Every child is unique and has his own personality and temperament style. Due to the influence of biological genetic factors and acquired educational environment and methods, they will all develop in various survival directions and accompany them for life. Of course, this journey is not smooth, and it will grow slowly after experiencing all kinds of wrestling pains. For the little things on the road of children's growth, parents are accompanied by happiness and pain, and sometimes even worry about a little thing, for example, boys just want to play with girls. What should I do? Do I think it doesn't matter, or do I already care about the way children communicate?

When boys just want to play with girls, parents don't have to worry. First, calm down and see how the baby will behave in the process of playing with the opposite sex, and compare it with the same-sex baby. When a child chooses a partner to play, he often has his consciousness and thoughts. Either he thinks that the other person is gentle and has no aggressive behavior, generous and cheerful, or he thinks that the other person has something that attracts him, or he thinks that he can play together without fear and be more relaxed. If you are really worried about your child's communication orientation, you can talk to him when he is having fun and understand his communication interests and ideas, from which you can guide him to get along with the same sex according to his communication interests. When a child finds pleasure and fun in playing with the same sex, he will let go of himself, try to play with his companions step by step, and gradually build up confidence in communication. At this time, his parents encouraged him to communicate with different objects, accept the new environment and express himself boldly.

Therefore, in order to avoid the deviation of children's personality, it is best to cultivate children's gender awareness before they enter kindergarten, and guide them step by step from living habits and ways of making friends.