The best self-discipline for an adult

The best self-discipline for an adult is to make friends carefully, read more and speak less.

Be careful when making friends, you can avoid the disaster of villains. Reading more can nourish the beauty of the soul. If you speak less nonsense, you can keep the virtue of good words.

There is a long couplet in Yuelu Academy, which reads:

Right and wrong should be judged by oneself;

Reputation and praise should be judged by others;

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Be content with the gains and losses;

More and more adults like to be alone and no longer engage in useless social interactions.

I just left school and started working in the workplace. I wanted to be active, serve tea and water, and always follow my seniors, hoping to learn more.

But as time goes by, you will find that it is better to work quietly. The more active you are, the more people will maliciously slander you.

Because no matter what you do, there will be people criticizing you behind your back; anything good in the forest will be destroyed by the wind.

Adults have become more and more thorough about human nature.

I have my own judgment on right and wrong, so I can feel at ease;

It’s their business to say what others say, so just pretend you didn’t hear it.

Adults like to be alone, but their spiritual world also needs to be nourished

Reading has become the most correct choice for them

Although there are various listening software now, Reading tablets allow everyone to quickly understand a book

But real reading is not about a casual encounter

but about falling in love with a book. Fall in love with it, be obsessed with it, and stay with it for life.

Hold a book in your hand, chew the words carefully, connect with the author's thoughts, and touch your own heart flow.

Elders always tell us: talk less and do more

In today’s workplace, it is really important to speak less nonsense

Misfortune comes from the mouth

Because you don’t know whether the person next to you is a comrade or an enemy

In a workplace where interests come first, talking less and quietly accumulating abilities is the way to survive