First, social interaction should not focus on quantity, but on quality. Having 1 grateful, capable and kind friends is more useful than 10 ordinary friends. Presumably, everyone has had a similar experience: in the past, we used to send messages to each other to send blessings, but now few people send messages in groups. Because everyone knows that instead of spending time on "ineffective socializing", it is better to use this time to cherish what you have around you. You only pay attention to the number of friends. It looks beautiful for a short time, but after a long time, you will find that you don't even have a friend to talk to.
Second: Similarity of three views is the standard of making friends. Although a considerable part of social communication between people is determined by interests; But there is still a part, which is determined by the three views. What are the three views? Generally speaking, three views include: world outlook, outlook on life and values. The world outlook is a person's vision, his mind and the world in his eyes. Outlook on life is a person's planning for himself, his imagination for the future and his definition of life. As for values, it is more like a person's choice to face some things, from falling in love and getting married to eating and fitness. People with similar views can feel comfortable getting along; People with different views always feel strange and can't let go.