? At the beginning of April, a friend sent a message in a circle of friends: I never thought Lin was a noble person. Comparatively speaking, Jiang Yang is much more noble than her. Seeing this news, I am anxious to comment: Lin is my big Fuzhou girl, and the girls in the south are more delicate and affectionate. The friend replied: Oh, I don't know much about Lin, my personal opinion. I was a little confused when I saw this reply, so I lost the word Lin in Baidu. The result was unexpected. There are too many negative comments about Lin. Most young people think Lin is dissolute, don't they? So I was lost in thought: maybe I was in a hurry. What do I know about Lin? No investigation, no right to speak, so I want to study her life! Only in this way can we have the confidence to express our views! So, in the next month, I went to the library to borrow Lin's biography, read Lin and Liang Sicheng's records, listened to Gao Tan Lin, saw Zhou Xun's lovely Lin, and even got to know Xu Zhimo, Bing Xin, Qian Zhongshu, Jin and other people related to Lin Yinhui. Today, I can finally summon up courage from my personal understanding.
? Lin was born in Hangzhou and his ancestral home is Fuzhou, Fujian. His father, Lin Changmin, was rebellious, received western education and was inspired by his own political revenge and views. Father's personality has a great influence on Lin's personality development. His mother is a typical woman in the old society, and his father and mother have different ideological levels, so they cannot communicate deeply. Lin's education as her parents' daughter has increased her intelligence, so she regards her daughter as a confidant instead of talking about ideals, revenge and Chinese and western cultures, so her male thoughts are deeply rooted in Lin's heart. It is said that the children of poor families are in charge early, but the inaction of Lin's biological mother has made this rich family start early. These experiences, which are different from those of other rich girls, have developed Lin's decisive, expressive and aggressive temperament.
/kloc-When she was 0/6 years old, she traveled around Europe with her father. After living in a foreign country for more than a year, her horizons are much broader than those of ordinary girls. Naturally, she acquired an elegant atmosphere. Coupled with her excellent speech and good face, the poet Xu Zhimo fell in love with her at first sight, so a poetic flower blossomed in Lin's heart. But now that Xu Zhimo has married Zhang Youyi, where should Lin's first love go? This 16-year-old girl looks weak, but her heart is very clear. In the face of Xu Zhimo's high-profile and fanatical pursuit, she understands that only young people who love to dream think that poetry and painting can live a lifetime. They don't know the hardships of reality, and they don't know that you are just embellishing me, not the whole life. She also knows that even if Xu Zhimo is divorced, she is still not the first wife. What she wants is a fair and healthy love relationship, and the unharmonious marriage of her parents has a great influence on her family view and love view. She knows exactly what the other half she wants, and this degree in her heart makes her comfortable among many men who are ambiguous. At the same time, there are so many women, such as Zhang Ailing, who are black and blue for love, but Lin has no such sad memories. Facing the love of philosopher Jin's philosophical spirit, Lin's thought is doomed to be different from ordinary people, because it is difficult for gamblers to get out of winning money, which is caused by human greed. Liang Sicheng's love for Lin is silent, and he will help Lin clean up the mess silently. Although not as gentle and romantic as Xu Zhimo, Liang Sicheng is taciturn, but he is more practical and steady. Lin is irritable, talkative and outspoken, and their personalities are just complementary. More importantly, with Liang Sicheng, Lin really recovered her depression, without that kind of sadness mixed with guilt. So Lin knew that Liang Sicheng was her last and most suitable destination.
Some people say that the measure of a woman's charm depends on the quality of the men around her. Lin was talented and had close contacts with the male elites in the cultural circles at that time. His male career and dedication make Lin feel comfortable in the male world. But there is an old saying in China: A woman who is popular with men is hard to be popular with women. Lin verified the old saying. Lin has both the freshness and elegance of southern women and the endurance and frankness of northern women, but there is nothing absolute. There is a man who is full of knowledge but can't appreciate the forest. He is Qian Zhongshu, the author of Fortress Besieged. Qian Zhongshu once published an article called "(Cat) innuendo forest". Why is Qian Zhongshu biased against Lin? Perhaps the answer can be found in his wife Jiang Yang. Jiang Yang is a low-key, down-to-earth, calm and atmospheric person. Although I also have experience in studying abroad, my thoughts are still relatively traditional, and my temperament is just the opposite of Lin. Qian Zhongshu can't stand Lin's high-profile subversion of traditional women. There are still men who don't like Lin Based on women's jealousy, naturally more women hate Lin.
