suburbs... It's still Shanghai after all. In fact, it's The urban area is not that far away...
When it comes to influence, I probably don’t know much about it. If you know the other person’s family situation from the beginning and still talk about it, it means that the person doesn’t care about it very much. If you do, The issue of the other party's location would not have started. Without the start, there would be no so-called influence on the relationship~
Everyone has their own opinions on the issue of housing prices. The man should at least be able to afford a down payment and the remaining balance. It is very common for young people to struggle on their own~ But if you can't even pay the down payment, then there is nothing to say...
You still have to find someone with a similar family background to your own, otherwise even if you get married, The family backgrounds are so far apart that it is difficult for both families to get along...