It depends on the situation. If it is a family member or an elder you have promoted, you should not block the drink. But some words from normal friends should be blocked

If you act smart enough and manly enough, even if you die, there will still be many people giving thumbs up, and there will also be MM... .

Teach you a trick, before the guests arrive, prepare a "watery wine" yourself. Haha, when I was the hotel sales manager, many guys did this, at weddings When people don't arrive, they usually come first

1: For red wine, he will mix a lot of cola himself, don't add Sprite, the color will become lighter, haha!

2: Just add water to the liquor yourself. Don’t add too much. People at weddings are very sophisticated and some people will smell it, haha!

And if it’s beer, I will pray for you. , haha! It depends on your eloquence. Not only must you be able to hold back wine, but you must also be able to persuade people to drink. If others don't want you to drink, you will be able to make divinations faster. You must also be good at persuading people to drink. The following is about persuading people to drink.

1 Is the relationship iron-clad? Iron! Then you are not afraid of stomach bleeding!

Are the feelings deep? Deep! Then you are not afraid of intravenous injection!

2 If you can drink one tael, drink two taels. This will make you a generous friend!

If you can drink two taels, drink five taels. This is the way to cultivate comrades!

If you can drink half a catty, drink one. Jin, this is the most considerate thing!

If you can drink one kilogram, drink one bucket, you will be promoted to vice president later!

If you can drink one bucket, drink one tank, the director of the winery will let you You should!

3 If you don’t want people to know, unless you drink a toast

I don’t know much, so I may use it for you, the wine-stopping words:

一, As long as the relationship is good, you can drink as much as you can.

You can expand and say: "It is difficult for nine thousand nine hundred and ninety-nine roses to complete a love." Only if the feelings are not enough, then roses are used to make up for it. Therefore, as long as the relationship is good, drink as much as you can. I don't want our feelings to be mixed with so much 'moisture'. Although I drank a little, this little bit was a drop of strong emotion. Everything is love! ”

2. As long as the feelings are in place, you will be intoxicated even if you don’t drink.

Try saying this: “Drinking with people you don’t like is a kind of pain; Drinking with people you like is a touching experience. When we come together, it shows that our feelings are in place. As long as the emotion is in place, you will be intoxicated even if you don't drink. ”

3. As long as you have feelings, whatever you drink is wine.

If you really can’t drink alcohol, you might as well convince the other person to replace the alcohol with drinks or tea. Ask him: "Do we have feelings for each other? "He will answer: "Yes! You took advantage of the situation and said, "As long as there are feelings, whatever you drink will be wine." What are feelings? Feeling is understanding. Long live understanding! "You can then express your feelings by using tea instead of wine.

Four. If you have shallow feelings, even if you drink a big bowl; if you have deep feelings, even if you lick it.

Thousands of words can be said on the wine table. , it just boils down to one word "drink". For example: "If you don't drink this glass of wine, you must think I'm ugly." "For example: "If you have deep feelings, swallow it in one gulp; if you have shallow feelings, lick it. "The drinker associates the amount of drinking with the beauty and ugliness of a person and the depth of emotion. You can refute their connection: "If the depth of emotion is directly proportional to the amount of drinking, a glass of wine is not enough to express our deep feelings. . We should jump into the wine vat together, because we have been friends for many years and our love is as deep as the ocean. In fact, if you have shallow feelings, you can drink a big bowl; if you have deep feelings, you can even lick it. "

5. In order not to hurt my feelings, I drink; in order not to hurt my body, I drink a little.

He advises you: "Drink! Emotional iron, drink it and bleed! It is better to hurt the body than to hurt the feelings; it is better to drink a hole in the stomach than to let the feelings be cracked! "This is a sign of irrationality. You can answer this: "We must consume rationally and drink rationally." "Leave half awake, half drunk, at least I will have you following me in my dreams." ’ I am someone who is willing to be hurt both physically and emotionally. Without the body, there is no emotion; without emotion, there is nothing but a walking corpse! In order not to hurt my feelings, I drink; in order not to hurt my body, I drink a little.

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6. In this happy moment, let’s do multiple-choice questions!

Let’s open up our minds a little, and here’s how to refuse drinking. He wants to express his love for you through drinking. To show your affection, you say: "You can do multiple-choice questions when you are happy. To express love and affection, you can A. Hug, B. Hold hands, C. Drink, choose one. If I respect you, let you choose; if you respect me, you should let me choose. Now, I choose A. Hug, okay? ”

7. A gentleman speaks but does not use his hands.

If he wants you to drink a toast, you can cleverly set up a "two difficulties" and invite him to enter the urn. You ask him: "Are you willing to be a gentleman?" Or do you want to be a villain? Please answer this question first. If he says "I want to be a gentleman," then you can say, "The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water," and offer tea instead of wine, or say, "A gentleman uses his mouth, but not his hands, and you drink with your mouth," and invite him to drink; "I'm willing to be a villain", then you say "I don't drink with villains", and then sit down with a smile, and he can do nothing about it.

Replacing wine with tea will last forever! As long as you dare to be kind, you can drink anything. Drinking. As long as the true feelings are there, it’s okay to drink as much or as little as you want.

