On this old horse, there are new people joining the interpersonal circle, but it is more realistic. I borrow your resources, and you help me develop the fund. I respect you for helping me eat, but if you need more than the help of these people in the future, or if this circle can't make you gain more, what will you choose? In short, when choosing interpersonal circle at the beginning, we should make a choice from the perspective of the future, and the circle that is better than ourselves is the best circle.
(social circle)
Speaking of circles, we can make an analogy, such as people in the north and south. Most southerners do business not because they are born businessmen, but because they study and explore step by step in the big environment, which is a circle with strong magnetic field.
Northerners, on the other hand, have a strong cultural atmosphere, and they are not born with cultural talent, but gradually transformed from history and culture. Whether it's college or college entrance examination, the scores are alarmingly high. Personally, this circle is understood as "advocating literature", headed by culture.
For example, in the express delivery industry, according to relevant data, there are about 2,500 express delivery companies in China. Most bosses are husband and wife, brothers and sisters, but in terms of relationship, they are all in a state of intimate sexual relationship. This also shows that the family environment is also an interpersonal circle, a circle that expects to develop better.
Therefore, no matter which circle you are in, no matter how awesome you are, you can't stop moving forward. You should see your own limitations, understand your own problems, and seek a better circle to avoid or solve problems and improve yourself.
Interpersonal communication starts with dolls.
In this society, which generally believes that "children can't lose at the starting line", children have been placed in the circle of well-studied children by their parents since childhood, or in the circles of various experimental schools and top schools. Be sure to get in and do well. Such expectations are imposed on children. They don't know how to find the right interpersonal circle. Parents help them choose, but they also ignore their own needs. Is the so-called "good circle" really good in the eyes of parents?
(learning circle)
(professional guidance)
Why parents are eager to let their children have what they think is a "good circle";
The subtle influence of (1) behavior will affect many cognitive behaviors of children and make them have better behaviors;
(2) The guidance of so-called industry experts, observing children, guiding norms and learning methods, so that children can develop better;
(3) Constantly choosing a better circle is similar to the feeling of becoming stronger and avoiding weakness.
I'd rather rent in a high-end residential area and save money every day.
My previous job was in Qingdao. At that time, faced with the problem that the house was due, I thought about discussing the choice of renting a community with my friends. At that time, my friend said: Even if you don't know each other, you can observe your clothes, from clothes to cars to manners. Such a rental environment will also have a subtle influence on yourself.
Different social circles will let you know different things. When you constantly experience different circles, you will definitely have the opportunity to create possibilities and choose better ones. As long as you know what to choose and what to choose.
(High-end residential area = real classroom)
The so-called cowshed
What is a cow? My personal understanding is: people who have their own unique opinions in a certain industry or field, and are generally accepted and recognized by the industry, and spread them.
In the circle of Niu X, communication is more about the development trend of the industry, the future development direction and the shaping of brand and personal value, rather than the straightforward mutual assistance of resources and currency circulation. This kind of directional question will make you understand which direction to start at this stage and combine your own guidance with your personal development will. It is not only the promotion of talent, but also the rise of personal achievement that is the king of the ox X circle.
(Guidance from industry leaders)
For now, I have ideas and ability; Only by looking forward to the future, looking forward to it and planning can we have a better future.
Exploration+curiosity+interpersonal circle = future success