It is neither abrupt nor rude to analyze other people's temperament and hobbies in this indirect way, and it is also a very wise form to judge whether the other person is suitable to be his friend.
Friends circle and group chat betray a person's true character. Have you noticed these before?
If you meet this kind of person, if the relationship is average, you will feel that the personality difference is too great. If you don't want to have nothing to do, just chat with him and keep silence and distance.
After all, people send their own circle of friends. If you have to worry about other people's feelings, rewrite your locked diary. If you are bored, block it, so it is unnecessary to feel disgusted with others.
2. The content reflects whether the mind is negative or positive.
In the WeChat circle, you can better see a person's three views and inner activity patterns. Some people, who complain all day, have a rather negative attitude towards the world and society.
In this case, you should analyze it carefully. Let's see if he changes suddenly or always. If it is the former, it proves that the other party may have encountered something that he feels very unhappy at present.
Because there is no place to talk, hiding in my heart is very depressing, so I will vent in my circle of friends, so as to achieve a little emotional balance.
However, if the other person always likes to complain in the circle of friends, then it seems a bit extreme to look at the people, things and the whole society around him. You should spray a few words on everything to show your maverick. Then he is either a cynic or an online spitter.
Anyway, it's right to be a type that has nothing to do with it. If you irritate them, you can also make them unhappy. If their psychology can't achieve balance and peace through self-adjustment, they will vent their anger by asking for trouble.
3. The tone of communication with people can be regarded as grumpy or mild.
Don't think that the circle of friends is harmonious. You have a good temper and personality, and everyone you meet will be just like you. Everyone's birth environment, education level, past experience and so on will have an impact on his character. In addition, nature is different, so you must accept these natural differences.
If you find the right friend, you will naturally get close. There is no need to challenge the difficulty. It is a skill and ability to conquer all the people in the circle of friends. This is too obsessive-compulsive.
To tell the truth, for some people who are not so peaceful and don't want to chat all day, they will find the chat sentences that you keep sending to show closeness and friendliness very troublesome and confusing. It is normal that they are unwilling to give the same response.
If you find that the other person always uses: hmm, ok, I see, hehe, I'll get back to you. You can leave if you are interested and people don't necessarily want to make friends with you. If you want to chat, you have to find someone who takes pains and will try to reply to his message as soon as possible.
In the interaction and tone with people, we can see whether the other person is grumpy or gentle. Don't want to be bored. When you meet the former, be polite and leave in time.
The dragon gave birth to nine children, all of whom are different, not to mention all kinds of people in the world. People who can be friends are people who have no antipathy to you, have similar views (at least can communicate and understand) and are willing to communicate with each other. You can find the type that suits you by chatting in WeChat friends circle and group.
But finally, it is worth mentioning that you can express your personality at will, but don't have ideas that others have to accept and agree with. Perhaps for what you show, the other party will reject and resent for no reason, just because it doesn't match your personality.
The world is so big, why not force others, right?