In short, there are many ways to resist drinking, and you have to adapt accordingly. In the drinking culture, there are both words to persuade and refuse to drink. As for wine words, if you don’t have the capacity to drink, you can use your wit and eloquence to deal with the situation with ease

China’s wine culture is extensive and profound, and I will teach you how to use wine as a communication medium to welcome guests. Seeing off guests, gathering friends, communicating with each other, and conveying friendship play a unique role. Therefore, exploring the "mysteries" of the wine table will help you succeed in soliciting communication.

1. Crowd. Have fun together and avoid whispering

Most banquets have many guests, so you should try to talk about topics that most people can participate in, so as to gain the approval of most people because of their different interests and knowledge. , so the topic should not be too biased, avoid talking about yourself, talking about everything, going off topic, and ignoring everyone.

Especially try not to whisper to others and give others a sense of humor. The sense of mystery often leads to the jealousy of "just the two of you", which affects the effect of drinking.

2. Target the guest and host and grasp the overall situation

Most banquets have a theme. , that is, the purpose of drinking. When attending a banquet, you should first look around at everyone's expressions and distinguish priorities. Don't drink just for the sake of drinking and lose a good opportunity to make friends. Don't let some grandstanding drunks disturb the host. .

3. Appropriate language and humor

Spreading on the table can show a person's talent, common sense, cultivation and communicative grace. Sometimes a humorous language can impress the guests. It will leave a deep impression and make people like you. Therefore, you should know when to say what to say, and humor is very important.

4. Don’t force your drink.

We often encounter the phenomenon of persuading people to drink at the wine table. Some people always like to treat the wine shop as a battlefield and try their best to persuade others to drink more. They think that not drinking enough is unrealistic.

"A hero is judged by drinking" is okay for people who drink a lot, but it is difficult for people who drink a little. Sometimes excessive persuasion will completely destroy the original relationship between friends.

5. Toast. Orderly, with clear priorities

Toasting is also a science. Generally speaking, toasts should be made in order of age, position, and identity of the guest and host. Before toasting, you must fully consider the order of the toasts and clearly distinguish the priorities. . Even if you are drinking with someone you are not familiar with, you should first inquire about their identity or pay attention to how they are addressed. This should be known to avoid embarrassing or hurtful feelings.

When toasting, you must grasp the order of toasting. When you have a request for a guest at the table, you should naturally be more respectful to him. However, be aware that if there is a higher status or older person present, you should not only be respectful to the person who can help you, but also be respectful first. Give a toast to the venerable elders, otherwise everyone will be embarrassed.

6. Observe words and colors and understand people’s hearts

If you want to get everyone’s appreciation at the wine table, you must learn to watch words and colors.

Because when communicating with people, you need to understand people's hearts and be able to play both sides well in order to play the role at the wine table.

7. Be sharp and steady

At a banquet, you should clearly understand the occasion, correctly evaluate your own strength, don’t be too impulsive, and try to retain some drinking power and sense of speaking. Don't let others look down on you, don't reveal yourself too much, choose appropriate opportunities, and gradually radiate your edge, so that you can sit firmly on the mountain, and avoid giving others the idea of ????"just this ability", so that people dare not underestimate your ability. strength.

Toast means that at a formal banquet, the host proposes to the guests to drink for a certain reason. When drinking, it is usually necessary to say some blessings and blessings, and even the host and guest of honor will give a special toast. The shorter the toast, the better.

Toasting can be done at any time while drinking. If a formal toast is given, it should be given at a specific time and should not affect the guests' meal. The toast is suitable to start after the guests and hosts are seated and before the meal. It can also be done after the main course and before dessert is served.

When drinking, especially toasting, someone needs to take the lead in making a toast. It can be the host, the guest of honor, or someone present. When proposing a toast, you should stand up and hold the wine glass with your right hand, or after picking up the wine glass with your right hand, hold the bottom of the glass with your left hand, smile, look at other toast recipients, especially yourself, and say blessings at the same time. .

Someone suggested that after toasting, you should stand up with a wine glass in hand. Even if you don't drink alcohol, you still have to pick up a glass and show off. Raise the wine glass to eye level, and after saying "cheers", drink the wine in one gulp or drink an appropriate amount. Then, you have to hold the wine glass and look at the proposer, and the process is over.

In Chinese food, before toasting, you can symbolically clink your glasses with the other person; when clinking glasses, you should make your own glass lower than the other person's glass to show your respect for the other person. Gently touching the table with the bottom of the wine glass can also mean clinking glasses with the other person. When you are far away from the other party, you can completely use this method to do it for you. If the host makes a toast in person, ask him to return the toast and drink another drink with him.

Under normal circumstances, toasts should be given in order of age, position, and status of guest and host. The order of toasting must be fully considered and the priority should be clearly defined. Even if you are drinking with someone you are not familiar with, you should first inquire about his identity or pay attention to the names he is given by others to avoid embarrassment or hurt feelings. Even if you want something from a guest at the table, you should be more respectful to him. However, if there are people of higher status or older people present, toast to the elders first, otherwise it will make everyone embarrassed.

If you are not suitable for drinking due to living habits or health reasons, you can also entrust relatives, friends, subordinates, juniors to drink on your behalf, or use drinks or tea instead. As a toaster, you should be fully considerate of the other party. When the other party asks someone to drink instead of drinking or using a drink instead, you should not insist on letting the other party drink, nor should you curiously "break the casserole and ask the truth." You know, if someone doesn't take the initiative to explain the reason, it means that the other person thinks this is his privacy.

In Western food, only champagne is used for toasts, and you cannot cross the people around you and toast with others