1, Life Mission: If you want to establish close relationship with others, you must first know your own needs in this respect and hope to maintain good close relationship with people around you. Without such needs and missions, we would not unconsciously express our concern for the people around us. Recently, the copy of mother's day in Hangzhou subway station has attracted a lot of people's attention. One of them says, "I hope you can be the role model you want in the future, so I choose to be an example for you first." This is the mission of a great mother to her children. And each of us should have our own mission. My mission is to establish good and friendly interpersonal relationships with people around me, and help, trust and be intimate with relatives, friends and lovers.
2. Trust: If you want to establish a close relationship with others, I think a big reason is trust in each other, which is the * * * relationship between people mentioned above. Because I trust you, I am willing to confide in you, to communicate with you, to dedicate my time to you, and to blend with you. Trust is largely related to whether you really think of others. It is empathy listening, you consider each other's feelings, you know how to respect and understand each other, your sincerity and humility, and your personality charm.
3. Skills: In fact, there are certain skills and methods to establish close relationships with people. Some people are naturally familiar with each other, and some people can get in touch with others as soon as they meet. People who don't have these characteristics might as well learn their methods and skills. When you use it, you will find that intimate relationships are not as obstacles as you think. For example, for two people who meet for the first time, open-ended questions are a quick way to start a conversation. Try touching the body surface, shaking hands, hugging, high-fiving, shoulder to shoulder, etc. Let go of your psychological precautions and try these simple tips.