When it comes to women's jealousy, we have to mention Bing Xin. Bing Xin and Lin are both from Fuzhou, educated and equally talented. Bing Xin's husband and Liang Sicheng are classmates. According to the normal development track, they should become like-minded friends, but there is no track that will never have a fork in the road. During Lin's visit to Shaanxi to inspect ancient buildings, Bing Xin wrote an article ("Our Wife's Living Room") satirizing Lin's nakedness. With Lin's strong personality, where can he stand such sarcasm? So he entrusted an altar of Shanxi mature vinegar to Bing Xin. How can Bing Xin, a scholar who advocates nature, innocence and maternal love, step into the envy of ordinary women? In the final analysis, it is because Lin is really excellent. Speaking of talent, Lin is famous not only in architecture, but also in literature. What's more, he has profound attainments in poetry and profound cultivation in philosophy. In terms of appearance and personality, she was born noble and beautiful, and her personality was not a traditional innocent girl. Her personality and appearance are contradictory. Beneath the beautiful appearance lies the magnanimity of masculinity. She can ride a horse, smoke and drink, which is quite a "grandfather". For most mainland women in 1930s, Lin was an unimaginable existence, a heresy and an unattainable "myth". Writer Lin Jianwu commented on Lin: extremely smart, with a red-hot heart, quick mouth, quick temper and strong spirit, almost all women regard her as an enemy. In fact, women like women are not fatal, and women like men attract men the most. Such women are not easily recognized by the same sex. Moreover, Lin is arrogant, devoted to academics, and disdains to perfunctory coping. It is conceivable that he is misunderstood and jealous of the same sex.
? There is also a woman who hates Lin. She is Xu Zhimo's first wife, Zhang Youyi. Strangely, she didn't hate Xu Zhimo's second wife, Lu Xiaoman, but she hated Lin Huai for life. Eason Chan (Red Rose) sings well: those who can't get it are always in turmoil, and those who are optimistic are fearless. Lin is Xu Zhimo's distant dream, so even if Lin already has Liang Sicheng, Xu Zhimo is willing to stick it on Lin himself. This is really ironic in Zhang Youyi's eyes. She loves Xu Zhimo, but Xu Zhimo ignores her love. Even after the divorce, she still loves him. She watched with distress that Xu Zhimo suffered from not being loved by Lin, but she was still a moth to the fire. She hates the pain of Lin and Xu Zhimo. But what is Lin's crime? Do you have to be a stranger and the most familiar stranger after breaking up? Is it necessary to respond to the enthusiastic pursuit of the predecessor? Lovers who once loved each other must be separated peacefully, so they can't be friends?
Lin's enthusiasm was wrapped in sharp thorns. If you can't accept these stinging surfaces, you can't touch her inner softness. Ling Shuhua, a female scholar who had a "Cambridge Diary Debate" with Lin, once commented on Lin in her later years: Unfortunately, because she is beautiful and can speak, it is difficult for her male friends to make progress. Lin has few female friends, and she has never learned to talk about those women in her life. Wilma, one of Lin's closest female friends, is an American. From her decades of contacts with female friends, we can generally see the depth of her feelings. But it also reflects that Lin's thought has advanced from the Republic of China to the United States, and her thought has long been in line with capitalist society. Lin walked in front of that era and naturally could not be understood by contemporary women. For example, a fashionable and avant-garde beauty in the 2 1 century crossed to the Republic of China, and her behavior, thoughts and treatment of people were naturally different and difficult to be accepted by the public.
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I heard that the night gave me black eyes, but I used them to look for light, and we will think of the talented Gu Cheng. Seeing the elegy of April Day on Earth and the waterfall of poetry, I remembered Lin's faint smile. As the saying goes, no one is perfect, and Lin is just a mortal. She will naturally have her temper and personality, but we should treat her according to the principle of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages. We still forgive Gu Cheng for killing his wife, but Lin is just fooling around with a few excellent men and is not harmonious with the same sex. At best, it is a personal way to make friends. Why did you label her a slut? Everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, so why should we live according to the standards in the eyes of others? A thousand readers, a thousand hamlets. Therefore, there are 100 readers and 100 forests. However, no matter which one Lin is, she should not bear the blame of this generation. At least, the shortcomings of others do not affect the talent and wealth she left to future generations.