Number 1: Don't be arrogant. If you put on a high horse as soon as school starts, it will make others think you are difficult to get close to. The expression on your face should be natural and generous, to avoid dull expression. If a classmate borrows a book or something that can help others, help if you can. It is natural to do so. When you come to a new school and face a strange class group, you will inevitably feel a little lonely and even feel "still good friends". In fact, people with different personalities have different ways of making friends: cheerful people can become friends in a relatively short time, while introverts are unlikely to become friends with others in a short time, but through long-term communication, everyone can form a stable interpersonal circle. No matter what kind of personality you belong to, you should get familiar with your new classmates as soon as possible after school starts, so that you can experience a sense of collective belonging and develop new friendships on this basis, thus eliminating the negative emotions brought by loneliness. To master certain speaking skills, you'd better recite some jokes that you think are funniest. People with a sense of humor are usually very popular. When the new collective was first established, everyone was actively and generously looking for their partners. Once their circle of friends is formed, it is not easy to change. If you haven't established your own interpersonal circle at this time, it's easy to be alone and feel sorry for yourself in the later collective life.

Second: it has its own characteristics. Don't make friends just to make friends. This utilitarian way of making friends was disgusting when I was a student. If you are sincere, you will get along well for a while, but after a long time, this insincere and tricky friendship is really fragile. Even if you are sincere to others, don't expect others to be sincere to you. In Britain, if an old man doesn't ask you to help her cross the street, but you help her, she will think you are discriminating against her. Everyone has his own life logic. Don't help others blindly, even if it is a humble thing. Learn to distinguish different people, and someone will be in tune with you.

Third: Don't be wishful thinking and work hard. When you were a student, the great factor that made others sit up and take notice of you was your excellent grades. In college, you may also have your own expressive ability, practical ability and other related factors. Do your job well and don't mind what you shouldn't. Do you have anything outstanding? Do you have any outstanding abilities that can even be called talents? Try to do one thing first to make yourself think highly of yourself and feel satisfied and fulfilled, instead of catering to others. It takes a stage to adapt to the new school and learn slowly. This is a natural process.

Good luck!